We all have that one friend who just can’t seem to get their life together. But what if their problems start affecting your own life? One woman found herself in this exact situation when her husband’s friend, Andy, constantly borrowed money and never paid it back. When she discovered Andy’s latest scheme, she decided to take matters into her own hands.
The Freeloading Friend

Enough is Enough

The Ultimatum

The Fake Birthday

Snooping Around

The Evidence

Confrontation at the Bar

Andy’s Excuse

The License Question

Bartender’s Verdict

Andy’s Exit

Husband’s Reaction

The Argument

Packing Up

️♀️ Wife’s Detective Work Exposes Fake Birthday!
Tired of her husband’s friend, Andy, constantly borrowing money and never paying it back, this wife decided to take matters into her own hands when she discovered his latest scheme: a fake birthday. After some Facebook sleuthing, she found evidence of his real birthday and confronted him at the bar. Despite Andy’s excuses, the wife stood her ground and exposed his lie. Now, her husband is angry and their marriage is on the rocks. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this dramatic situation…
NTA – Andy is a leech. Stand your ground

Setting boundaries is important. Don’t let anyone take advantage

Ouch! This comment suggests a tough but humorous solution

Real friends know each other’s birthdays. NTA wins!

Exposing a scam artist and advocating for concerns is gainful.
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Is the husband the real problem here?

NTA for exposing husband’s friend’s scam and setting boundaries.

You go girl! Taking control and standing up for yourself.

NTA wife exposes husband’s friend’s fake birthday scam

Standing up to liars and exposing scams. NTA.

Spouse’s financial harm for a friend’s fake birthday scam. NTA.

Standing up to abusive friends, hoping for husband’s realization

Standing up to family scammers – NTA wins this round

Exposing a sneaky con man who fakes his own birthday

Husband’s questionable generosity exposed by wife. NTA.

Standing up against scams, NTA gets the last laugh

Exposing a scamming friend and a cheating husband.

Wife exposes husband’s friend’s scam, husband needs to wise up

Husband’s blindspot for friend’s scam puts future in jeopardy. NTA.

Empowering response to toxic masculinity and homophobia.

Wife exposes husband’s friend’s scam, gets called NTA but needs communication.

Publicly exposing a scammer friend to wake up a husband. NTA

Set boundaries or divorce. NTA for not tolerating leech.

Wife exposes husband’s friend’s fake birthday scam, NTA stands ground

Spending money on a mooch who fakes his birthday? ESH.

Marriage trust issues and ultimatums due to a leech friend.

Trust your partner’s instincts, especially when they’ve been right before

Husband prioritizing friend over wife? NTA for considering divorce
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NTA for calling out fake birthday scam. Good job!

Money, friends, and drama. ESH in this fake birthday scam.

Wife exposes husband’s friend’s fake birthday scam. NTA wins!

Questioning the motive behind exposing the fake birthday scam

Public humiliation or private text? ESH, but Andy’s the AH.

Setting boundaries and calling out toxic behavior benefits everyone

Husband forgets friend’s birthday but gives thousands of dollars? NTA.

NTA with steel cajones exposes wallet weasel Andy’s birthday scam

Caught in a lie: man’s fake birthday scam exposed by wife.

NTA. Hilarious and savage response to husband’s friend’s scam

Spineless husband defends friend’s scam, wife exposes him at bar.
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NTA. Empathizing with the commenter and calling out husband’s actions.

Stand your ground! You’re NTA for setting boundaries

♀️ Divorce pending, husband and friend making bad choices. ESH.

Not the a**hole for standing up to a manipulative friend.

Setting boundaries and exposing scams is not being an AH.

Standing up against lies and cheating. NTA wins!

Redeeming NTA comment calls out scammers and stands up against exploitation.

Exposing a fake birthday scammer, NTA gets praised for it!

Husband’s friend is a manipulator and wife is NTA.

Protect your finances and get a lawyer. Andy’s no friend.

Wife confronts husband’s mooching friend, husband resists intervention.

Supportive comment applauds OP for standing up for themselves.

Satisfying read where NTA exposes fake birthday scam.

Leave your husband and live your best life

Protecting your spouse’s finances is always the right move.

Sassy NTA comment suggests husband’s infidelity with friend Andy

Friends defend scammer Andy despite wife’s valid concerns.

User calls out OP for overreacting to husband’s friend’s scam.

User suggests divorce after husband’s financial mistake with friend.

Husband’s friend’s fake birthday scam exposed, NTA for wife’s actions.

Setting boundaries is NTA, but public humiliation is YTA.

Priorities matter! YTA for bar, NTA for calling out.
