Picture this: three friends, a cozy living room, and glasses of wine. The conversation is flowing until it hits a snag – the definition of a ‘single mom’. Our storyteller, a 60-year-old woman, finds herself in a heated debate with her friends over the term’s correct usage. The bone of contention? A mutual acquaintance who claims the title of ‘single mom’ despite having a long-term, live-in partner. Let’s dive into this riveting tale of friendship, definitions, and the complexities of modern parenting.
Meet the Trio: Amy, Eve, and Our Storyteller

Amy: The Real Single Mom ♀️

Enter Eve and Kate

Kate: The Controversial ‘Single Mom’

The Plot Thickens: Enter Eric

The Debate Ignites

Eric’s Role in the Picture

The Crux of the Contention

‘Single Mom’ as a Badge of Honor?

The Argument Reaches its Peak ⛰

Standing Her Ground

The True Definition of a Single Mom? ♀️

The ‘Single Mom’ Showdown: A Friendship on the Rocks?
In a cozy living room, three friends find themselves embroiled in a fiery debate over the term ‘single mom’. At the heart of the argument is Kate, a mutual acquaintance who claims the title despite having a long-term, live-in partner, Eric. Our storyteller believes this misrepresents the reality of single motherhood, especially when compared to her best friend Amy, who truly battles life alone. The heated discussion leaves friendships strained and raises thought-provoking questions about modern parenting and the complexities of labels. Let’s see how the internet weighs in on this hot topic…
“NTA. As a single mother I’d have said the same thing. I suppose TECHNICALLY she’s a ‘single’ mother but?? Not really.” ♀️
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NTA – Debating the true meaning of being a single mom

NTA. Kate claiming single motherhood discredits Amy and hurts Eric

Kate’s dishonesty sparks heated debate among friends

Ingenious ways to drink wine with a mask on!

“Hmm..INFO, I guess?” A debate on the single mom’s status.

ESH. Sounds like a scene from American Psycho

NTA calls out friend for overreacting to single mom controversy
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“NTA. If a guy called himself a single father…”

NTA- Friend’s ex out of the picture, new bf steps up

ESH for not social distancing ♀️ ♂️: A heated debate on mask-wearing and wine-sharing!
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ESH – Was the fight worth it? Let it go and move on. ♀️

“YTA. Don’t die on that hill, it upset your friends. “

Debate over the definition of ‘single mom’ sparks fiery discussion

“NTA. A single mom is someone abandoned with no support. “

Not the a**hole. Let the debate begin!

YTA. Is the single mom badge really that important?

Truth revealed: She’s not a single mom. You’re NTA

Gossiping about others? ESH, let’s find better conversation topics!

Single mom has partner and support. Not the a**hole.

Debate rages on: Is she really a single mom?

NTA. Single mom of 4, no support, annoyed by imposters.

NTA. Kate (or maybe just Eve on Kate’s behalf) is dismissing her partner’s contribution to boost her own image.

From single mom to finding support: a heartwarming transformation

Agree! Being a single parent is about being the sole caregiver

Surprising realization: the word ‘single’ is in ‘single mom’!

Stepdad vs. Single Mom: Who’s the Real Parent Here?

NTA, but let’s not invalidate her struggles and accomplishments.

NTA: Amy and Kate are amazing moms!
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Engaging single mom shares her experience and receives support ❤️
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Kate’s portrayal as a single mom sparks heated debate

Debate on being a ‘single mom’ with equal custody support

NTA: Friend gets angry when called out for living with partner

Dating a single mom who took advantage of her status

Not the a**hole. Let the debate begin!

NTA. Single parenting is about mom’s effort, not dad’s involvement

NTA. Single mom means one parent. It devalues true independence.

NTA. Single mom controversy sparks debate among friends

NTA! Correcting false information is always justified.

NTA. Peculiar thing to get mad at you for

Calling herself a single mom while still living with her ex?

NTA. Friend in her 50s threw a fit over parenting help?

“NTA: Not a single mother.”

Unmarried ≠ Single Mom ♀️ NTA: Former single mom agrees

A reminder for an interesting discussion coming up!

NTA. Kate’s partner contributes to expenses, she’s not single.

NTA: Validating the struggles of being a single mom with partner.

NTA. Empathizing with the struggles of being a ‘single mom’.

NTA. Debating the definition of a single mother.

NTA defends true single moms and calls out misused terminology.

NTA. Debating the definition of a single mom.

Friends on porch during pandemic: AHs or NAHs?

NTA. Single moms with support vs. actual single moms

NTA. Eve’s obsession with Kate’s single parent status is puzzling

NTA challenges portrayal of woman as single mom for 10 years

NTA. Single mom explains the difference between her and Kate.

NTA, Kate is NOT a single mom.

Not the a**hole! Let’s hear their side of the story!

Not the a**hole. Let the debate begin!

Debate over ‘Single Mom’ label and its impact on spouses

NTA. Single mom debate: Financially independent with supportive SO. Engaging discussion.

A heated debate on single parenting and receiving help

Real single parents have no financial or emotional support.
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ESH: Digging in your heels on an inconsequential issue

Fiery comment sparks intense debate among readers

Debate over what defines a ‘single mom’ sparks heated discussion

Overinvesting in someone else’s life? ESH, mind your business!
