Man Cancels Pregnant Girlfriend’s Wine Order: Hero or Control Freak?

Ah, the age-old debate: to drink or not to drink during pregnancy? One man found himself in the middle of this controversial issue when his pregnant girlfriend ordered a bottle of Pinot Noir. Despite her doctor’s advice to avoid alcohol, she craved a glass of her favorite wine. But when her boyfriend got the delivery notification, he cancelled the order, citing her health and the baby’s wellbeing. This decision sparked a heated debate between the couple. Let’s dive into their story…

A Request for Red

A Sneaky Order

The Order Gets Cancelled ❌

A Personal Connection to FAS

A Question of Autonomy

Feeling Controlled

A Second Opinion

A Truce, but No Resolution

A Heartfelt Apology

Understanding and Gratitude

The Great Wine Debate: A Couple’s Journey Through Pregnancy and Pinot Noir

Caught in a whirlwind of love, pregnancy, and a bottle of Pinot Noir, this couple had to navigate the choppy waters of autonomy, responsibility, and medical advice. After the man cancelled his pregnant girlfriend’s wine order, they found themselves questioning who was in the right. Despite their differing views, they sought a second medical opinion and eventually found common ground, with both apologizing for their actions. Yet, the question lingers – was he a concerned father-to-be or an overbearing partner? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this wine-fueled conundrum…

GF wants several glasses of wine a week while pregnant?

“Several times a week is far too much, your boyfriend is right and responsible. If you can’t handle not drinking, don’t get pregnant, the damage it can cause to the baby is awful – you’re really willing to ruin another human being’s, your own child’s, life over a few bottles of wine?”

“Holy f**k, she acted like a child! NTA for cancelling.”

Lost in translation? Girlfriend’s wine order sparks confusion and debate

Pregnant OP shares guilt and frustration over girlfriend’s alcohol consumption.

Hero or Control Freak? Girlfriend’s wine order sparks debate.

NTA: Drinking alcohol during pregnancy is never a good idea

The girlfriend’s behavior is immature. The commenter is NTA.

NTA for cancelling wine order; she endangered your child

Risking FAS for her freedom? NTA, she’s TA. ‍♀️

Is it safe to drink during pregnancy? Let’s discuss!

NTA. Commenter explains the risks of alcohol during pregnancy.

ESH. Ignoring doctors’ advice on alcohol during pregnancy. Body autonomy?

NTA: Commenter shares heartbreaking personal experience with FASD.

YTA cancels wine order for pregnant GF: Hero or control freak?

NTA: Balancing responsibility and personal choices for a healthy baby

“Better safe than sorry” – BF cancels pregnant GF’s wine order

“NTA I enjoy wine just as much as the next girl “

NTA: GF’s immaturity leads to canceled wine order.

NTA: Protecting the baby’s health, common sense prevails

Is this guy being a hero or a control freak?

Worrisome behavior: pregnant woman secretly orders alcohol against doctor’s advice.

GF is TA for prioritizing wine over the baby’s health.

NTA cancels pregnant GF’s wine order for child’s safety

NTA. Red flags for alcohol addiction. Kids’ health at risk.

Heartbreaking story of fetal alcohol syndrome and the consequences of drinking

NTA cancels girlfriend’s wine order, treating her like a child

NTA: Protecting your child or controlling your girlfriend?

NTA: Girlfriend prioritizes wine over unborn child’s health.

NTA-SO thinks they’re being treated like a child ‍♂️

NTA: Debating the ethics of drinking during pregnancy.

ESH: Both a little out of line, but communication is key

NTA cancels girlfriend’s wine order to protect future child.

NTA: Boyfriend shows concern for girlfriend’s health during pregnancy

“NTA. GF risks baby’s health. Celebrate after 9 months. “

Pregnant girlfriend’s wine order cancelled: Hero or control freak?

NTA- No reason to drink when pregnant. Why risk it?

NTA. Good intentions, but passive aggressive. Open communication is key.

Pregnant woman supports cancelling wine order for baby’s health

NTA: Following doctor’s orders, but is he controlling or caring?

Worried about daily drinking despite doctors’ advice? Share your thoughts!

If she can’t drink at a brewery, why order wine? NTA

NTA: Is the girlfriend’s commitment to parenting questionable?

GF wants wine against doctor’s advice. You’re NTA for canceling.

Heartbreaking story of a child affected by fetal alcohol syndrome

NTA: Multiple doctors say it’s fine, so you’re not the a**hole.

Preventing FAS: Heroic or Controlling?

NTA cancels pregnant girlfriend’s wine order for her own good

NTA. Responsible choices during pregnancy. No alcohol for 9 months!

NTA. Girlfriend’s excessive drinking endangered the unborn child.

NTA. Exercising bodily autonomy vs endangering unborn child

“NTA: Why risk your child’s future for a glass of wine?”

NTA: Pregnant woman’s wine order canceled. Hero or control freak?

NTA. No. Alcohol. Is. A. Safe. Amount.

NTA for OP, YTA for GF. Risking baby’s health is selfish

NTA: Brutal comment sparks debate on partner’s competence

NTA: GF is TA and an idiotic one at that, wow!

“NTA. Your girlfriend is TA. If she thinks several glasses a week is drinking in moderation then I don’t wanna know what a normal amount is to her. Not only does she think she can ignore the advice of two doctors, she also wants to go against your wishes and isn’t being a very reassuring mother/partner to you, given the past you’ve had. Like she can give up wine for 9 months. Jesus. If there’s even the slightest chance something could go wrong with the baby and you can prevent it, why even take the chance?

Being a parent is basically at least 18 years of making some sacrifices and acting in the best interest of your child. If she can’t even make one simple compromise during her pregnancy idk what to say.”

NTA, but ask OB for alcohol-free wine recommendations. Have fun tasting!

NTA cancels pregnant GF’s wine order, concerns for baby’s safety.

Quitting liquor for your child: NTA or control freak?

Debate over alcohol during pregnancy: cultural norms vs. medical advice