Imagine eagerly waiting for Halloween, only to have your family ruin it for you. That’s what happened to a 25-year-old man, who, five years ago, agreed to a compromise with his parents. He would attend his sister’s Halloween party with them and then head to a friend’s party. However, things didn’t go as planned, and the man was left feeling betrayed and angry. Let’s dive into this spooky tale of broken promises and family drama.
The Halloween Compromise

Inflatable Ninja Costume

Waiting in Costume ⏰

Trick or Treating Disappointment

Guilted into Staying

Missing the Party

Broken Promise

Halloween with Friends

Parents’ Request

Refusing to Drive

Farmyard Party Fun

Sister’s Fury

Family Blames Him

Sister’s Change of Heart

The Emotional Conversation

The DUI Details

Confronting the Parents ️

From Broken Promises to DUI Drama
After years of avoiding family Halloweens, our ninja-costumed protagonist found himself caught in a web of blame when his parents got a DUI. His sister initially lashed out at him, but after a heartfelt conversation, she realized her own role in enabling their parents’ behavior. The family confronted their parents, who faced the consequences of their actions. With tensions high, will this family be able to mend their relationships and find a way to celebrate Halloween together again?
Family blames him for their drunk driving? NTA, run away

Commenter supports OP and condemns drunk driving

Commenter defends OP’s decision with a logical argument, NTA

NTA: Don’t blame yourself for their poor choices

Family broke promise, NTA stands up for himself

Family’s broken promise leads to drunk driving. NTA wins.

Teen wants to be emancipated after family broke promise. NTA

Daughter’s negligence ruins father’s Halloween. NTA for calling out.

Family breaks promise, NTA suggests alternatives to drunk driving.

NTA stands up to family’s broken promise and DUI blame.

Family fails to keep promise, NTA calls out grown-ass adults

Don’t let anyone guilt trip you into being a DD

Skip the broken promises and take an Uber. NTA

NTA: Don’t let them blame you for their bad choices

Commenter supports OP, calls out irresponsible parents

Commenter defends OP, blames parents for broken promise
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Commenter defends OP’s decision not to be a designated driver

Commenter defends man’s decision to not be a designated driver

NTA comment receives no replies

Man rightfully refuses to enable drunk driving, family blames him ♂️

Commenter calls out parents for drinking and driving

OP’s family drank and drove on Halloween, OP is NTA

Taking responsibility for others? No thanks! NTA

NTA comment defends OP and throws shade at parents

Family’s broken promise ruins man’s Halloween, but he’s NTA

Commenter defends OP’s decision and calls out family’s irresponsibility

Commenter supports OP and suggests cutting off family members
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NTA. Your parents and sister had options. They made bad choices.

NTA, but sister’s actions were dangerous and irresponsible

Commenter agrees with man’s Halloween disappointment

NTA. Your sister should have taken their keys

Commenter calls out family’s reckless behavior, defends OP.

Family prioritizes designated driver over family time. NTA wins.

Don’t let family guilt you. Keep learning and growing!

Entitled family ruins man’s Halloween, NTA stands up for himself

Commenter defends man’s decision, calls for responsibility and options.

Commenter calls out family’s irresponsibility during Halloween party
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Don’t drink and drive, simple as that
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Commenter defends man’s Halloween, blames family’s DUI.

Commenter sympathizes with OP and condemns parents’ behavior

Defending Halloween as a holiday for fun and friends

NTA. Blame game ensues after family ruins man’s Halloween

Commenter sympathizes with OP and insults their family

Commenter supports OP, suggests parents ruined their own Halloween

NTA. Family’s broken promise ruins man’s Halloween

OP not at fault for being the responsible adult

Don’t let anyone guilt trip you into being a DD. #NTA

Commenter supports man, no replies yet

NTA for refusing to be DD, family blames you instead ♂️

Commenter supports OP and criticizes parents’ behavior

Commenter suggests simple solutions for ruined Halloween

Don’t let them guilt trip you. NTA

Taking a taxi could have saved his Halloween

Sister’s broken promise ruins Halloween, NTA for not forgiving.

Stand your ground and enjoy Halloween!

Commenter defends OP’s decision to not be a DD.

Commenter suggests practical solution for Halloween transportation

Commenter defends man’s Halloween actions. NTA

Commenter defends man’s decision and blames family’s irresponsibility.

NTA: Commenter calls out parents’ poor decision-making and ignorance.

Sibling drama: NTA for not fixing parents’ problem

Blaming the drunk driver’s passenger for an accident.

NTA: Savage comment about parents not knowing Uber

Commenter calls out parents’ drinking problem and reckless behavior

NTA stands up to drunk-driving parents, family supports independence

Comment calls out DUI parent, sparks no replies.

Parents broke promise, drank and drove. NTA for mistrusting them

Commenter suggests options to avoid drunk driving. NTA

Commenter calls out DUI excuse on Halloween with shock.

Commenter calls out drunk driving parents, supports OP’s decision.

Commenter not holding back on their feelings about alcoholics

Sibling avoids blame for parents’ DUI, NTA

NTA. Don’t let their irresponsibility ruin your Halloween

Commenter sarcastically calls out family’s intelligence, NTA.

Suggests reasonable compromise for family’s broken promise

Family breaks promise, blames grown adult for not hanging out. NTA

Sister’s hypocrisy in drunk driving incident sparks NTA judgment

NTA for holding adults accountable for their poor choices
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Don’t be the DD for your partying parents

Commenter sympathizes with OP, criticizes parents’ drinking and driving

Commenter condemns drunk driving in Halloween article.

Commenter calls out OP for leaving parents no options. NTA.

Don’t blame yourself for their law-breaking actions. NTA
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Don’t drink and drive, folks. ♂️

Sibling favoritism and broken promises NTA for standing up.

Commenter defends OP and questions parents’ financial situation

NTA for not wanting to be your family’s crutch

Supportive comment.
