Weddings are often a whirlwind of joy, stress, and a whole lot of planning. But what happens when you throw in a modern twist? A couple from a large progressive city is facing an unusual wedding ethics dilemma that’s got everyone talking. They’ve got guests in polyamorous relationships and one couple has requested an additional ‘plus one’. The couple could accommodate them, but they’re hesitant. Is it fair to bend the rules for one couple? Let’s dive into this intriguing tale of love, weddings, and the complexities of modern relationships.
The Wedding Bells are Ringing

Love is a Many-Splendored Thing… Or is it?

A Plus One… Plus One?

The Principle of the Matter ♀️

The Dilemma Deepens ♂️

The Gossip Mill is Churning ️

A Sudden Change in Relationship Dynamics

The Final Verdict ️

All’s Well That Ends Well?

A Wedding Plus One Plus One: A Modern Love Dilemma Resolved?
Caught in a modern love conundrum, our couple found themselves at the center of a wedding ethics debate. With guests in polyamorous relationships, they were faced with a request for an additional ‘plus one’. The couple could accommodate this request, but they were hesitant. Should they bend the rules for one couple? After much thought and discussion, they decided to give the extra invite, ensuring any potential drama would die down before the big day. The couple in question was cool with it, and even their other polyamorous friends were far from offended. A modern love dilemma resolved, but the question remains: how many is too many when it comes to wedding invites?
Invite the primary partner with a +1, and give the MC a separate invite. NAH

NTA – Asking for an extra invite is a bit rude

NAH – Personal opinion on wedding plus ones, no obligation

“YTA. Alienating a friend over a +2 seems unnecessary. “

Setting boundaries on plus one invites. NTA!

Soft YTA, but into NAH territory. Understandable dilemma for polyamorous couples.

NTA, own your wedding! Your choice, your bill, your plate.

“YTA. You gotta accommodate someone playing a big role. “

INFO: Non-MC partner left alone with strangers? Soft YTA.
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NAH, but YWBTA if you don’t make a one-off exception.

NTA. Fair rule, no exceptions. Invite the other member separately.

Invite who you want! It’s your special day!

No free-for-all at weddings! Set clear plus one rules.

Engaging comment: NTA. Setting boundaries for wedding guest list.

NTA. Your wedding, your rules. Do whatever the f**k you want!

Should the non-MC duo get a +1? Let’s discuss!
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“NTA. Are they really adult enough for a polyamorous relationship? “

Solving the wedding invite dilemma without causing drama

YTA, relax! It’s just one extra invite. Don’t overthink it.

YTA: MC’s partner deserves their own invite. Don’t be stubborn.

INFO: MC considering backing out of wedding. Friendship in question?

NTA. Love triangle at a wedding? Drama on the dancefloor!

Plus one isn’t just for partners, it’s for old bros too!

Soft YTA: Be flexible and considerate to avoid hurting feelings.

Polite decline? It’s your wedding, but consider the MC’s role.

NAH. Courteous request, but ultimately your decision. Consider other guests too.

INFO: Wedding party member needs +1, don’t be pedantic about invitations.

Solving wedding guest dilemmas like a pro!
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Creative solution to the plus one dilemma for wedding guests

Give them a plus one, but MC has to stay.

“It’s just a matter of principal.” YTA according to commenter

Poly person shares perspective on inviting partners to weddings.

NTA with a unique perspective: weddings as a polyamorous family unit

Logistically, giving an extra invite ensures a smooth wedding.

NTA, but consider giving the MC’s partner a plus one
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Confused about the plus-one situation? Can’t they invite someone else?

Invite MC separately, avoid +2’s, NTA, it’s your wedding

Guest working at wedding: Are they really a +1?

NTA: When clinginess reaches new relationship energy levels

NTA! Who can’t handle being ‘alone’ for one evening?!

NAH. MC’s role is brief, so no need for extra company.

Navigating a modern wedding: To include or not include polyamorous guests?
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No a-hole here. Let’s find out the modern wedding dilemma!
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Poly friends invite new member to small wedding, deemed inappropriate.

Be grateful for their help and give them the extra +1!

NTA, your wedding, your rules Avoiding drama
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Polyamorous guest respects friend’s +1 decision for wedding.

Wedding party gets special invites, no extra +1s. NTA

Debate over wedding invite wording sparks heated discussion.

To bend or not to bend? That is the question.
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“It’s your big day, do what you want! “

Polyamory sparks controversy at wedding. Commenter calls them a**holes.

Is it rude to ask for a +1?
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Feeling like the odd one out at a wedding

Stand on principle and avoid snubbing with separate invites.

“Don’t give them more invites, it’s *your* wedding! NTA!”

Poly couple asks for extra plus one, reasonable or not?

Family drama? Nah, it’s your wedding, do what you want!

Polite request for extra guests, but limited capacity explained.

Creative solution: Individual invitations for friends, not couples
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YTA – Excluding their whole family? Not cool.

NAH. Stick to your rules, but consider offering a +2.

NTA. Slippery slope of wedding guest exceptions

YTA, but consider making an exception for close friends

Extend an extra invitation for the second polyamorous group?

Poly person navigates wedding logistics and social expectations.

YTA: Be flexible and show appreciation to your supportive friends.

NTA: Don’t mess with the equation, keep it as is!

Not the a**hole. What’s the dilemma? Tell me more!
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“YTA. They’re doing a lot for your wedding. Be flexible! “

Politely decline the request, it’s your special day after all.
