Imagine being constantly burdened with babysitting duties for your party-loving sibling, who seems to have no regard for your own life or plans. That’s the situation one woman (26F) finds herself in, as her sister Angela (22F) frequently dumps her 3-year-old son, Lincoln, on her doorstep with little to no notice. Angela’s partying ways and refusal to take responsibility for her child have pushed her sister to the breaking point, leading her to issue an ultimatum: either step up as a mom or face a call to child services.
The Party Mom

Older People’s Responsibility?

The Babysitting Burden

No Notice, No Problem?

Workplace Babysitting

Step Up, Mom!

Excuses, Excuses

The Last Straw ️

Adoption Suggestion

The Ultimatum ⏳

The Aftermath

Family Disagreements

Adoption Controversy

To Call or Not to Call?
Frustrated and fed up, the woman has issued an ultimatum to her party-loving sister: either step up as a mom or face a call to child services. While her friends support her decision, other family members argue that it’s too extreme. Adoption is frowned upon by her family, and with her mom’s poor health, this could be her only chance to watch a grandchild grow up. Will the sister change her ways, or will the woman have to make a difficult decision for the sake of her nephew’s well-being? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA. Sister neglects child while partying. Adoption or CPS needed

Family members volunteer to raise child, NTA drops mic

NTA! Angela should take care of her child, not you

Teens underestimate the difficulty of parenting

Sibling drama escalates to child services threat. NTA stands firm.

Stand your ground and set boundaries with party-loving sister.

Enabling sister’s partying is wrong. NTA for intervention.

Commenter shares experience and advises sister to step up as mom. Replies offer family members to care for child.

Commenter calls for parenting classes for party-loving sister. NTA.

Suspicion of fake posts and uncanny similarities among posts

Commenters express frustration over repetitive posts.

NTA. Commenter suggests prioritizing child and setting boundaries.

Don’t let your sister pressure you into unwanted parenthood!

Sibling with child taking advantage of NTA’s kindness

Comment fatigue setting in

Commenter questions validity of trend, declares NTA if true

Sister stands up for herself and sets boundaries with family

NTA. Suggest open adoption for Lincoln’s best interest. Family, STFU.

NTA commenter suggests finding suitable daycare for neglected child

Commenter supports OP’s decision and questions job’s leniency

Dumping her child on you? Not the a**hole (NTA)

Commenter defends party-loving sibling, calls out irresponsible parent.

Stand your ground and prioritize your own life

Commenter suggests finding child’s father to share responsibility.

Sibling complains about being used as babysitter again

Not your child, not your problem. Relatives should step up

Calling child services may scare sister into responsibility

NTA calls out party-loving sister for neglecting her child

What happens if a relative can’t provide a safe environment?

Commenter advocates for nephew’s well-being over family loyalty

Sister needs a reality check NTA for setting boundaries

Family members need to step up or shut up

Compassionate NTA defends sibling, worries for Lincoln

Being a parent means prioritizing your child, but still having fun
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NTA commenter suggests family babysit party-loving sibling’s child

Sibling gets a pass, no a**holes here

Family members should step up for the kid.

Party-loving sibling gets called out for being a selfish parent

Commenter defends Angela’s right to have a life outside parenting

NTA, but family should step up and parent the kid

Family drama and childcare solutions. NTA wins.

Being a responsible aunt doesn’t mean sacrificing your life. NTA

Sibling advises to avoid sister to protect innocent child

NTA commenter agrees sister needs to get her shit together

Party-loving sister dumps child on family, not the a**hole (NTA)

NTA for not wanting to take care of sister’s child.

Clear judgement, but why? Share your reasoning!

Family shaming NTA for partying, but won’t take responsibility.
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No a-hole here. Sibling deserves a life outside of parenting

Dog lover calls out sister’s bad parenting skills.

NTA commenter advocates for adoption of neglected child

Sibling’s party lifestyle shouldn’t burden you. NTA

Parenting comes first, NTA for calling out neglectful behavior

Sibling defends party-loving behavior and threatens to leave child.

Complicated family dynamics, who’s really at fault?

Sibling not at fault, receives NTA judgment
