We’ve all been there – receiving a gift that doesn’t quite hit the mark. But what if those gifts were actually for the person giving them? One man shares his story of receiving birthday presents from his wife that seem to be more for her than for him. Let’s dive into this peculiar tale!
The Hammock Mystery

Lawn Mower Birthday?

Car Seat Covers Saga

The ‘Gift’ Strikes Again

His Thoughtful Gifts

Custom-Made Hoodie

Moon Pendant Necklace

Framed Wedding Image

A Painful Memory

Galaxy Projector

A Pattern of Selfish Gifts?
This man’s story raises eyebrows as he recounts the gifts his wife has given him over the years – a hammock, a lawn mower, and car seat covers. All of these ‘gifts’ seem to be more for her than for him. Meanwhile, he’s been showering her with thoughtful presents like custom-made hoodies, moon pendant necklaces, and galaxy projectors. Is this a case of a selfish spouse, or is there more to the story? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this situation…
Communication issues in gift giving? NTA for feeling unheard.

Suggests buying ‘gifts’ for wife too to make her understand

Take the seat covers and use them everywhere but the car

NTA for feeling disrespected by thoughtless gifts. Concerning red flag.

Man receives ‘gifts’ from wife… but they’re really for her!

Stand up for yourself or return the favor for revenge

Sneaky revenge plan to expose wife’s selfishness.

Loophole alert! Gifted household items belong to household, not wife. NTA

Validating NTA comment about unthoughtful gifts from ex-partner.

Savage suggestions for revenge gifts. Communication is key though

Wife’s ‘gifts’ are really for her, NTA suggests therapy

Receiving ‘gifts’ from your spouse that are actually for them

Gift-giving should be thoughtful and personal, not just pragmatic.

Wife gives ‘gifts’ to herself under the guise of giving to husband. NTA.

When gifts are actually for the giver, NTA for feeling disappointed

Calling out misandrists in the comments

Ex-wife used gifts as a way to get free labor. NTA.

Suggesting a clever way to make wife realize her mistake

Birthday gifts for her or him? NTA suggests return!

Communicate and listen to her, set new rules or compromise.

Gifts from wife causing gaslighting concerns. Justified frustration expressed.

Wife’s ‘gifts’ are really for her interests. NTA deserves better.

Marriage advice: Communication and thoughtfulness are key ❤

NTA for feeling bullied into silence about wife’s bad gifts

Wife’s ‘gifts’ for husband are actually for her, NTA recommends revenge.

When a gift from your spouse is really for them…

Red flag alert! Gaslighting spouse needs a reality check.

Wife’s birthday night out raises questions. NTA for asking.

Spouse receives unwanted ‘gifts’; plots petty revenge.

Spouse’s ‘gifts’ for herself on your birthday? Definitely NTA.

User calls out wife’s selfish behavior, advises to splurge on self

OP deserves someone who cares about their well-being and happiness

Wife’s selfish gifting is not cool. Communication is key.

Gifts for you, but really for her? NTA. Discuss it.

Set boundaries and stop buying gifts for her birthday too.

NTA, it’s time to leave. She’s manipulating and gaslighting you.

Partner’s selfishness and lack of appreciation requires counseling.

NTA, but wife is selfishly disguising personal purchases as gifts

Curious commenter seeks information on star and aurora machine

Gender stereotypes strike again! ♂️

Stand up for yourself and confront her about gaslighting you

Don’t give in to guilt-trips, voice your feelings

Don’t let her take advantage of you! Try these tactics.

Wife manipulates husband’s birthday to buy herself gifts. NTA.

Get revenge with a gift she has no interest in

Buying necessities as gifts without asking is an a**hole move

Time to move on, my man.

Suggesting a solution to avoid arguments over ‘gifts’ from spouse

Questioning if wife even likes him due to inconsiderate gifts.

Married to a narcissist: when ‘gifts’ are really for them

Redditors predict a predictable update to come.

Self-care is important, seek counseling and prioritize your happiness.

NTA, but commenter suggests manipulative and selfish behavior from wife.

Empathetic comment supports OP and warns against narcissism.

Spouse buys ‘gifts’ for themselves? NTA, return them and communicate.

Suggestion to regift or return presents to save relationship

Thoughtful gifts for wife, but she gives terrible gifts in return ♂️

Married to a selfish partner? Time to face reality.

Sneaky gift-giving tactics for a self-centered spouse

Man receives fake gifts from wife, gets revenge. NTA.

Wife uses husband’s life events to buy things for herself. NTA.

Buying gifts for yourself? NTA strikes back!

Ex-girlfriend replaces broken items as gifts, shady or thoughtful?

Wife gives ‘gifts’ to husband, but they’re really for herself ♂️

Set boundaries and make a list for gift giving occasions

Nostalgic reference to The Simpsons’ bowling ball episode

Wife’s ‘gifts’ are really for her, no thought about you. NTA

Man’s wife buys herself gifts under the guise of giving him presents

Thoughtful comment on gift-giving, with a touch of disappointment

Gifts for her or for him? Birthday presents cause confusion

Counseling may help, but consider an exit strategy. NTA

Sneaky spouse? Regift their ‘gifts’ and call them out!
