Imagine being in a loving relationship for two years, only to have your partner suddenly drop a bombshell: they can’t marry you because you’re on antidepressants. That’s what happened to a 22-year-old woman who has been on medication since a tragedy in her life at 17. Her boyfriend, who has always been supportive, shocked her with his statement, sparking a heated argument between the couple. Let’s dive into this rollercoaster of emotions and find out what went down.
Marriage Talk Begins

Antidepressants Since Tragedy

Boyfriend’s Support

Shocking Statement

Confusion and Frustration

Dismissive Attitude

Heated Response

Angry Argument

Days of Tension

Unexpected Support

Boyfriend’s Apology

Research and Understanding

Naive but Good Intentions

Serious Talk Ahead

The Internet Weighs In: Was She Wrong?
After sharing her story, the internet rallied behind the woman, offering advice and support. Many suggested she should reconsider her relationship with her boyfriend. However, while she was at work, he sent her a heartfelt apology, admitting his ignorance and explaining his intentions. He did some research and now wants to understand her situation better. Though his initial comments were naive, he seems to have learned from his mistake. Now, the couple plans to have a serious talk to clear the air and move forward. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this emotional rollercoaster…
NTA. Break up with him immediately.

Millions of people thrive on antidepressants everyday & become competent parents. His argument is ridiculous. NTA

Taking antidepressants is nothing to be ashamed of. NTA.

Debate over understanding vs. paraphrasing in relationship arguments

Dump the BF

Aggressive tone causes doubt in NTA judgement

NTA. Relationship may not last.

A refreshing take on the situation

Debate over whether girlfriend should quit antidepressants for boyfriend’s approval

NTA, but does he really help you?

Supportive comment encourages ending relationship with judgmental partner
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Debate over prioritizing partner’s mental health in marriage.
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NTA. Comparing antidepressants to other medications shows his ignorance.
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NAH, but is it fair to judge someone based on their medication?

Heartfelt support for someone whose partner won’t marry them over antidepressants ❤️

Dealing with mental health in relationships is tough for everyone.

NTA for having mental issues and being on antidepressants, but boyfriend isn’t an a-hole for not wanting to marry someone on antidepressants. Communication needs work

Supportive comment reminds OP that depression is a disease, not personality.

Debate on whether refusing to marry someone on antidepressants is justified

Debate on whether AITA should command breakups, disturbing echo chamber.

Debate over mental health stigma in relationships.

ESH. Communication is key for a solution.

It’s okay to have dealbreakers, but love should be unconditional ❤️

NTA for supplementing a chemical to survive.

Overcoming trauma is possible, but medication is temporary. NAH.

Antidepressants are like insulin for diabetics. Boyfriend is ignorant. NTA.

Partner’s refusal to marry over antidepressants sparks fiery debate. NTA.

ESH for miscommunicating concerns about antidepressants and defining oneself by depression

Debate over girlfriend’s antidepressants sparks discussion on medication and love

Mental illness as a dealbreaker? Fiery debate on relationship standards.

Debate on dating someone on antidepressants and mental health standards.

Debate on starting a family with mental health issues.

Suggesting a civil conversation about antidepressants and expressing calmly.

Debate on whether to break up over antidepressants dependency.
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Man defends not marrying girlfriend on antidepressants, suggests she try alternatives.

Medication for mental health is not a personality trait. Let’s strive for overcoming.

Discussing fundamental differences in beliefs about medication before marriage

Debate on whether refusing to marry someone on antidepressants makes you TA

Honesty isn’t always the best policy NAH sparks debate

Couples counseling could help clear up boyfriend’s misconceptions about antidepressants

Fiery debate erupts over boyfriend’s ultimatum about girlfriend’s antidepressants. YTA?

NTA’s comment points out the absurdity of the boyfriend’s stance

Boyfriend’s refusal to marry girlfriend on antidepressants sparks debate.

Debate sparks over man refusing to marry girlfriend on antidepressants.

Reddit users weigh in on man’s refusal to marry medicated girlfriend

Debate on whether medication should affect marriage, NTA in scenario

Commenter questions article’s bias, sparks discussion.
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Supportive comment applauds research and working through issues
