Hey there, Facebook fam! Have you ever had a secret you were too afraid to share with someone you were dating? Well, buckle up, because this story is a rollercoaster of emotions, drama, and a past that’s hard to escape. Our protagonist, a 32-year-old woman, found herself in a whirlwind romance with a 36-year-old man, only for it to come crashing down when he discovered her past in the adult film industry. But there’s so much more to the story than meets the eye, and it’s time to dive in and see what really happened. ️♀️
Mysterious Beginnings
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A Toastmasters Romance
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The Heartbreaking Discovery
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Ashamed and Shocked
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A Racist Remark
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A Tragic Past
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A Foster Family Nightmare
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Parties, Drugs, and a Downward Spiral
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The Start of a Dark Journey
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A Life in Porn
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Escaping the Industry
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♀️ Running Away and Never Looking Back
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A New Beginning
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♀️ Why Didn’t I Tell Him?
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Edit: Common Questions
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How the Friend Found the Videos
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Help and Kindness
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An Apology and Closure
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No Links!
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Love Lost and a Secret Life Revealed
Our heroine’s life took a tragic turn when she lost her parents at 16 and ended up in a foster home with a shady older man named Roy. He introduced her to drugs and a life of partying, eventually leading her down the path of adult films. After years of struggling, she managed to escape the industry, get clean, and turn her life around with a successful career in computer science. But when her new love interest discovered her past, he was less than understanding. Although they won’t be getting back together, they did have a heartfelt conversation, and she’s grateful for the kindness she’s received from others. So, what does the internet think about this complicated situation? Let’s dive into the top responses and find out!
Reframing the situation as trafficking, not choice. You’re NTA.

Survivor of trafficking reveals heartbreaking past to shocked boyfriend

Defending the woman’s past in porn industry and calling out hypocrites

Supportive comment advising victim of sexual assault on how to disclose trauma.

Heartbreaking story of grooming and coercion into porn industry.

Boyfriend’s friend’s creepy behavior exposed, NTA for feeling violated

Protect your past, choose those who accept it. NTA

Sharing your past with your partner is crucial

“He has the right to choose who he dates, but where is the police?”

Opening up about past in relationships can be daunting

Empathetic comment shows support for woman’s strength and past struggles. ❤️

Supportive comment to woman with dark past in porn

Being honest about past might affect relationships, but acceptance exists

Navigating the aftermath of a shocking revelation- NAH.

Empathetic commenters support woman’s past and condemn abuse.

Victim of sex trafficking receives support for her traumatic past
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Navigating the dating world with a controversial past

Fellow CS grad curious about OP’s master’s degree plans

Dating for 2 months: Share past or f**k him

Seek legal help to remove videos and sue for sex trafficking

Being honest about past, drug use is essential for relationships.

Advice on how to disclose past porn experience to partner

Congratulate OP for overcoming addiction and pursuing education

Respectful comment emphasizes importance of consent and disclosure

Discovering partner’s past in porn, NTA but relationship over
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Survivor of trafficking opens up about painful past, receives support

Victim turned life around, NTA. You deserve someone supportive!

Discovering your partner’s past in porn can be shocking

Empathetic comment highlights male responsibility in porn industry.

Taking down her past: Can a lawyer erase her past mistakes?

Supportive comment, urging counseling and better partner, NTA.

Empathetic comment offers support and encouragement for moving forward

User hilariously shuts down requests for porn links

Heartbreaking story of not being wronged, NTA

Reclaiming your life and owning your past.

Supportive comment highlights importance of self-acceptance and moving forward

Empathetic comment supports OP who was sex trafficked, calls out boyfriend’s lack of understanding

Empathetic comment offers advice and support for woman with dark past
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Supportive comment applauds woman’s past struggles and personal growth

Encouragement to move on from traumatic past in porn

Boyfriend shocked by girlfriend’s dark past in porn industry.

Don’t shame the people making it if you consume porn too

Taking down non-consensual videos: legal and practical options

NTA shares opinion on boyfriend’s reaction to woman’s past in porn.
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Past in porn doesn’t define present. NTA for not disclosing.

Supportive comment, encouraging to find better partner for healing

Heartbreaking story of grooming, rape, trafficking, and abuse in porn.

Don’t let anyone shame you for your past. NTA

Double standards in porn culture: women shamed, men praised

Unapologetic ex-pornstar gets rid of racist boyfriend. NTA

Supportive comment, offers empathy and encouragement
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Encouraging response to disclosing past trauma and seeking therapy

Empathetic response to woman’s past in porn industry

Don’t let anyone shame you for your past.

Sharing your past is your choice, not an entitlement. Inspiring ❤️

Empathetic comment encourages survivor to seek supportive partner. ❤️

Empathetic comment supporting woman’s right to privacy and healing
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Empathetic commenter supports woman’s triumphant story and condemns ex-boyfriend

NTA turned life around, boyfriend’s racism makes him TA

Congratulating on sobriety and success in education

Advice on how to reveal dark past to boyfriend

Survivor of sex trafficking, not the a-hole. Heartbreaking experiences shared.

Important distinction between sex work and victimization highlighted. Leave boyfriend.

Empathetic comment supports woman’s past, encourages finding better partner

“Sex trafficking”: Woman’s past in porn revealed as victim

Empathetic comment supporting OP’s decision to not share her traumatic past.

NTAH, boyfriend is a bigot for shaming woman’s past career choice

Empathetic comment shows support for OP’s past and future relationships

Sex work isn’t something to be ashamed of. NTA

Dodged a bullet : Commenter defends OP from judgmental and racist ex

Encouraging response to woman’s past in porn, uplifting

Partner’s reaction to woman’s trafficking past is unacceptable

Hypocritical to break up with her for porn but support taboo sex websites

Supportive comment acknowledges exploitation in porn industry, offers empathy.

Navigating when to disclose past in porn to partner

Being honest about your past is important for a healthy relationship

Supportive reply to woman’s past in porn, empathizing with her.

Former adult actor defends woman’s right to privacy. NTA.

Honesty is the best policy in serious relationships ❤

Heartbreaking story of resilience and healing ❤

Honesty is key in relationships, even about past mistakes ❤

Encouraging comment from fellow foster kid about OP’s achievements

Amusing comment earns praise with no replies.

Empathetic comment offers support to woman with past in porn.

Supportive comment advises to carefully divulge past experiences to partners ❤️
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