Imagine being invited to a big family dinner where the women are expected to cook while the men sit back and relax. Sounds pretty outdated, right? Well, one man found himself in hot water when he begged his girlfriend to uphold this sexist tradition just to make a good first impression on his family. The drama unfolds as the couple struggles to find a compromise, leaving them both questioning their relationship and values. ️
The Big Family Dinner

The Sexist Tradition

New Partners and Cooking

Girlfriend’s Invitation

The Uncomfortable Request

Making a Good First Impression

Drawing the Line ✋

No Compromise

Accusations Fly ️

Stuck Between Family and Girlfriend
As the man finds himself caught between his family’s outdated tradition and his girlfriend’s modern values, he’s left wondering if he’s in the wrong for asking her to play along just this once. With no compromise in sight, their relationship hangs in the balance, as they both question whether they can see eye to eye on this issue. Let’s take a look at what people think about this tricky situation…
“YTA: Expecting your gf to abandon self-respect for sexist tradition “

“Take your girlfriend to the kitchen, have her sit down and chat with your family, and YOU do some dishes or food prep work.”

“YTA. Expecting her to be an unpaid cook and servant? “

“YTA, prioritize your family’s approval over your girlfriend’s? ♂️ That’s messed up.”

“YTA. Your family bullies women who don’t cook? That’s horrible.”

“YTA. Are you in the kitchen? Or just ‘not sexist’ to women you sleep with?”

INFO: Suggests cooking as a way to combat sexist tradition

YTA – Girlfriend would end things, better run while she can!

“YTA. Playing along with sexism just perpetuates it.”
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“YTA. Time to retire this tradition.”

YTA for upholding sexist tradition. Cut ties with medieval a**holes!

Curious about why the girlfriend should endure unwanted labor and rudeness?

YTA insists on sexist tradition, GF refuses to go

User calls out OP for sexist request. YTA confirmed

“YTA. Hope her family makes you cook. “

User calls out OP’s contradiction and declares them the a**hole

User calls out OP for expecting girlfriend to tolerate sexism. YTA

“YTA. Perpetuating sexist traditions? Not cool. “

“GF sees through your facade. YTA. Relationship in jeopardy. “

YTA for trying to enforce sexist tradition. Create new traditions

“YTA. Sexism starts and continues – ‘just go along’ “
