Picture this: you’re invited to a family BBQ and pool party, expecting a fun and relaxing day with your loved ones. But what if your own sister suddenly asked you to cover up because of your scars? This is exactly what happened to a trans man who was asked by his sister to keep his shirt on at the pool, all because of the scars from his top surgery. The reason? She didn’t want her in-laws to know he’s trans. Let’s dive into this story and see what unfolded.
A Casual Family BBQ

Unexpected Guests

Time for a Swim

Sister’s Sudden Request

The Scars in Question

Hidden Scars

A First-Time Request

The Real Reason

Hurt and Pissed

Just Go With It?

Leaving the Party ♂️

Soured Mood

Confused Goodbyes ♂️

Dad’s Intervention

The Aftermath ️

Blaming the Victim

Unfair Treatment Sparks Family Drama
Our trans hero found himself in a tough spot when his sister asked him to keep his shirt on at a family pool party, all because she didn’t want her in-laws to know he’s trans. Feeling hurt and angry, he decided to leave the party early, causing confusion among the guests. When his father found out the reason, a fight broke out between him and the sister, leading to even more family members leaving the party. Now, the sister is blaming him for ruining the BBQ, but was he really in the wrong for standing up for himself? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Trans man unfairly kicked out of pool party for being shirtless.

Trans man’s parents stood up against transphobia at pool party

Family stands up for trans man at pool party ♂️

Trans man’s rite of passing to go shirtless at pool party. NTA

Sister causes drama, gets consequences, blames others. Classic
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Trans person receives support from fellow trans person and ally ❤️

Supportive parents > unsupportive sister. NTA

NTA! Commenter sympathizes with trans man and criticizes sister’s behavior.

Understanding and support for trans community

Trans man with scars from surgery called out transphobic sister. ♂️

Embrace your identity!

Trans man unfairly kicked out of pool party by sister’s in-laws

Trans man faces discrimination at pool party ♂️

Trans man stands up for himself against sister’s transphobia

Scars are private, no one is obligated to explain them.

NTA stands up for themselves in pool party dispute

Trans man stands up to transphobia at pool party ♂️

Supportive parents and cruel friends. NTA deserves an apology.

Trans man praised for standing up against transphobia

Trans man stands up for himself against insensitive request

Supportive comment calls out sister’s rude behavior.

Be proud of who you are! ️ NTA

Supportive comment defends woman’s decision to leave pool party

Supportive comment defends trans man’s right to be shirtless at party.

Sarcastic reply to NTA comment about wearing bikini ♂️

Trans commenter defends trans man kicked out of pool party.

Commenter defends trans man kicked out of pool party.
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Sister asks to kick trans man out, faces consequences. NTA

Parents praised for supporting commenter, NTA situation.
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Leaving the party quietly after being discriminated against. NTA

Sibling support over in-laws? NTA wins family feud!

Empowering comment to embrace body despite in-law’s opinion
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Sibling support for trans brother after being kicked out of party

Supportive comment calls for apology from ‘sister’

Trans man receives support from fellow trans person.

Transphobic sister kicks out trans brother for being shirtless ♂️, but parents have his back

Trans man receives support for being shirtless at pool party
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Trans man unfairly kicked out of pool party for being shirtless.

Victim blaming at its finest

Being shirtless is less noticeable than scars, NTA

Sister’s BBQ ruined by trans man’s shirtless appearance? Nope. NTA.

Commenter is not the a**hole for being shirtless

Trans man kicked out of pool party, sister needs education

Supportive parents for a trans man’s shirtless pool party incident

Savage! One comment shuts down the sister drama.

Woman kicks out trans man from pool party. Commenter disagrees.

Sister kicks trans man out of pool party, blames him. NTA.

Supportive comment section with heartwarming messages and hugs

Supportive parents help trans man win shirtless debate

Standing up for son’s scars, a powerful message against bullying

Trans man stands up for himself and exposes rude hostess

Clear and simple: Not the a**hole!

Trans man stands up to transphobia at pool party.

Supportive comment section for trans man kicked out of party

Sibling rivalry at its finest. NTA wins this round!
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Trans man kicked out of pool party for being shirtless, receives support

Commenter defends person kicked out of pool party, NTA

Trans man unfairly kicked out of party for being shirtless. NTA.

Trans man stands up to transphobic in-law at pool party

Supportive commenters agree that trans man did nothing wrong

Supportive comment section, NTA handled situation perfectly

Don’t let anyone force you back into the closet
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Calling out subtle transphobia within family.

Supportive comment defends OP and praises parents.

NTA. Props to supportive dad. Focus on family unity

Family dynamics clash over transphobia at a pool party.

Commenter supports respecting host’s wishes but also expresses anger

Supportive comment on being true to oneself and standing up against discrimination.

Trans man stands up to sister’s body shaming.

Woman shames trans man for being shirtless at pool party

NTA defends against judgmental sister in pool party dispute
