Imagine being a 17-year-old girl with a 10-year-old brother who’s perfectly capable of taking care of himself. But your mom insists on you babysitting him every time she’s not home, even though he’s just a regular kid. Sounds like a recipe for sibling drama, right? Well, that’s exactly what happened when mom came home unexpectedly and found her daughter not ‘fully engaged’ with her brother. The punishment? Eating dinner after the rest of the family. Let’s dive into this story and see if our protagonist is really the a**hole here.
The Overprotective Mom

The Independent Kids

The Secret Agreement

The Unexpected Return

Caught Red-Handed

The Angry Mom

The Dilemma

Update: Realizations

The Plan

Is She Really the A**hole?
So, our 17-year-old protagonist finds herself in a sticky situation, punished for not constantly watching her 10-year-old brother, who’s just a regular kid. After reading the story and seeing the mom’s overprotective behavior, we wonder if the punishment was really fair. ♀️ It’s time to check out the top responses from the internet and see what people think about this dramatic family situation.
NTA: Mom stifling 10-year-old’s development by not allowing independence

NTA Your mom is ridiculous! Ben is 10 not 2.

“NTA – Kids are free range at 8 or 9 “

Brother with superpowers should be taking care of you!

NTA: You’re not the a**hole for not babysitting your brother.

Parents should trust their kids to be responsible and independent

NTA. Your mother is suffocating you two — but mainly him.

Mom’s controlling behavior threatens teen’s future.

NTA. Being a responsible sibling and building a strong bond

Sibling responsibilities shouldn’t be forced.

Sibling not obligated to be full-time babysitter for brother

NTA and the creepy mind game of an archaic punishment

NTA. Teen girl punished for not babysitting 10-year-old brother ♀️

NTA. Mom needs to realize he’s not a baby

Commenter questions if girl hovers over brother, sparking debate.

Babysitting drama: Payment, supervision, and poor Ben’s development ♀️

“NTA. Withholding food as punishment is pretty f**ked up.” ♀️

Giving children freedom to grow leads to better emotional support

Stop parentification! Your brother is not your responsibility

Sibling boundaries respected. Independence and responsibility acknowledged. NTA

Sibling supervision: NTA for not babysitting, but being nearby

NTA – Teen girl stands up for herself and sets boundaries

NTA Ben is 10. He’s capable of making himself cereal ♀️

Mom’s mental health affects brother’s behavior. OP is NTA.

Brother and sister unite against unfair babysitting expectations

Mom needs to accept that 10yo can be independent!
