We’ve all been there: waiting for what seems like an eternity for a meal at a friend’s house. But what if the host is your spouse, and they’re always running late? One husband decided to take matters into his own hands by lying to his wife about the arrival time of their guests. His intentions were good, but his wife didn’t see it that way. Let’s dive into the story!
The Wife’s Time Management Struggles

The Husband’s Different Approach

The Deceptive Plan

The Wife Gets Suspicious

Guests Arrive on Time

The Truth Comes Out

The Wife’s Reaction

The Confrontation

The Wife’s Response

The Husband’s Defense

The Wife’s Accusations

The Unresolved Issue

Husband’s Deception: Helpful or Hurtful?
This husband thought he was doing his wife a favor by lying to her about the arrival time of their guests, hoping to avoid the usual delays in serving food. But when the truth came out, she was furious, accusing him of insulting her and making her feel like a terrible host. He defended his actions, saying he was just trying to find a solution to the problem. Was his deception justified, or did he go too far? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Debate over whether OP is TA for lying to wife about timing

Wife does all the work while husband entertains guests ♀️

Comment section debates gender roles and ADHD in response to YTA comment.

Gender roles debated in cooking vs cleaning duties

Man lies about guests to make wife cook faster: YTA

Help out with the cooking, don’t be a YTA

User questions man’s contribution to dinner party preparations

Lazy husband gets caught, but blames wife for his mistake

OP manipulates wife instead of communicating and helping with dinner.

User thinks OP is the a**hole for tricking his wife into cooking on time for guests and suggests having a conversation as a couple instead of manipulating each other.

Balancing punctuality with family traditions can be tricky ⏳️

Lying about dinner time: Relatable or inconsiderate?

Tricking family members for punctuality: relatable or rude?

User calls out OP for not helping wife. YTA confirmed.

ESH for tricking her, but she should have delivered properly

Manipulating your spouse is never okay

Commenter calls out OP for being TA in cooking debacle.

NTA for expecting punctuality, but deceitful behavior not cool

Tricking someone into cooking is a**hole move, but relatable

NTA. Importance of respecting other people’s time and punctuality.

Collaboration is key in the kitchen, not trickery.

When you’re resigned to your spouse’s pattern of behavior ♀️

Husband’s ‘help’ is causing more stress. YTA for lying.

Tricking spouse into cooking on time: ESH, but relatable

NTA for expecting guests to be on time for dinner

User calls out husband for being sneaky and dishonest.

Defending husband’s actions, blaming wife’s time management skills.

Tricking wife into cooking on time for guests: NTA or A-hole?

Curious about OP’s contribution to household chores

Cooking for guests is overwhelming. NTA for tricking wife.

Husband’s cooking ploy backfires, called out for bad lying skills

ESH situation. Tricking her was wrong, but both need to communicate better.

Tricking spouse into cooking on time: justified or manipulative?

Spouse tricks partner into being punctual, is it okay?

Partner’s little white lie saves dinner party, NTA wins.

Late guests? Keep lying about start time. NTA!

Lateness is rude, but is lying to someone the solution?

Partner’s cooking delays solved with white lie. NTA

ADHD time management struggles: friend’s trick is NTA

Tricking spouse to be on time: NTA or bad idea?

User calls out OP for being TA and controlling.

Teaching a lesson or being rude? NTA thinks former.

Helpful advice on cooking mishaps, NTA comment section

Gender bias accusations shut down in funny time-management anecdote

Honesty is the best policy. YTA should do the cooking.

Not the a**hole, but why the controversy? �onfused

Tricking spouse into cooking: ESH, lying and time-management issues ♀️ ♂️
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Cooking takes time and practice. NTA for wanting help.

Fair distribution of chores when guests come over?

Taking responsibility or overreacting? NTA comment section debates.

Double standard? NTA husband tricks wife into cooking on time

Smart fix or sneaky move? NTA commenters weigh in

Lying husband makes wife cook, but why not tell truth?

Lazy husband called out for not helping with cooking.
