Sleepover Dilemma: Girlfriend vs. Roommate

Picture this: you’re a young guy sharing an apartment with your best friend and his girlfriend. Your living arrangements are a bit unconventional, with you and your buddy sharing a double bed due to limited space. Now, imagine your girlfriend wants to spend the night and sleep in your bed with you. What would you do? ‍♂️ In this story, our protagonist finds himself in this exact situation, and his decision leads to an unexpected conflict. Let’s dive into the details!

The Unusual Living Arrangements

Daisy’s Sleep Situation

The Shared Bedroom Dilemma ️

Enter the Girlfriend, Shandy

Shandy’s Sleepover Assumption

The Couch Conundrum ️

The Uncomfortable Offer

Shandy’s Sleep Solution ️

The Request to Share the Bed

Seemingly Fine… For Now

The Morning After

Choosing Sides?

Feeling Guilty

Sleepover Standoff: Who’s in the Wrong? ‍♂️

So, our protagonist finds himself in a tricky situation: he can’t share his bed with his girlfriend, Shandy, because he already shares it with his best friend, Mike. Shandy ends up sleeping on the couch, but she’s disappointed and feels like her boyfriend chose Mike over her. Now, he’s left wondering if he’s in the wrong for not finding a way to make it work. But what do you think? Who’s in the wrong here? Let’s take a look at some of the top responses from the internet to this sleepover standoff! ️

Friendship or not, three’s a crowd. YTA for leading on.

Roommate upset over sleepover, commenter calls OP YTA.

YTA. Roommate’s girlfriend dilemma sparks controversy and tough love.

Roommate’s sleeping arrangement criticized for being absurd

Fiery comment suggests kicking roommate out of bed.

Red flags galore! Commenter questions if OP is a troll.

User questions legitimacy of post, suggests girlfriend is uncomfortable.

Sleepover dilemma: YTA for not finding a sustainable solution

Curiosity about friend’s sleeping arrangement turns awkward ‍♂️

Clear communication is key to avoiding sleepover disappointment ‍ ‍

Be upfront with your girlfriend about sleeping arrangements. YTA

Roommate vs. girlfriend: No intimacy or privacy, relationship doomed

Sharing a bed with roommate’s girlfriend due to sleep apnea

User calls out OP for unconventional sleeping arrangement

Roommate prioritizes his comfort over girlfriend, ESH.

Don’t be a pushover, prioritize yourself and your privacy! YTA

User calls out OP as TA for strange sleepover dilemma.

User calls out OP for weird sleeping arrangement. YTA.

Size matters: Can Daisy’s bed fit Mike or is it preference?

GF not allowed to sleepover, YTA. Relationship doomed

Sleepover arrangement causes girlfriend to miss out on cuddles

Roommate’s girlfriend sleeps in bed, commenter says rent should reflect.

Awkward accusation of secret relationship, no helpful replies.

OP is YTA for not letting GF sleep in bed.

Sharing a room with a roommate and girlfriend? YTA.

Roommate’s sleeping arrangement causing tension with girlfriend ‍♂️

Is this fanfic or real life?

User questions strange sleeping arrangement, advises girlfriend can do better.

A comment calling out closeted behavior with humor

The elephant in the room: where’s the intimacy?

No one’s the a**hole, but girlfriend is disappointed

NAH, but living arrangement needs fixing for better relationships

This comment seems to be redacted

Sharing beds with homies for sleepovers is fine, but not permanent.

Girlfriend wants affection, compromise or suggest alternate sleeping arrangements. YTA.

OP called out for lying about roommate situation. Yikes

Prioritizing roommate over girlfriend? YTA, sort out your priorities.

Suggests getting a hotel room for intimacy, not necessarily sex

YTA for neglecting your girlfriend’s medical condition and roommate’s comfort.

User questions excuse for not sleeping apart from boyfriend.

Girlfriend invited herself over, upset with roommate not OP.

Sharing a bed with a roommate? NTA, but it’s complicated.

Sharing a bed with a friend? YTA and no girlfriend.

Sleeping with roommate over girlfriend? YTA, it’s weird

Roommate with ‘Cum inside’ doormat sends GF to couch. YTA.

Roommate’s girlfriend can share bed, unclear why girlfriend can’t.

Bunk beds and CPAP machines: solutions for a sleepover dilemma

Roommate needs a bed or air mattress for sleepover, YTA.

Curiosity and judgment collide in unconventional living arrangement

Roommate possibly taking advantage of OP’s rent payment.

Sleepover dilemma: Roommate’s GF or OP’s relationship?

YTA for weird sleeping arrangement and potential rent robbery.

Netflixisque sleepover with girlfriend and obese sleep apnea roommate. YTA.

Sharing a bed with a friend? YTA for sure!

Friendship or something more? Awkward sleepover situation. YTA.

Sleepover expectations lead to girlfriend vs. roommate dilemma

Suggestion to resolve sleepover dilemma with helpful tips and empathy

YTA for weird sleepover dilemma, something else going on?

Sleeping with your buddy instead of his gf? ‍♂️

User questions OP’s motives for sharing bed with roommate.

Roommate’s girlfriend needs her own room? NTA but time to move out

Sharing bed with friend while girlfriend stays over? YTA.

Saving for a pull-out couch might be the solution ️

YTA didn’t warn girlfriend, now facing consequences ‍♂️

User suggests alternative sleeping arrangements for girlfriend and roommate.

Are they planning to be roommates forever?

User calls out OP for sharing bed with roommate. Yikes.

Girlfriend vs. roommate: NTA but Daisy should pay more rent

Don’t be a pushover, stand up for your relationship!

Late 30s and still living with roommates? Yikes