Imagine buying a new home with a pool, only to have your neighbors demand access to it for their own parties and gatherings. That’s exactly what happened to a couple who recently purchased a single-family, non-HOA home with a pool. The couple, who prefer to keep to themselves, were taken aback when neighbors from three surrounding homes approached them with expectations to use their pool for weekend and holiday pool parties. ♀️ Little did they know, the previous homeowners had allowed the neighborhood kids and adults to use the pool whenever they wanted. The new homeowners, however, had different plans.
New Home, New Pool ♂️

Unexpected Pool Demands

Previous Owners’ Open Pool Policy

Payment for Pool Maintenance

Persistent Neighbors

Cornered While Gardening

Followed on Their Property

Enough is Enough!

A Firm Request

Tired of the Nagging

No Bond Formed ♀️

Party Crashers?

Company Interrupted

Is Privacy Too Much to Ask For?
Despite the couple’s repeated attempts to politely decline their neighbors’ requests for pool access, the neighbors just won’t take no for an answer. The homeowners are growing increasingly frustrated with the constant nagging and feel that their privacy is being invaded. They’ve even had to ask their neighbors to leave their property when they followed them while discussing the pool issue. With no bond formed between the new homeowners and their neighbors, it seems that the pool drama is the only thing keeping them connected. So, is it too much to ask for some privacy and control over one’s own property? ♂️ Let’s see what people have to say about this situation…
NTA and potential liability issues make it a clear decision

Neighbors demand pool access, homeowners say no! ♀️ NTA comments with supportive replies

Homeowners not obligated to give pool access, NTA

Firm NTA response to entitled neighbors demanding pool access.

New homeowners refuse pool access, citing liability concerns. ♀️

Homeowners put up no trespassing signs after pool dispute.

Protect your property and peace of mind with cameras and signs. NTA

Neighbor’s entitlement to pool access sparks heated discussion.

NTA shuts down entitled neighbors with pool pamphlets

No pool access for neighbors, NTA suggests buying their own ♀️

Neighbor asks for daily pool access, even asks child. Creepy!

Homeowners stand their ground against entitled neighbors

Homeowners face liability, neighbors demand access. Entitled mentality?

Neighbor compares pool to car, NTA comment receives support

Polite yet firm response shuts down entitled neighbors

Suggests putting a pool in their own yard.
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Neighbors demand pool access, but NTA homeowner stands firm

Annoying neighbor always pushing for more

Lock your gate and keep those entitled jerks out!

Creative excuse for denying pool access

Homeowners stand their ground against entitled neighbors.

No pool access for neighbors, build your own ♀️

Pool owner’s sister dealt with party crashers, commenter’s wife would kick them out

Polite entitlement is still entitlement. NTA stands firm

Homeowners stand firm on pool access, internet agrees.

Homeowners stand their ground on pool access. NTA

Neighbors demand pool access, but homeowners say no!

Private homeowner refuses pool access to neighbors, suggests they install own.

NTA homeowner refuses pool access to entitled neighbors

Neighbors try to bully homeowners into giving pool access. NTA.

Protect your property! Learn about Attractive Nuisance Doctrine

Savage suggestion to make neighbors build their own pool

Experienced pool owner sets boundaries and safety rules. NTA

Set up cameras and post a no trespassing sign!

NTA! It’s your property. Horrible, r**e neighbors. Stand your ground!

Horrible neighbors demand pool access, but OP is NTA.

Homeowners defend their privacy and pool ownership.

Lock the gates and don’t back down

Homeowners win pool dispute, neighbors unhappy

Entitled neighbors demand pool access, commenter says NTA

Set boundaries and shut down pool requests to avoid conflict

Sassy reply to entitled neighbors, with humorous suggestions

Homeowner suggests turning pool into piranha pond. NTA wins.

Boundary issues and pool access – sticky neighbor situations

Neighbors’ entitlement is obnoxious AF, commenter is NTA.

Neighbors demand pool access, commenter cringes at their audacity

NTA wins, entitled neighbors are jerks

Homeowner stands firm against pool access demands and weeds

NTA homeowner dealing with entitled neighbors demanding pool access.

Respect homeowner’s privacy and mental health. NTA

Homeowner’s response to entitled neighbors is savage

Neighbors demand pool access, homeowner says no! NTA stands firm.

Protect your privacy and financial well-being, post no trespassing signs

Neighbors demand pool access without building a relationship

Respectful boundaries? NTA comment calls out entitled neighbors.

Secure your property and lose your nice attitude!
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Homeowner stands ground against entitled neighbors demanding pool access. ♀️
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Commenter shuts down pool access demand with NTA judgement

Last Updated on June 11, 2023 by Diply Social Team