We’ve all been there – the family asking for a ‘little’ favor that suddenly morphs into a full-blown commitment. But what happens when that favor turns into an outrageous demand for control and submission? Meet our protagonist, a 22-year-old recent graduate, who finds herself in a predicament that’s more than just a family favor. Her brother and sister-in-law have a job offer for her, but it’s not the kind of offer you’d expect. Let’s dive into her story…
The Unwilling Nanny’s Situation
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The Unexpected Proposal
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The Job Offer that Wasn’t
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The Unreasonable Demands
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The Absurd Conditions
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The Unwilling Nanny’s Response ️
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The Backlash and Family Drama
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The Aftermath and Reflections
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The Final Decision and Future Steps ♀️
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The Unwilling Nanny’s Tale: A Stand Against Control and Manipulation ️
In a shocking turn of events, our young graduate finds herself at the center of a family drama. Her brother and sister-in-law’s ‘job offer’ quickly reveals itself to be an outrageous demand for control and submission. From giving up her savings to surrendering her personal freedom, the conditions are beyond absurd. Despite the backlash and family pressure, she stands her ground, refusing to be manipulated into a life of servitude. The internet has rallied behind her, offering support and advice. Let’s see what the collective wisdom of the web has to say about this situation…
NTA. Outrageous demands, control, and potential modern slavery. Don’t do it!

NTA and your dad is reacting appropriately. These are absolutely disgusting demands, and wildly illegal too.

NTA, abusive family, struggling to find job, dad is reasonable

NTA, they want a slave. Protect yourself and say no!

Don’t be their slave! Stand up for your own life!

NTA. A bizarre nanny situation with crazy people.

NTA: Overbearing family demands control, but you deserve freedom and respect

NTA. Educate them on slavery’s abolition: 1833 in the UK!

NTA: Overbearing family controlling every aspect of your life? Not okay!

NTA. Stand up for yourself and break free from their control!
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NTA: Family wants to enslave OP, run for your life!

Commenter warns against oppressive family arrangement, supports OP’s decision.

Insane requests from family, what triggered the sudden change?

Commenter expresses disbelief and outrage at the situation, empathizes with OP

NTA: Your money, your car, your freedom Don’t let them control you!

“NTA. Refusing the job offer was the right move. Your family’s control is disturbing. Listen to your father. Keep your distance.”

NTA: Control freak family wants a slave, illegal actions!

INFO: Curiosity about controlling brother’s reasoning. NTA.

NTA. Keep your money and car, babysit on your terms

NTA hilariously threatens to remind family of their attempted enslavement

NTA. Stay away from them, that shit is ridiculous and extremely controlling.

Unbelievable! Are they messing with you? No, they’re dead serious.

NTA: Overbearing family tries to control and manipulate. Poor kids.

A frustrated commenter expresses their discontent with this subreddit

Cutting contact with abusive and controlling family. Good for you!

Liberation from an overbearing family: refusing to be a slave

NTA, cut ties with wicked family. Protect yourself and others!

NTA: Escaping an overbearing family’s toxic control

Concerns about abusive control and safety. Warning bells ringing

NTA, liberate yourself from an overbearing family. Stay strong
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NTA. Commenter empathizes with OP’s terrible live-in nanny experience

Self-involved family makes ridiculous demands, NTA stands up

NTA – Overbearing family wants 24/7 access? Tell them your price

NTA. Shocking and abusive behavior from an overbearing family

“They want a slave. This is illegal.”

Shocking control: NTA fights back against overbearing family

NTA: Freedom and independence over unreasonable demands. Live your life!

NTA: Overbearing family tries to control live-in nanny’s life

NTA: Overbearing family tries to control your life and job hunt

NTA, if this is even real. Sounds like BS.

Shocking encounter: NTA, this isn’t a job offer, it’s kidnap…

You dictate your life. Their problems, not yours.

NTA. Unconscionable control! Brother and SIL’s childcare troubles exposed.

Unreasonable demands and expectations? Not the a**hole, for sure!

Stand up for yourself and set boundaries with your family!

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s difficult situation, feeling stuck
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Young woman fights against controlling family to reclaim her freedom. NTA

Debunking the unbelievable: Is this shocking encounter really fake?

College-educated and clueless? The internet is baffled

NTA. Money vs. Misery: A Restrictive Family Dilemma

Doubting the story: A brother’s bizarre request raises eyebrows

Escape the control! Run as fast as you can!

Demanding pay for freedom? NTA takes a stand!
