Picture this: a husband and wife are expecting their second child, and tensions are running high. The husband, wanting to have a pool day with his cousin and his wife, gets the green light from his pregnant partner. But then, she changes her mind, citing concerns for her health and safety. What’s a guy to do? ♂️ Well, this husband found himself in the middle of a BBQ standoff when his wife later wanted to attend a gathering with her friends. The drama that ensued is nothing short of a rollercoaster ride of emotions, accusations, and one very pregnant woman chasing a toddler.
Pool Day Proposal ♂️

Safety First?

Cousin’s Quarantine Credentials

Pool Day Canceled ❌

BBQ Invitation

Social Distancing Double Standard?

Wife Goes Nuclear

Husband’s Calm Response

Wife’s BBQ Ultimatum

Husband’s Concern

BBQ Day Drama

Toddler Taken, Too

Wife’s Embarrassment

Seeking Judgment

The Great BBQ Standoff: Who’s Right?
In this tale of BBQs and social distancing, our husband protagonist finds himself in a pickle. His pregnant wife flip-flops on her stance, going from concerned about her health to wanting to attend a BBQ with friends. When he tries to remind her of her previous concerns, she goes nuclear and accuses him of being petty and immature. The wife ends up attending the BBQ, taking their toddler with her, and later tells him she’s embarrassed of him as a husband. So, who’s in the right here? Let’s dive into the internet’s top responses to this juicy story!
NTA – Husband stands his ground in BBQ standoff

Wife’s double standards? Honesty is key in relationships.

Hypocritical wife cancels cousin, attends risky party. NTA!

NTA, wife risking health for BBQ. Asthma + no masks!

Husband stands up for himself against hypocritical wife

NTA. Invite your cousin over for a pool day ️ . Marriage counselor?

Setting boundaries as a couple is crucial for a harmonious relationship!

NTA. Address the double standard and communicate openly with her.

NTA- She’s playing the victim Has she always been like this?
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INFO: Who’s responsible for pool day chores? Possible resentment brewing.

ESH for playing petty games instead of communicating effectively.

NTA, your wife seems terrible
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Is there more to this? Lack of help or ability?

Curious about the wife’s side? Brace yourself for some drama!

NTA. Have an open and honest talk about your concerns.

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries.

Did they genuinely care or was it just revenge?

Commenter questions missing details and criticizes husband’s actions.

Curious about the wife’s motive? Awkward confrontation ensues!
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Hypocritical sister risks baby’s health by breaking social distancing rules

Wife’s BBQ standoff turns her into a monster

Pregnancy blamed, but she wants fun with friends, not yours

Husband stands his ground at BBQ, wife leaves him alone

Not the a**hole for BBQ standoff

BBQ feud: Hypocrisy and pettiness lead to an ESH situation

Confused why wife is embarrassed to go places alone without husband

ESH. Poor communication leads to petty scorekeeping and immaturity.

Husband calls out wife’s wrong behavior at BBQ. NTA!

NTA. Time for some serious marriage discussions

NTA. Stand your ground and don’t let her guilt trip you
