Thanksgiving, a time for family, food, and…friction? One brave mom is stirring the pot, setting out a list of ground rules for her husband’s family ahead of the holiday gathering. Her mission? To ensure the comfort and safety of her autistic daughter, Grace. While some may see this as a bold move, others are less than thrilled. Let’s dive into this turkey of a tale, shall we?
Meet Grace: A Special Little Girl in a Big Family
A Thanksgiving Homecoming: The Plot Thickens
The Rules of Engagement: A Mother’s Protective Stance ️
The Controversial Commandments: Touch Not, Press Not, Feed Not ️ ️
Sacred Spaces and Toy Troubles: More Rules, More Drama
Pool Politics: The Final Rule Makes a Splash ♀️
Family Feud: The Backlash Begins ️
Toys, Hugs, and Hurt Feelings: The Family Strikes Back
A Final Note: The Mother’s Defense ️
A Thanksgiving Showdown: The Verdict on Mom’s Rules ⚖️
In a bold move to protect her autistic daughter’s comfort during their family Thanksgiving gathering, one mom has laid down the law, sparking a family feud. From ‘no touching’ to ‘no toy sharing’, these rules have ruffled some feathers. With the family divided and the holiday looming, we’re left wondering: who’s in the right here? Let’s explore the internet’s top responses to this holiday hullabaloo… ️♀️
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NTA: Setting boundaries for an autistic child, family needs education
Setting boundaries for Thanksgiving with an autistic daughter. NTA
Concerned about potential chaos and lack of boundaries during gathering.
NTA. Perfectly reasonable rules for unruly relatives and their kids
NTA. Autistic child needs accommodations. Family must respect boundaries.
NTA sets boundaries for unruly relatives, sparks relatable comments
NTA but confrontational tone could have been more persuasive
Aunt defends mom’s rules for Thanksgiving, prioritizing safety and enjoyment
Helping our autistic children build distress tolerance and social skills
Protecting your child at Thanksgiving: NTA for setting boundaries
They’ve met her before, but rules are necessary for her.
Mild ESH. Polite communication could’ve avoided unnecessary pushback and upset
NTA. Setting boundaries for your autistic daughter, protecting her well-being.
Engaging comment on normal etiquette and hosting rules for kids.
Being firm can be necessary when setting boundaries for personal space
Setting boundaries for autistic daughter’s Thanksgiving: reasonable middle ground
“NTA. Hosting rules may upset child. Outdoor event better? ♀️”
Hosting Thanksgiving with an autistic daughter: family dynamics and concerns
Commenter questions the wording of the rules, replies clarify
NTA. Prioritizing your child’s comfort and well-being is commendable.
Setting expectations and lightening the tone for sensitive guests. ✨
NTA. Setting boundaries for your autistic daughter’s well-being
Putting your child’s safety first is the most important.
NTA. Family drama? Have a great Thanksgiving without the drama!
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NTA, it’s a two-way street. Enjoy yourself!
Set the rules or host your own party
NTA, protecting daughter from triggering situations. They should be understanding.
NTA, you’re awesome parents, but extended family lacks understanding
NTA. Setting boundaries for Thanksgiving with autistic daughter and relatives.
Creating a kid-friendly space for Thanksgiving: ESH
NTA- Setting boundaries and advocating for personal space
NTA. Autistic adult wishes parents knew, you’re doing amazing
NTA. Hotel staff understands the importance of accommodating special needs.
“NTA. Make her home comfortable and enjoyable for her.”
NTA. Setting boundaries for autistic daughter brings heartwarming breakthrough
Setting boundaries for a peaceful Thanksgiving
Setting boundaries for Thanksgiving: NTA, no room for complaints
NTA. Consent matters, even with children. #RespectKidsBoundaries
NTA – You’re in charge! Set the rules for your house.
Autistic commenter appreciates mom’s rules for family gatherings.
NTA, protect your kid! Teach them love without physical touch
NTA. Stand your ground and protect your child
NTA – Enforcing rules for autistic daughter at Thanksgiving, potential challenges
NTA, autistic woman here, I LOVE YOU. Greatest parent ever!
NTA: A heartwarming story of advocating for your autistic daughter
Husband’s entitled family? Not the a**hole, mom lays down law!
NTA. Mom sets boundaries for autistic daughter’s Thanksgiving. ♀️
NTA. Autistic daughter’s needs respected. Stick to your boundaries
Preventing a meltdown for an autistic child: the audacity!
NTA, you’re a good mom! Boundaries are important for all kids
NTA for prioritizing daughter, but tone and fairness could be issues
Lock the playroom to avoid tempting toys for the kids
NTA! Thank you for prioritizing your daughter’s needs and boundaries!
Setting boundaries to protect your kid. NTA.
NTA: Creating a safe space for children is always important
Standing up for your autistic daughter against unruly relatives ♀️
Standing up for your daughter!
NTA, reasonable rules but playroom may be difficult. Backyard alternative?
Respecting boundaries: Let kids decide who they want to hug
Putting autistic child’s needs first
Autistic commenter finds solace in escaping unruly Thanksgiving relatives
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Family dynamics and Thanksgiving drama.
NTA. You set the rules, it’s your party!
“Absolutely NTA.” – A resounding endorsement for the poster’s actions!
Mom stands up for herself and her autistic daughter.
Respect the rules or stay home
NTA. Excellent parenting! Rules for daughter’s wellbeing. Family needs understanding!
Don’t host them! They won’t respect your rules
NTA. Setting clear boundaries and protecting your daughter.
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