Imagine being pregnant and excited about your future child, only to be left out of your family’s beloved Christmas tradition. This mom-to-be found herself in that exact situation, and the emotional impact was too much for her to handle. After being excluded from the family’s Santa gift exchange, she decided to leave the family gathering two days earlier than planned. Was she overreacting, or was her family truly in the wrong? Let’s dive into her story.
Feeling Like the A**hole

A Charitable Christmas Spirit

Family Quarantine and Gift Requests

Playing Along with Santa

Santa’s Gift Disparity

Gifts for the Baby?

Sibling Gift Comparison

Leaving Early to Avoid Sulking

Family’s Passive Aggressive Comments

Feeling Neglected

Growing Out of Santa

A Heartbreaking Santa Snub
This mom-to-be was left feeling hurt and neglected after her family’s Santa tradition excluded her and her unborn child. Despite her requests for baby items, she received minimal gifts for her future son, while her siblings were showered with presents. To avoid sulking and ruining the festivities, she decided to leave the gathering early, causing tension among her family members. Was she justified in her actions, or should she have been more understanding of her family’s gift-giving choices? Let’s see what people have to say about this emotional Christmas tale.
NTA. Commenters empathize with OP’s disappointment and hurt feelings.

NTA- Pregnant woman left family gathering early after Santa snub

Skipping Christmas with in-laws may be a better option.

Family favoritism and gift-giving gone wrong

Confusion over ‘Santa is done for us’ note explained

Pregnant woman excluded from Santa’s gifts, NTA for leaving early

NTA. OP’s family has a history of treating them poorly. Therapy recommended.

Gift-giving gone wrong: A tradition causing family drama

Commenter calls out family’s behavior with fiery language

Pregnant woman receives insulting gift, leaves family gathering. NTA.

Mother gives note telling son he’s responsible for Santa now

Encouraging reply to pregnant woman dealing with sexist parents.

Family scapegoat pregnant woman leaves early after Santa snub

Unfair gift-giving at family gathering, husband included ♀️

Unfortunate Christmas gift exchange leads to family exclusion. NTA.

Commenter offers advice and receives a humorous reply.

Set boundaries and believe people’s actions – NTA comment.

Commenter questions grandparents’ favoritism towards siblings, suggests avoiding family.

Setting boundaries and leaving was the right move. #NTA

NTA gets sarcastic response for being called ‘afterthought’

Clarification on Santa vs family gifts confusion

Misogyny and favoritism at a family gathering. NTA.

Being the non-favored child can be tough. Mature handling. NTA

Thoughtful gift-givers unite! NTA for feeling hurt ♀️

♀️ OP is NTA for feeling hurt after being snubbed by Santa.

Communication breakdown causing family tension ♀️

Commenter supports leaving family gathering early after disappointing gifts.

Feeling unheard and uncared for during gift giving

Commenter questions Santa’s double standard towards adults

Commenter sympathizes with OP, suggests parents may have expected her to be Santa to her own child. OP clarifies that her older brother already has children, and is grateful for her husband’s support.

Comment section takes a spicy turn
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Op feels unappreciated by family’s unequal gift-giving, explained further in replies

Family’s insensitivity towards pregnant woman sparks NTA response.

Gift-giving drama at family gathering, commenter supports pregnant woman

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s gender inequality issue in family

Commenter calls out OP for being ungrateful and childish ♀️

Empathetic comment supports pregnant woman’s Santa snub

Pregnant woman excluded from family Santa gifts, NTA for leaving early

NTA. Family’s favoritism and narcissism caused hurtful Christmas gathering.
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Heartwarming response to pregnant woman’s Santa snub.

Mom’s sexism exposed, commenter is NTA

Adults doing Santa weird, mom leaving daughter out = AH ♀️
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Protecting your baby from toxic family members is crucial

Avoiding family drama during holidays
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Curious commenter wants to know both sides

Family’s Santa tradition causes awkward gift-giving situation

Expecting mother’s Santa snub leads to family gift-giving confusion

NTA for not wanting to be ignored just because of Santa

Sibling rivalry over Santa’s gifts sparks family drama
