Picture this: your pregnant roommate asks you to move out so her boyfriend can move in and they can prepare for their baby’s arrival. You’re cool with it and even find a better financial situation by moving back to your parents’ house. But then, your roommate’s relationship takes a turn for the worse, and suddenly she’s begging you to stay. What would you do?
The Original Plan
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Financial Struggles
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Moving Back Home
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The Breakup
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A Change of Plans?
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The Desperate Search ️♀️
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The Plea for Help
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Financial Sense
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The Cheating Scandal
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Lease Agreement
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To Stay or Not to Stay?
So here’s the dilemma: our friend was asked to move out by her pregnant roommate, found a better financial situation, and is all set to leave. But now, the roommate’s relationship has crumbled, and she’s desperately pleading for her to stay, as she can’t afford rent on her own. With a baby on the way and a cheating scandal in the mix, should our friend stay and help her roommate, or stick to her original plan and move back home? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA, take care of yourself. No shortage of potential roomies.

Supportive comment warns of potential future eviction.

Commenter suggests pregnant roommate move back with parents.

NTA for following original plan despite roommate’s volatile situation.

Difficult situation, but you’re not obligated to say yes.

Commenter questions how roommate will afford a child. Replies suggest leaving.
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Roommate’s indecisiveness causing emotional strain on NTA.

Roommate asked OP to move out, changed plan. NTA. ♀️

Temporary fix? NTA should move out.

Suggests joining a local moms Facebook group for roommate, gets mixed reactions ♀️

Financial struggles make it fair to say no to responsibility.

Roommate’s pregnancy sparks conflict over living arrangements. NAH.

You made plans to move out. NTA.
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Don’t sacrifice your plans to pay for your roommate’s emergency.

Roommate only cares about herself. NTA. Drop her.
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You didn’t sign up to live with a baby. NTA

Commenter suspects ulterior motive behind roommate’s sudden change of heart

Prioritizing self-interest while empathizing with roommate’s situation. NTA

To stay or go? The dilemma of living with a newborn.

Financial concerns raised about pregnant roommate’s ability to care for baby

Legal obligations for rent payment and lease termination explained

Comment section turns into a paternity test drama

NTA, but what if the baby isn’t his?

Financial struggles and roommates – NTA has a point.

Don’t let her lack of planning become your emergency.

Roommate can’t afford to live there, and boyfriend cheated on.

Financial strain: Move in with parents or drain savings?

NTA: Roommate cheated and lied about pregnancy. You come first.

Expect to be drafted into childcare if you stay
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Concerned commenter asks about pregnant roommate’s family situation.

Who’s the daddy? The pregnant roommate’s dilemma

Live your life for you!

Navigating roommate drama with grace and empathy.

Roommate’s pregnancy not your problem. NTA

Heartwarming comment earns NTA judgement ❤

Roommate’s tough spot not entirely OP’s fault.

♀️ Roommate update: Get away. Far far away.

Honesty is the best policy.

Support for not being the a**hole in roommate situation.
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Suggesting father as roommate to help with baby.

Dodging a bullet – one comment, no replies.
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Karma strikes: Cheating roommate gets kicked out.

Moving out was the right choice. Ex-BF should help too

NTA roommate’s pregnant cheater roommate begs for rent help
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Financial burdens aren’t your problem. NTA
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Roommate can’t afford rent, but NTA for not covering it

Hands off approach approved: NTA comment shuts down drama.

Be your own advocate!

NTA. Roommate’s cheating and baby not your problem. Move out.

Move out and prosper NTA

Don’t be guilted into free babysitting. NTA for leaving.

NTA: You can’t afford to stay. It’s not your responsibility.

Newborn roomie drama: NTA wouldn’t live with own baby either

It’s not your responsibility to make sure she can afford rent

Supportive comment encourages leaving unstable pregnant roommate.

Financial struggles lead to roommate conflict. NTA’s advice given.

Helpful advice for pregnant roommate situation. NTA.

Avoid being a second parent, move out before it’s late!

Single mom-to-be needs child support, NTA suggests assistance application.

Don’t suffer consequences for roommate’s mistake. #NTA

Hands off approach approved

Suggests short-term roommate for pregnant woman.

Roommate’s pregnancy doesn’t give her right to control living situation.
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