We all have our limits when it comes to what we’ll tolerate from others, especially when it comes to our loved ones. A 26-year-old woman found herself in a tough spot when her boyfriend’s friend insulted her gay best friend, Cam, during a gathering at her home. Now, she’s questioning whether she was right to kick the offender out, leaving him with no place to stay. Let’s dive into the story and see if you think she made the right call.
The Birthday Plan
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Inviting Friends Over
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Jay’s Friend from Arizona
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Cam Arrives
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Meeting Jay’s Friend
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The Insult
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Cam’s Reaction
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Cam’s Family History
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Jay Apologizes
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Kicking Richard Out
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Standing Her Ground
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Jay Stands with Cam
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Not Her Problem ♀️
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A Tough Decision: Was She Right?
This woman was put in a difficult position when her boyfriend’s friend, Richard, insulted her gay best friend, Cam. After kicking Richard out of her home, she’s now questioning if she overreacted or if her decision was justified. It’s clear that she wanted to protect Cam, who has a history of being hurt by such comments, but was it fair to leave Richard without a place to stay? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Standing up for her friend, she kicks out disrespectful guest.

NTA. Supportive boyfriend and amazing friends defend against homophobic insults

Protecting a friend from a bully ️ ❌

Standing up for her friend, NTA kicks out disrespectful guest

Spot on! People like Richard often reveal their true colors.

Traveling broke and insulting friends? NTA kicks out friend.

Standing up for her friend, NTA kicks out homophobic guest

NTA, but why didn’t the boyfriend defend her bestie?

Woman kicks out rude friend who insulted her gay bestie. NTA.

Standing up for her friend, she kicked out disrespectful guest.

Standing up for your friend and being supported by your bf! #NTA

Taking a stand against bigotry and facing consequences. NTA.

Standing up for her friend and kicking out the trash. #NTA

Homophobic guest insulted host’s bestie at birthday party. NTA.

Standing up for a friend is never wrong. NTA

Standing up against homophobia and defending your guests is NTA

NTA for creating a safe and accepting home environment. Good job!

Standing up against bigotry and defending friends.

Standing up to homophobia and disrespect. NTA.

Standing up for her friend, this commenter says NTA and would have done the same.
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Standing up for your friends is always the right move

Curious how Dick knew Cam was gay, NTA kicks out friend.

NTA for kicking out boyfriend’s friend who insulted her gay bestie.

Standing up for a friend makes you NTA

Supportive comment defends person insulted by boyfriend’s friend.

Supportive comment with clever wordplay and encouragement for OP ❤️

Standing up against homophobia: NTA kicks out abusive friend

Standing up against bigotry and toxic masculinity.

NTA. Kudos to you for standing up against bigotry.

Standing up for her friend and setting boundaries.

Bigotry backfires: NTA kicks out boyfriend’s friend for insulting gay bestie

Standing up for a friend is always the right thing.

NTA stands up for her friend and shows homophobic friend the door

NTA for kicking out the homophobic friend, but where’s Jay’s support?

Kicking out boyfriend’s friend for insulting gay bestie: NTA. Cut toxic people.
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NTA. Heartwarming support for a friend’s found family ❤️

Standing up for a friend. NTA for kicking him out

Standing up against bigotry and being a true ally. #NTA

NTA. Richard was disrespectful to Cam and Jay.
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Protecting her friend, she kicks out boyfriend’s homophobic friend. NTA

NTA. Stand up for yourself and your friends.

NTA defends kicking out insulting guest, hopes he learns lesson

Standing up against homophobia and misogyny in your own home

NTA. Bigotry has consequences. Insulting strangers with slurs is unacceptable.

Standing up to bigotry: NTA kicks out homophobic friend ️

Standing up for your loved ones is always the right choice

Kicking out rude guests: NTA

Supporting LGBTQ+ friends is always the right thing to do. #NTA

NTA! Kudos for standing up for your friend.

Standing up to bigotry and hate in your own home. #NTA

Don’t insult the gay bestie or you’ll get kicked out. NTA

Homophobic friend gets the boot – NTA wins

NTA: Kicking out homophobic friend was the right thing to do

Defending a friend’s sexuality, but questioning Richard’s quick judgement.
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Standing up for yourself and your friends is always right.

NTA kicks out toxic friend who insulted her gay bestie.
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Kicking out homophobic friend: NTA, he deserved it

Standing up against homophobia and defending your friends is NTA
