Imagine planning a Halloween party with your friends, only to have your parents cancel it last minute. Now, picture them throwing their own party and expecting you to clean the house for their guests! That’s exactly what happened to an 18-year-old college student who shared her story online. Let’s dive into the details and find out if she’s in the wrong or if her parents are being unfair.
A Rare Occasion to See Friends ️
The Perfect Party Location
Parents Approve, Then Cancel
The Reason: A Messy House
Unfair Expectations
Party Relocated
Parents Try to Change Plans
Outdoor Party Suggestions
Deflecting Their Ideas
Parents’ Party Time
Minimal Cleaning Effort
Phone Confiscation Attempt
Unfair Expectations, Again
Two Older Brothers
Cleaning for Uninvited Guests?
In a nutshell, an 18-year-old college student planned a Halloween party at her house, but her parents canceled it due to cleanliness concerns. They then threw their party and expected her to clean the house for their guests. The young woman refused, stating it was unfair to clean for guests she didn’t invite and wouldn’t even see on Halloween. She’s now left wondering if she’s in the wrong or if her parents are being unreasonable. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this spooky situation…
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