Becoming a new parent is a life-changing experience, and it can have a huge impact on a couple’s relationship. One husband found himself in a tricky situation when his wife, who recently gave birth, asked him to stop going to the gym. She feels insecure about her post-baby body and thinks her husband’s handsome physique only adds to her discomfort. But is it fair to ask him to give up his fitness routine? Let’s dive into their story…
The Birth of Baby Johan

Nancy’s Struggles

Husband’s Fitness Journey

Weight Gain and Comparisons

No Energy for the Gym

“Too Handsome” Husband

Husband’s Suggestion

Nancy’s Reaction

A Controlling Request?

Fighting and Silence

Blackmail Accusation

Mother-in-Law Drama ♀️

Is the Husband in the Wrong? ♂️
So, we have a husband who’s been hitting the gym hard and a wife who’s feeling insecure after giving birth. She wants him to stop exercising until she feels comfortable enough to join him, but he thinks this request is controlling and suggests she might need psychological help. The situation escalates when he shares their story with her mother, leading to even more tension. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Supportive comment defends gym-going husband in postpartum dispute

Supportive comment suggests wife may have postpartum depression. NTA.

Supportive comment suggests complimenting wife to boost self-esteem.

Encouraging gym-goer husband supports wife’s therapy, NTA.

Supporting your partner is crucial during postpartum. Listen, empathize, and communicate.

Supportive husband helps wife with postpartum depression and gym concerns

Encouraging response suggests couples counseling and solo therapy. ❤️

Don’t let her insecurities bring you down. Keep exercising

Supportive comment suggests PPD, encourages self-care for new dad

Compromise on gym schedule after having a child

Encourage professional help for postpartum wife’s fitness comparison struggles

Encourage your partner to work on herself without sacrificing your happiness

Supportive comment suggests therapy for wife and reassurance for husband

NTA wanting to keep exercising, but consider her PPD and workload.

Wife wants husband to quit gym to gain weight? NTA.

Supporting a partner with PPD: research, counseling, love

Suggest fun activities to do together instead of just working out

Encouraging suggestion to address possible PPD and offer compromise.

Supportive husband recognizes wife’s postpartum struggles and needs.

Putting your partner’s needs over your own health? NTA wins!
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Husband prioritizes gym over wife’s distress after giving birth

Don’t sacrifice your mental and physical health for anyone. NTA

Suggests couple to find an activity to do together

Putting your health first is important. Therapy may help.

Suggests casual walks for exhausted new parents to bond

Offer to cut down gym time, workout together, and offer support.

Encouraging reply suggests PPD and offers workout routine solution

Encouraging comment reminds new mom to be kind to herself
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Supportive comment suggests PPD and advises seeking help

Suggests ways to integrate wife into fitness routine and show love ❤️

Suggests complimenting wife to boost mood instead of quitting gym

Supportive comment against controlling behavior with gender-reversed scenario

Suggesting psychological support for her feelings is NTA. Consider her perspective
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Doctor recommends therapy for wife’s postpartum depression ♀️

“Letting yourself go” after baby isn’t a healthy solution.

Supporting your spouse shouldn’t harm your health
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Support and kindness are crucial for partners with PPD

Supportive comment acknowledges PPD and suggests empathy for wife’s perspective.

Supportive comment suggests delicate approach to wife’s help needs

Suggests walking with wife instead of gym, offers fun ideas

New mom defends husband’s gym routine, suggests compromise for family time.

Encouraging response to husband supporting wife’s post-birth recovery and exercise

Sarcasm at its finest in response to a medical dilemma

Don’t let her guilt you into giving up the gym #NTA

Husband not the a**hole for wanting to go to gym

Spouse wants partner to get fat? NTA shuts it down
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Don’t let emotional blackmail stop you from self-care

Don’t sacrifice your health for your partner’s insecurities. NTA

Savage comment about leaving wife for disapproving of gym routine

Supportive comment on postpartum recovery and gentle encouragement.

Suggest creating a home gym to work out together

Supportive response to husband’s situation, wishing wife well

Supportive comment suggests seeking help for wife’s emotional health ❤️

Support your partner, but don’t let her control your life.

Supportive reply suggests gym as an outlet, encourages compliments.

Supportive comment defends husband’s gym routine, calls out unhealthy behavior.

Encourage wife to seek help for PPD, don’t enable negativity
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Exercise is crucial at any age , NTA prioritizes health.
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Doctor wife wants husband to quit gym, commenters suggest therapy

Supportive comment acknowledges wife’s postpartum struggles and suggests seeking help.

Suggesting private couple workout options for gym-averse neurotics

Supportive comment calls out concerning behavior with empathy

Husband’s gym routine causing trouble in postpartum period

Encouraging NTA suggests home exercises for postpartum self-care

Supportive comment suggests postpartum depression and encourages seeking help.

Encouraging comment suggests seeking medical help for wife’s motivation issues.
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Encouraging comment suggests wife needs professional help and gentle nudging

Suggests gym date with wife, compliments and encourages work. NTA.

Suggests alternative exercise and professional help for struggling wife.

Suggests couple’s leisurely walks instead of gym after childbirth
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Doctor shares experience and encourages working out for mental health ❤️

Partner not supporting your goals? Keep going to the gym
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Supportive comment defends husband’s gym habits, praises his actions.

Suggest gentle exercise and support for wife with postpartum depression

New dad’s gym routine causing strain on wife post-birth
