Imagine this: You’re dealing with the heartache of infertility, and you generously offer to support a friend in the same boat with a whopping $12,000 for her IVF treatment. But then, you discover she’s made a hurtful joke at your expense. What would you do? This is the dilemma one woman found herself in, and her decision has sparked a fiery debate. Let’s delve into the story…
A Painful Past

A Stinging Betrayal

A Friend in Need

A Generous Gesture

A Shocking Revelation

A Cruel Joke

A Swift Response

A Plea for Forgiveness

A Standoff Ensues

The Fallout ️

Divided Opinions ️

The Aftermath

A Decision Made

A Lighter Heart ❤️

A Final Note

A $12,000 Joke That May Cost a 15-Year Friendship
So, here’s the dilemma: A woman generously offers $12,000 to a friend for her IVF treatment, only to find out that the friend made a hurtful joke about her infertility. She cancels the check, causing an argument that may end their 15-year friendship. Opinions are divided – some think she’s oversensitive, while others stand by her decision. As for the woman, she’s decided to distance herself from the situation for her mental health. It’s a harsh reminder that even those who seem supportive can sometimes cause the most harm. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA: Woman cancels $12,000 IVF donation, friends show true colors

NTA. Friends calling you too sensitive? Open their check books!

“NTA! $12,000 donation canceled over a ‘joke’. Friendship betrayed! “

NTA – Don’t shell out $12k for a friend’s IVF treatment

NTA. Heartbreak and betrayal. A kind gesture turned sour

“NTA. She damaged 15 years of friendship. No remorse. Stand your ground.”

NTA. Husband’s entitlement and argument over a hurtful ‘inside joke’.

NTA. Empathy should go both ways. Cut out toxic snakes.

“NTA. Inside joke was cruel. OP better off without them.”

“NTA – Friend betrayed you for cash. Keep your money. “

NTA. Don’t enable a petty person like her to be a parent.

Petty revenge: asking the husband to explain the ‘joke’

NTA. Generosity wasted on ungrateful friend and entitled husband.

NTA cancels IVF donation after insensitive remark – justified decision?

NTA: Friend supports cancelling IVF donation, calls out behavior

“NTA – Some people have no gratitude. Unbelievable entitlement! “

NTA: Carol exposed the AH with a badass move!

NTA: Grateful or Ungrateful? $12k donation sparks heated debate.
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NTA. She damaged the friendship with callous gossip. Prepare for fallout.

NTA. Emotional manipulation is not cool. Carol sounds like a good friend.

NTA: Carol plans to have kids in the future, no money involved

Generous donation revoked – friend learns not to bite the hand

Friend cancels $12k IVF donation, suggests adoption instead. Controversial choice.

Friend’s ‘joke’ about IVF donation causes rift, NTA for cancelling

NTA: Withdrew IVF donation after being mocked. Ungrateful couple.

Wow, $12k donation with no strings attached? You’re a saint!

Cutting off a fake friend after a cruel joke? NTA!
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NTA. Friend manipulated and mocked, you deserve better support.

Respect should be given to those who endure hardship.

Friendship betrayal: NTA cancels IVF donation after 15 years.

Donating $12k but getting insulted? Cancel that check!

NTA: Can’t afford IVF, can’t afford a child ♀️

Supportive friend calls out insensitive joke, commenter is NTA

NTA cancels IVF donation, relationship torched.

NTA: Empathy matters. Don’t let anyone belittle your struggles.

15-year friendship ruined over a joke? NTA, absolutely

NTA. The joke was hurtful and not okay.

NTA. Carol is a true friend, they don’t deserve your generosity.

Generous friend cancels IVF donation, takes expensive solo holiday.

NTA, don’t let emotional manipulation control your generosity.

NTA. Cruel joke damaged relationship. Better off without her.

NTA: Carol exposes the truth about the ‘joke’ and friendship.

NTA. Toxic snakes Alessia and her husband vs. great friend Carol.

NTA. Ex and friend are AHs. Find someone who values you.

“NTA, low blow. I’d drop her so fast.”

Don’t bite the hand that feeds you!
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NTA: Generous but risky donation sparks debate on financial responsibility.

NTA. A $12,000 gift ruined by a nasty comment. Friendship at risk.

Betrayed by a ‘friend’ – NTA, cut ties and move on!

NTA – Friend cancels IVF donation, love should be reciprocated

NTA cancels IVF donation after low blow – justified consequences.

Insensitive joke about infertility: NTA stands up for herself

Friend lacks respect and compassion. You deserve better.

Donated $12K, got insulted. NTA, cut ties with her!

Exploring whether Alessia’s comment was mocking or expressing genuine fear.
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NTA, keep your money and focus on yourself. Toxic friends.

NTA: Is she entitled to $12,000? Let’s discuss!

Friend mocks infertility, NTA cancels $12k IVF donation.

NTA. Alessia’s comment was insensitive and disrespectful.

NTA… Cut ties with “Alessia” and her husband. No true friend!

NTA: Woman cancels IVF donation, husband angry at Carol, not wife.

Friend cancels IVF donation, risking 15-year friendship. NTA.

NTA. Carol is the good friend here

NTA. Some jokes aren’t funny, especially when it’s about $12k.

NTA cancels IVF donation after friend exposes a**hole behavior.

Real friends have your back, even when money is involved.

NTA: Money-hungry woman cancels IVF donation, now playing the victim.

NTA! Carol’s the real friend! They treated you as a joke

NTA. Your ‘friend’ is treating you like an ATM.

NTA. Carol is amazing!

Cut ties and treat yourself with a luxurious getaway!

NTA. Friend’s hurtful joke jeopardizes IVF donation. Questionable motives?

Heartbreaking insult destroys friendship. Infertility struggle hits close to home.
