Picture this: you’re invited to your friend’s wedding, but her mom is begging you not to come. Why? Well, her dad is the father of your child! Talk about drama! The mother of the bride is adamant that our protagonist’s presence will only cause more humiliation and chaos. But the bride and groom want her and her son there. What’s a girl to do? Let’s dive into this messy situation.
A Secret Affair
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The Truth Comes Out
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Custody Battle Royale ⚔️
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An Unexpected Friendship
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Bonding Over Baby Brother
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Wedding Bells and Guest List Hell
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The Invite Dilemma
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Mother of the Bride Strikes Back
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Humiliation and Friendship
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Who Should Stay and Who Should Go?
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Caught in a Wedding Guest List Crossfire!
Our protagonist is in quite the predicament: she’s been invited to her friend Kate’s wedding, but Kate’s mom is begging her not to come. Why? Because Kate’s dad is the father of her child! The mother of the bride claims that her presence will only cause more humiliation and chaos, but the bride and groom want her and her son there. So, who should stay and who should go? It’s a wedding guest list drama for the ages! Let’s see what the internet thinks of this sticky situation…
NTA. Victim of a cheating husband, not responsible for his actions. ♀️

NTA! Attend the wedding and have a great time with friends

Engaging comment and replies on supporting friends at wedding.

NTA. Kate’s dad is the real a**hole here. Keep her informed to avoid drama at her wedding.

Bride and groom need to decide if family drama is worth it

Commenter calls out bad behavior with a touch of humor

Mother of the groom is NTA but should consider son’s feelings

Friend defends bride’s honor, husband’s infidelity revealed. Drama ensues

Discussion on the red flags of a relationship with an age gap

NTA defends bride’s decision and criticizes women who blame other women

NTA for attending the wedding, despite mother of the bride’s objections . OP should clarify with the bride how much extended family knows

Supportive comment defends OP against cheating ex’s family drama

NTA suggests a savage clapback strategy to a friend’s problem
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Unpopular opinion: discretion is better than attending a drama-filled wedding

Comment section divided on whether Kate’s mom deserves sympathy or not

Should a 6-year-old attend a wedding?

Defending a friend against a lying husband
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Keeping distance from ex and his family at wedding with son

NTA introduced bride to groom, but mother doesn’t want friend there

Navigating a wedding day minefield: ESH, but wife needs therapy

Go to the wedding, let Kate handle her mom. NTA

Don’t miss your friend’s wedding because of someone else’s deception

Inappropriate boundaries and family drama at a wedding.

Commenter defends OP, calls cheater and wife assholes. Brother’s hostility unclear ♀️

Attending friend’s wedding with cheating ex? ESH, don’t go
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Stand your ground and attend your friend’s wedding!

Protecting your son should be your highest priority

Commenter defends OP but suggests directing anger at husband instead ♀️

NTA. Stay away from drama at the wedding

NTA for wanting to go, but TA if you do. Respect the mother’s wishes.

Putting the son’s well-being first , NTA

Commenter plans to follow up on the wedding drama later

Meet the father before the wedding, avoid drama

Advice to stay out of family drama at the wedding
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Bride’s mom doesn’t want friend at wedding. NTA suggests talking.
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NTA. Commenter defends friend and calls out husband’s sleazy behavior.

Wedding guest accidentally invites married friend, NTA for inviting.

Parent raises valid concern about son’s long-term emotional well-being

Commenter doubts OP’s story, calls it unbelievable

Mother of the bride causing drama, but bride wants friend there

Bride’s mom blames wrong person for wedding drama

Supportive comment, no replies yet. NTA-Kate’s wedding, Kate’s choice

Woman’s husband lied about dead wife, she’s NTA

Mother of the bride crosses the line, commenter stands up
