We all know that one person who’s a little lax when it comes to personal hygiene, but what happens when it starts affecting family outings? One sister (F20) reached her breaking point with her younger brother’s (16) lack of cleanliness and decided to lay down the law. Read on to find out how this family drama unfolded and if she went too far.
The Hygiene Struggle Begins
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Subtle Hints Aren’t Working
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Lockdown Worsens the Situation
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Toenail Troubles
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A Sister’s Plea
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The Environmental Excuse
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Grocery Shopping Buddies
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The Ultimatum
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Embarrassed Sister
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Clean Clothes, Dirty Boy
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Tantrum Time
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Sister Stands Her Ground
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Feeling Guilty
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Desperate Measures
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Sister’s Hygiene Ultimatum: Fair or Foul?
After countless attempts to get her younger brother to improve his hygiene, this sister decided enough was enough. She laid down the law, telling him he couldn’t join her on grocery shopping trips unless he cleaned up his act. Despite his tantrum and hurt feelings, she stood her ground, leaving him upset and confused. Was she too harsh, or is it time for this 16-year-old to learn the importance of basic cleanliness? Let’s take a look at what the internet has to say about this sticky situation.
Grandma saves the day with a forced shower intervention

Fellow shoppers thank OP for sparing them from stinky person. NTA.

Hygiene is important, but let’s not forget about mental health

Sister enforces hygiene rules on brother, treating him like a child

Hygiene advice for teens: no girl wants a Severus Snape

Sibling shares experience with hygiene rebellion and laziness.

Hygiene lesson for teenagers: shower, clean clothes, deodorant

Enabling a spoiled teenager: NTA lays down hygiene law
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Hygiene is key to success

Sister’s hygiene ultimatum saves brother from neckbeard fate. NTA

Walking covid shield? Take advantage of it! NTA.

Experienced parent shares insights on teenage hygiene and development

Shaming can be effective for hygiene, NTA comment suggests

Hygiene reminder: Don’t eat food made by someone with dirty hands

Hygiene is a must in the kitchen, even at home

Good hygiene is important for functioning in society. NTA.

User defends sister’s hygiene rules, advises on self-awareness.

Redditor expresses concern over siblings’ hygiene in a humorous way.

Sibling’s tough love on hygiene for brother to avoid dating issues
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Parent’s hygiene talk or PC restriction can help. NTA.

Agreeing with sister’s hygiene rules during pandemic.

Brother’s hygiene is so bad, his smell ferments in room

Cleanliness is next to godliness, even during quarantine

Encouragement for parent enforcing hygiene on teenager

Sibling enforces hygiene, commenters agree NTA.

Showering 3 times a day vs 2 times a week NTA

Standing up for hygiene in school, NTA ♂️
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NTA, but she should have a private conversation with him

Sibling hygiene drama during pandemic grocery shopping

Husband’s foot hygiene is a nightmare

Encouraging comment about hygiene with helpful advice

Teaching hygiene and discipline to entitled kids

Hygiene is key, no one wants to make out with stinky

Hygiene is important, even more so during a pandemic

Hygiene is key, learn it now or face rejection later

Encouraging empathy and understanding towards brother’s hygiene habits ❤️

Forcing a shower may be tough, but it’s for his benefit

Embrace your stink to enforce social distancing

Saving brother from bullies with hygiene, NTA wins hearts

Hygiene is key to being a considerate member of society

Hygiene is non-negotiable NTA for enforcing it on family.

Concerned commenter suggests poor hygiene could be a mental health issue.

Implementing hygiene rule for family member, NTA

Calling women names undermines the argument. Brother is wrong.

Sister sets hygiene boundaries for grocery trips, advises gentle approach.

Hygiene is key, even for quick grocery trips. NTA.

Practical solutions for hygiene issues with empathy and understanding

Encouraging response to hygiene concerns with helpful advice

Sibling steps up to enforce hygiene rules for grocery trips

Sister gives hygiene advice, commenter warns about testosterone misconceptions.

Encouraging NTA comment on hygiene and maturity

Considerate NTA seeks INFO on sensory issues

Don’t enable his grossness. Let him suffer natural consequences.

Hygiene discussion with lazy brother who works out

Overcoming poor hygiene habits through self-awareness and self-care

Understanding teenage hygiene struggles and offering empathy and advice ❤️
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Saving water or not, hygiene is important. NTA wins.

Teenage boys’ hygiene habits raise concern, seek professional advice

Hygiene rules for grocery trips: NTA doing a favor

Hygiene debate sparks hilarious reaction from commenter.

Depression can make hygiene tough. Ask gently. ❤

Teaching hygiene is tough, but worth it in the end

Sister seeks advice on unhygienic 16-year-old brother
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Being an older sibling is tough, but this NTA is doing it right

Brother learns hygiene lesson the hard way. NTA.

Parenting win: Teaching hygiene to kids with humor
