Losing a friend is never easy, but when that friend leaves behind two children, the situation becomes even more complicated. After the tragic passing of her best friend Alexis, a 31-year-old woman took in Alexis’ two children, as they had agreed upon. However, things took a turn when Alexis’ estranged parents began demanding to see their grandson, despite their daughter’s explicit wishes in her will. Now, the woman faces backlash for standing her ground and protecting the children from their toxic grandparents.
Best Friends Forever, Through Thick and Thin

A Troubled Past with Parents

No Contact, Until…

A Short-Lived Reunion

Favoritism and Final Warnings ⚠️

A Heartbreaking Diagnosis

A Promise to Keep

Alexis’s Final Wishes

Grandparents Demand Access

Social Media Slander

Divided Opinions

Protecting the Children or Being Cruel?
After losing her best friend Alexis to cancer, a 31-year-old woman is now responsible for her friend’s two children. However, she faces backlash for refusing to let Alexis’ estranged parents see their grandson, despite their daughter’s explicit wishes in her will. With a history of mistreatment and favoritism, the woman is determined to protect the children from their toxic grandparents. But is she being heartless or simply honoring her friend’s wishes? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this emotional dilemma…
Stand your ground and seek legal advice. NTA!
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Toxic grandparents? NTA denies access to grandson, not granddaughter.

Following the deceased friend’s will, NTA faces harassment charges

Stand your ground. Seek legal advice to prevent harassment.

Clear will instructions make NTA’s decision justified

Defend yourself and stick to the truth. NTA

Protecting her family from ableist grandparents, NTA

Respecting boundaries even beyond the grave.

Trust your instincts and safeguard your son’s emotional well-being
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Defending a deaf grandchild against toxic grandparents.

Respecting the deceased friend’s will. NTA

Protecting children from toxic grandparents is justified. ♀️

Respect for honoring friend’s will. Condolences for your loss.

Honoring friend’s wishes, protecting grandchildren. NTA

Respecting the deceased’s wishes is more important than grandparents’ feelings. ♀️

Grandparents who wished granddaughter was dead don’t deserve access. NTA

Honoring a friend’s wishes, protecting kids from terrible people.

Respecting last wishes and protecting kids from toxic grandparents. NTA

NTA shuts down deceased friend’s parents’ one-sided request

NTA. Children are their own people. Make it official adoption.

NTA. Protecting your kids from ableist grandparents is justified.

Stepson learning ASL to communicate with sister. NTA, family first

Honoring friend’s wishes, toxic grandparents, NTA

Grandparents’ request for access to grandson denied. NTA.
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Grandson’s disability causes family dispute. Heartless or justified decision?

Grandparents denied access to grandson, but what about granddaughter?

Respecting deceased friend’s wishes, NTA. They haven’t shown remorse
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Protecting a child from toxic grandparents. NTA

Grandparents demand access to grandson, commenter says NTA.

Respecting friend’s wishes, don’t worry about social media drama

Defending a friend’s dying wish against slander with NTA

Honoring a friend’s wishes and protecting her babies. NTA

Defending against deceased friend’s parents, get a lawyer!

Respecting daughter’s wishes, NTA. Let children decide later

Protecting your family from harassment: Safeguarding protocols to follow.

Protecting the children as she would have . Keep records and stick to your plan .

Respecting friend’s wishes, NTA. Drama and trauma not worth it.

Protecting your child from toxic people is always justified.

Granddaughter forgotten? NTA for denying access to one grandchild.

Grandparents overstepping boundaries, NTA suggests school intervention
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Bio grandparents denied access to grandson, commenter supports decision.
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NTA suggests legal action against deceased friend’s parents. Serious situation.

Protecting the kids or heartless? NTA stands their ground.

Respect your friend’s wish and cut off toxic people. NTA

Respecting the deceased’s wishes. Photocopying the will for proof.
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NTA calls out deceased friend’s parents for showing favoritism

Playing favorites with grandkids: justified or toxic?

NTA: Restraining order needed to keep horrible grandparents away. Explain later.

Defending the decision to deny access to deceased friend’s parents.

Defending deceased friend’s wishes against toxic grandparents. NTA
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Grandson favoritism? NTA for denying deceased friend’s parents access.

Standing up for a friend’s wishes, NTA!

NTA. Protecting the child with legal and safety measures

Honoring a friend’s wishes even after death. NTA

Legal right to deny access. Granddaughter not mentioned. NTA

Protecting the kids from toxic grandparents. NTA

Respecting the deceased’s wishes. NTA.

NTA stands firm on deceased friend’s wishes, consults lawyer for support.

NTA commenter suggests restraining order against deceased friend’s parents.

Respecting final wishes is important . NTA, no guilt necessary.

Protecting your child from deceased friend’s parents. Legal advice needed.

You’re NTA for upholding your friend’s last wishes
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NTA commenter calls out deceased friend’s parents for not learning from loss.

NTA prioritizes protecting kids from dangerous grandparents.

NTA, but important to explicitly inform school and activities.

Cutting off toxic family members is sometimes necessary. ♀️

NTA, schools shouldn’t be involved. Stay strong OP

Honoring a friend’s wishes is the greatest gift. NTA

Protecting the children from abuse, NTA

Respecting the mother’s wishes to protect the child.

Defending decision to deny access, citing legal precedence.

Legal advice first. Don’t let slanderous grandparents near your child. NTA

Friend trusts her to make choices for kids, NTA

Honoring friend’s wishes, protecting kids, and avoiding toxic relationship. NTA

Setting boundaries with deceased friend’s parents.

Respecting the mother’s wishes, NTA for denying access

Protecting her son’s well-being, NTA for denying access.

Protecting her children from abusive grandparents, NTA. Seek legal advice.
