Have you ever been caught in a lie and had to face the consequences? Well, that’s exactly what happened to one guy when he claimed to speak Japanese. Our protagonist (22M), who spent his childhood in Tokyo, was excited to meet his girlfriend’s brother (19M) who supposedly spoke the language. But when he tried to engage in a conversation, things took an unexpected turn. Let’s dive into the story!
The Tokyo Connection

Language Skills ️

Irish Adventures

New Relationship

The Elusive Brother ️♂️

Japanese Enthusiast

Excitement Takes Over

The Test Begins

Embarrassed and Demanding Apology

Second Thoughts

Seeking Answers

Lost in Translation
So, our protagonist was thrilled to meet someone else who spoke Japanese, but when he started chatting with his girlfriend’s brother in the language, things got awkward. The brother claimed to be embarrassed and demanded an apology. While the girlfriend and her parents didn’t think he did anything wrong, our protagonist can’t help but feel guilty. Is he in the wrong, or was it just an innocent attempt to bond over a shared interest? Let’s see what people have to say about this situation…
User suggests apologizing in Japanese to sister’s boyfriend.

Sister’s boyfriend lied about Japanese skills, called out by brother. NTA.
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Sister’s boyfriend’s Japanese skills put to the test. NTA wins.

Don’t mess with Japanese skills. NTA for testing him.

Don’t claim to speak a language based on anime. NTA.

Savage response in Japanese. NTA wins this round.

Sister’s boyfriend lies about Japanese skills, gets caught. NTA response.

Misunderstanding leads to language test, but no harm done. NTA

Excitement over Japanese skills leads to awkward situation. NTA.

Calling out a liar who got humiliated for his lie
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Don’t fake fluency in a language, especially to a native speaker

Caught in a lie but you’re NTA

Brother embarrassed, but NTA. Patch things up with him

Claiming to speak a language you don’t is embarrassing. NTA

A simple apology clears the air. NTA

Setting traps and playing games, NTA gets called out.

Limited Japanese skills, grocery clerk tries to converse in Japanese.

Proving language skills is a risky move, NTA made right call

Speaking a common language is normal, but lying isn’t. NTA

Testing sister’s boyfriend’s Japanese skills, he left, NTA wins

Impressed commenter praises OP’s Japanese skills and calls out boyfriend’s arrogance.

Embrace your enthusiasm for culture, NTA.

NTA, but apologize and offer to teach him Japanese

Don’t feel bad, he said he could speak Japanese
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Excitement over brother’s Japanese skills leads to no a-hole here

Encouraging response to language test, offer tutoring for interest

Calling out a liar in Japanese, NTA wins

Sister’s boyfriend embarrasses himself over Japanese skills

Enthusiastic language bonding exposes boyfriend’s lies. NTA.

Don’t pretend to speak a language you don’t #NTA

NTA catches lying boyfriend, demands apology, what a jackass

Apologize for enthusiasm, ask about Japan. NTA.

Don’t claim to speak Japanese if you can’t NTA

Calling out a liar’s language skills

Enthusiastic OP not at fault for sister’s boyfriend’s lie

Apologize for assuming fluency, but don’t alienate her brother.

Embarrassed boyfriend caught in a lie, valuable life lesson learned!

Connecting over language skills, but did he lie about it?

Sister’s boyfriend claims to know Japanese, but only knows 1-2 sentences. NTA for not teaching him.

Speaking a language and being fluent are not the same

Apologizing for exposing fake Japanese skills. NTA

Don’t let pride ruin a chance to learn Japanese

Assuming Japanese skills based on anime lines, NTA verdict.

Redditors share amazement at common language scenario on sub

Doubting someone’s language skills can backfire
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Learning a language is relative, but bonding over it helps

NTA for calling out sister’s boyfriend’s lie about Japanese skills

Offer to practice Japanese with sister’s boyfriend for better results

Calling out a weeb’s Japanese skills

Defending against a lying boyfriend with Japanese skills

When bragging goes wrong

Offer to help him practice Japanese if you’re feeling generous

Sister’s boyfriend claimed to speak Japanese, but got offended when spoken to. NTA.

Challenged sister’s boyfriend’s Japanese skills, no embarrassment intended

Lying about Japanese to a fluent speaker? Not the a-hole.

Being honest about language skills is important. NTA.
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Standing up for oneself in a foreign language

Speaking Japanese back to someone who claims fluency = NTA
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Calling out cultural hypocrisy

Sister’s boyfriend claims Japanese skills, gets caught, sulks like child.

Sister’s boyfriend claimed fluency, got caught, and promised silence

Excitement turns to disappointment when brother lies about language skills

Speaking Japanese to sister’s boyfriend: NTA. He volunteered his skill.

Testing Japanese skills reveals anime-inspired phrases. NTA.

Misunderstanding over Japanese skills leads to conflict

Sister’s boyfriend claims to speak Japanese, gets called out. NTA.

Sister’s boyfriend’s fake Japanese skills exposed

Suggesting to apologize in Japanese is absolute gold

Missed opportunity for brother to practice Japanese with fluent speaker

Trusting someone’s word is enough, NTA

Calling out a liar in a foreign language, NTA
