Wildfire Evacuation Drama: Dad Demands Girlfriend Give Up Bed for Daughter

Imagine opening your home to your boyfriend and his kids during a wildfire evacuation, only to have him demand you give up your bed for his daughter. This is the situation one woman found herself in, and it led to a relationship crisis. The couple’s disagreement over sleeping arrangements has sparked a heated debate: was she in the wrong, or was her boyfriend being unreasonable?

Wildfire Evacuation: The Setup

The Kids Arrive

Younger Kids and Nanny

Bedtime Dilemma

Dad’s Request

The Whole Night?

Standing Her Ground

Relationship on the Rocks

Bunk Beds Explained

The Breakup

Sleeping Arrangements Turn Into Relationship Crisis

After a wildfire forced her boyfriend and his kids to evacuate, our protagonist welcomed them into her home. However, tensions rose when her boyfriend insisted she give up her bed for his oldest daughter, who needed rest due to health issues. She refused, leading to a heated argument and her boyfriend leaving with the kids and nanny. Now, he’s rethinking their relationship, claiming she doesn’t like or respect his children. To make matters worse, he ended up breaking up with her over the incident. Let’s dive into the top reactions to this dramatic situation…

Opinions on parenting clash, but both sides are reasonable.

NTA defends herself against entitled dad demanding girlfriend’s bed ️

Dad demands girlfriend give up bed during wildfire evacuation. Commenter defends her.

Clever solution to wildfire evacuation drama ️

Fair compromise suggested for dad’s request for bed during evacuation.

User calls out person for not giving up bed for sick child

Dad prioritizes girlfriend over sick daughter during wildfire evacuation. YTA.

User calls out YTA for not giving up bed for sick child during wildfire evacuation.

YTA. Commenter argues that the girlfriend should have given up her bed for one night due to the extraordinary circumstances and the daughter’s medical issues. Raises questions about the girlfriend’s readiness for a relationship with a man and his children with one of them having severe health issues.

Dad demands girlfriend give up bed for daughter. Commenter supports girlfriend.

Dad prioritizes sick daughter, girlfriend refuses to give up bed. YTA.

Father demands girlfriend give up bed for sick daughter. Commenter thinks he’s the a**hole.

Personal space matters, NTA. Gratitude is important in generosity

Dating a dad means accepting his kids come first ‍ ‍ , RIP relationship

Chronically ill commenter calls out YTA for not giving up bed

Father refuses to share bed with sick daughter. Commenter calls YTA.

Being accommodating during a crisis doesn’t make you an a**hole

YTA for not giving up bed for sick child during evacuation

Redditor calls out dad for demanding girlfriend give up bed. YTA.

Wildfire evacuations and medical treatment call for kindness, YTA.

User calls out NTA judgments, suggests OP is not ready for children.

YTA Dad prioritizes girlfriend’s bed over daughter’s post-treatment rest

Resourceful suggestions for family’s sleeping arrangements during evacuation.

NTA, you did enough by taking them in. ️

Unpopular opinion: YTA, but kindness goes a long way

Suggests alternative solutions, questions father’s motives. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Dad prioritizes daughter’s rest during wildfire evacuation, girlfriend unwilling to compromise.

Dad asks girlfriend to give up bed for sick daughter. Commenter calls YTA and criticizes sub’s praise for bare minimum actions.

Concerned commenter asks for more context on medical condition

Is the child really sick or is the dad coddling her?

Putting the needs of a sick child first is not entitlement ‍♀️

Putting kids first or not, should you date a dad?

Parenting advice meets relationship drama in fiery evacuation dispute

YTA for not compromising for one night during emergency circumstances

Dad’s sick daughter needs bed, girlfriend refuses. YTA verdict.

Redditor calls out OP for not being accommodating during wildfire evacuation.

Father refuses to give up bed for sick daughter during wildfire evacuation YTA

YTA receives scathing criticism for prioritizing bed over sick child

Curious commenter asks for more details on the situation

Dodged a bullet NTA for not giving up bed.

Setting boundaries in a blended family ‍♀️

NTA suggests alternative sleeping arrangements for dad’s girlfriend and daughter.

Creative solutions for cramped quarters during wildfire evacuation.

Concerned commenter questions if daughter needs undisturbed space

NTA opens up home, boyfriend demands extra accommodations

User calls out OP for being TA and defends ex-boyfriend’s right to set boundaries for his child.

NTA thinks dad overstepped by demanding girlfriend’s bed for daughter.

Understanding different perspectives in parenting and relationships. ‍

A commenter calls out the girlfriend for not giving up bed

Compassionate commenter calls out selfish behavior during wildfire evacuation.

Dad prioritizes his comfort over girlfriend’s chronic illness recovery. YTA

Parent with sick child calls out selfish partner.

User thinks girlfriend is the a**hole for not giving up bed.

Girlfriend refuses to give up bed to sick child during wildfire. YTA.

User suggests dad is the a**hole for not giving up bed

YTA gets called out for lack of compassion and empathy

Girlfriend refuses to give up bed for sick child, YTA.

YTA for not giving up the bed for sick daughter

User thinks girlfriend is TA for not giving up bed for daughter during wildfire evacuation

NTA suggests a simple solution for a tricky situation

Emergency situation, but commenter deems OP selfish. YTA

Girlfriend refuses to give up bed for daughter. Commenter calls YTA.

Redditors debate whether OP is the a**hole for prioritizing girlfriend over daughter

User calls out OP for being selfish in wildfire evacuation.

Heartless boyfriend denies sick child a bed

Accusations of jealousy and lack of compassion towards sick child

User calls out OP for not giving up bed during wildfire evacuation.

NTA offers gracious hospitality, suggests pull-out couch for girlfriend.

NTA offers shelter, dad demands more. Entitled or justified?

Girlfriend refuses to give up bed for boyfriend’s daughter. NAH.

NTA suggests a solution for sleeping arrangements with bunkbeds.

YTA gets called out for not giving bed to sick child

YTA for not prioritizing the sick child’s need for rest

User passionately defends chronically ill child, calls out YTA’s jealousy.

Dad demands bed for daughter during wildfire evacuation, commenters side NTA.

User calls out girlfriend for not accommodating wildfire evacuees. YTA.

Dad demands girlfriend give up bed for daughter, commenters call YTA

User calls out someone for not considering a sick kid in an emergency. YTA

OP is called out for being selfish and not accommodating.

YTA for not giving up your bed for a sick child

Partner called out for prioritizing comfort over co-parenting responsibilities

Stepmom criticized for not giving bed to sick stepdaughter. YTA.

Inviting children and their dad into your home, but refusing a bed for a sick child makes you selfish

Compatibility issues arise as dad demands girlfriend give up bed.