Man Kicks Out Girlfriend’s Gay Friend for Crossing the Line

We’ve all been there: someone in our life pushes our buttons, and we’re left wondering if we’re overreacting or if we’re justified in our anger. In this case, a 24-year-old man has been dating his girlfriend Jess for 2 years, and they’ve been living together for 7 months. Jess has a close-knit friend group from early college, including a gay guy named John. John has a history of making inappropriate comments towards our protagonist, and things recently escalated at a gathering.

Meet Jess and John

John’s Inappropriate Comments

Crossing the Line?

Girlfriend Finds It Hilarious

Drinks and Discomfort

“Lighten Up”

Implying He’s Gay?

Not Having It

Party Comes to a Halt

Standing His Ground ‍♂️

Accused of Homophobia

Inappropriate Jokes or Homophobia? ‍♂️

So, our protagonist is left wondering if he’s the bad guy for kicking out John after he made inappropriate comments and implied he might be gay. His girlfriend and her friends think he overreacted and accused him of being homophobic. Was he right to stand his ground and kick John out, or should he have just let it slide? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

NTA for kicking out friend who sexually harassed in own home

Gay man agrees with OP and calls out toxic behavior.

NTA OP, but girlfriend and friend John are for sexual harassment

OP is NTA for not wanting to be the target of offensive jokes ️‍

NTA. Red flag for GF not respecting boundaries

ESH. Boundaries were crossed, but OP’s homophobia is concerning

NTA…victim of sexual harassment. Girlfriend would be pissed if roles reversed.

Witty replies to NTA comment about gay friend.

Standing up to sexual harassment. NTA, girlfriend included

OP is NTA for kicking out friend who repeatedly sexually harassed him.

NTA stands up against sexual harassment, sparks important conversation

Commenter sympathizes with OP and advises communication with girlfriend

Respectful NTA sets boundaries, calls out inappropriate behavior and double standards.

Communication is key in relationships. Have you talked it out?

Respecting boundaries is important, regardless of gender or sexuality.

Standing up against harassment, NTA.

Straight guy kicks out gay friend for crossing boundaries

Double standards in jokes. NTA for kicking out friend.

Standing up against harassment isn’t homophobic

Standing up against harassment and victim blaming.

Setting boundaries with humorless gay friend causes girlfriend drama ‍♂️

Gay man defends man’s decision to kick out harassing friend.

NTA for kicking out girlfriend’s friend for sexual harassment

Setting boundaries is important, but is he being too sensitive?

NTA stands up against sexual harassment regardless of gender

NTA for kicking out harassing friend, but examine discomfort with gay implication. GF is TA for not stepping up.

“Classic” AITA post about not liking gay friend ‍♂️

Lesbian commenter supports OP’s decision to kick out girlfriend’s friend.

Standing up against sexual harassment, NTA

Gender role reversal exposes double standards

Defending against accusations of homophobia with NTA judgement

Double standards in sexual harassment explained with sarcasm

Commenter approves of kicking out girlfriend’s friend

Kicking out girlfriend’s gay friend for sexual harassment. NTA

NTA shuts down sexual abuse in a powerful comment.

Respect OP’s boundaries, NTA for kicking out girlfriend’s friend

Being called something you’re not is never okay. NTA

User defends man’s actions and calls out heterophobia.

Standing up to harassment, NTA. Partner’s reaction concerning

British commenter finds humor in the absurdity of the situation

NTA shuts down sexual harassment, good for them.

NTA for kicking out girlfriend’s friend for sexual harassment

NTA stands up against homophobic double standard and harassment

NTA stands up to homophobic joke, girlfriend doesn’t support him

NTA for kicking out girlfriend’s friend for inappropriate comments