Imagine this: You’re a loving mother, doing your best to co-parent with your ex, when suddenly, a new player enters the scene. His new girlfriend, now your daughter’s stepmom, seems nice enough at first. But then, one day, you get a tearful call from your 13-year-old daughter. She’s upset, feeling violated and exposed. What happened? The stepmom read your daughter’s private journal and took it upon herself to ‘help’ her lose weight. Here’s the full story…
The Peaceful Co-parenting Setup ️

Enter the Stepmom

The Tearful Call ☎️

Amelia’s Safe Space Invaded

Kathy’s ‘Help’

Confronting Kathy

Setting Boundaries

The Aftermath ️

Kathy’s Accusations

A Mother’s Battle for Her Daughter’s Privacy and Self-esteem
In a world where co-parenting can be a minefield, one mother found herself in a face-off with her ex’s new girlfriend over their daughter’s privacy. The stepmom, Kathy, crossed a line by reading Amelia’s private journal and then proposing a diet plan for the teenager, who already struggles with self-esteem issues. The mom stood her ground, setting boundaries with Kathy, and taking Amelia home until she felt ready to return to her dad’s. But Kathy’s response? Accusing the mom of coming between her and her boyfriend. Was the mom right to intervene? Or did she overstep? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA OP, you’re a**hole-proof! Keep defending your daughter!

NTA – Invasion of privacy, inappropriate dieting, and bizarre outlook

NTA. Protecting your daughter from a disgusting invasion of privacy.

NTA. A fiery response to an invasion of privacy!

NTA: Ex’s gf crossed the line, set boundaries or court

NTA, but your sister and Kathy are. You weren’t wrong

NTA. Kathy violated your daughter’s privacy and disrespected boundaries.

NTA. Amazing mom prioritizes daughter’s privacy and co-parents effectively.

NTA. Protecting your daughter from invasion of privacy. Kathy’s behavior is unacceptable.

Stepmom’s behavior is inappropriate and toxic. NTA for sure!

NTA- Respecting privacy is crucial, especially for sensitive topics.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://diplycom5cc47.zapwp.com/q:i/r:0/wp:1/w:1/u:https://static.diply.com/48085b60-21f0-4a26-a3bb-51b0fbabea1b.png)
Ex’s wife invades daughter’s privacy, toxic ‘help’. Stick to instincts. NTA

NTA: Co-parenting win! Screenshot and share for the win!

Stepmom crosses boundaries, body shames daughter. NTA, protect her!

NTA. Kathy violated Amelia’s privacy and needs to apologize

NTA. Block Kathy, show Liam who she really is.

“NTA. Kathy should know better than to suggest dieting. “

Kathy’s invasive actions backfire, causing tension and resentment.

Invasion of privacy and body shaming – NTA for being upset

NTA for respecting your daughter’s privacy, but TA for invading.

NTA: Kathy’s toxic behavior jeopardizes her relationship with Liam.

NTA, Ex’s gf causing unnecessary drama. Prioritize child and cooperation.

NTA. Stand your ground against invasive stepmom and meddling sister.

Stepmom’s fat-shaming invasion of privacy traumatizes daughter. NTA.

Ex’s gf is a danger to your child. Trust your instincts!

NTA. Kathy violated boundaries, jeopardizing Amelia’s trust and relationship with you.

Send the screenshot to Liam or lose his daughter! NTA

Validation from others isn’t necessary, trust your own judgment!
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://diplycom5cc47.zapwp.com/q:i/r:0/wp:1/w:1/u:https://static.diply.com/74307bb1-1002-4336-87b3-ea8fe6117432.png)
Concerned commenter warns about dangers of losing weight too quickly

NTA – Co-parenting success! Sister’s wrong, prioritize child’s interests

Outrage over invasion of privacy and harmful influence on daughter

Invasion of privacy, body shaming, and a divided relationship? NTA!

NTA: Liam’s girlfriend violated boundaries, relationship should end.

NTA your sister and Kathy are causing unnecessary drama

NTA! Ex’s partner crossed boundaries. You handled it maturely.

NTA. Thank you for protecting her!
