Man Asks GF to Change Swim Time for Guests ‍♀️

Imagine having a lovely morning routine that includes a refreshing swim with your toddler, only to be asked to change it for the sake of visiting family members. That’s precisely what happened to one young couple when the man’s brother and his girlfriend came to stay at their place. The visiting girlfriend, who claims to be a light sleeper, asked if they could stop their early morning swim due to the noise. But was this a reasonable request, or should the couple have stuck to their routine? Let’s dive into the story! ‍♀️

The Morning Swim Routine

A Special Bonding Time

No Complaints… Until Now

Visiting Family’s Request

Swimsuit Discomfort?

A Polite Ask

The Dilemma Begins

GF’s Response ️

A Simple Change? ⏰

Tension Rises

The Big Question

Swimming Costume Clarification

A Morning Swim Showdown

So, we have a young couple with a morning swim routine that includes bonding time with their toddler. But when the man’s brother and his girlfriend come to stay, the visiting girlfriend asks if they can stop their early morning swim due to the noise and her being a light sleeper. The man agrees to ask his girlfriend, thinking it’s a simple request to change the swim time. However, this leads to tension between the couple, as the girlfriend feels it’s a reasonable time and their house. Now, the man is left wondering if he’s in the wrong for asking his girlfriend to change their routine. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

Guests uncomfortable with GF’s swimwear, but YTA for asking.

YTA for asking GF to change schedule. Brother can pound sand.

User calls out OP for asking GF to change swim time

Guests want to change household schedule, but GF comes first

Guests uncomfortable with GF’s swim outfit? Too bad! YTA.

YTA blames GF for brother’s partner’s swimwear discomfort. Apologize now

Don’t be a control freak, respect your partner’s routine ‍♂️

GF’s exercise routine disrupted for brother’s GF’s discomfort. YTA.

User calls out OP for being unreasonable.

GF’s property, brother’s GF has issue with swimsuit. YTA.

Curious about the guests’ stay duration and financial situation

GF’s house, her rules. YTA needs to grow up

Mystery body issue causing swim time conflict ‍♀️

Don’t be an a**hole, respect your girlfriend’s routine

Skeptical commenter questions if couple tried noise-canceling before requesting change.

Requesting GF to change swim time for guests makes YTA.

Demanding GF change routine and clothes for guests makes OP TA

Opinions divided on whether OP is TA or not

Shut up or leave: commenters slam harassing guests.

Don’t mess with a toddler’s morning routine

Guests should not make demands of hosts, YTA.

User calls out OP for expecting too much from GF’s house

Missing information makes judgement difficult. Consider all factors

YTA for asking GF to change swim time for guests ‍♀️

Bro’s GF rude for disrupting GF’s schedule. YTA confirmed.

Considerate but YTA. Respect your GF’s routine and decision.

GF shouldn’t change swim time for insecure guests. Brother’s GF TA.

Don’t mess with a toddler’s fun time in the pool

Guests staying for months should adjust, YTA for asking GF.

OP is NTA for not changing their life for long-term visitors.

Don’t mess with her swim time! YTA

GF has a routine, guests can wear earplugs. YTA.

GF’s swim time request for guests is unreasonable, YTA.

Man asks GF to change swim time for guests, YTA according to comment.

Guests shouldn’t expect hosts to adjust entire schedule. Why change?

Entitled guests demand GF not wear swimwear in her own pool. YTA.

GF’s swim time request sparks YTA comment. No mercy given.

GF’s swim time routine causes conflict with brother’s girlfriend. YTA.

GF’s swim time request denied, YTA for being unreasonable.

GF shouldn’t have to change her swim time for guests ‍♀️

Setting boundaries is important. Don’t let guests dictate your routine.

User calls out OP for being selfish and entitled. YTA.

Setting boundaries is important. Don’t let others sexualize you. YTA

Brother’s GF can rent a hotel room , YTA.

Curious comment seeks context for bizarre swim request

GF’s swim time is important. YTA for not accommodating guests ‍♀️

Support your girlfriend, not your insecure SIL. Cut visit short

YTA for prioritizing guests over your own family.

Setting boundaries with house guests can be tough ‍♂️

YTA wants GF to change her swim time for guests

Confusion over guests’ discomfort with OP’s girlfriend’s swimwear

Morning swim request backfires. YTA for disrupting routine.

Guests should be grateful, YTA for asking GF to change routine

Neighbor complains about toddler noise, YTA for insisting.

Guests imposing new schedule on hosts? YTA, respect boundaries.

GF accused of making noise, commenter calls YTA for favoring brother’s GF

User calls out OP for being spineless towards rude guests.

Brother and GF overstaying, YTA for asking GF to change plans.

YTA for not supporting your girlfriend and seeing through their request

Man gets called out for asking GF to change swim time

GF has the right to wear a bathing suit. YTA.

Body-shaming or just discomfort?

Guests need to accommodate host’s schedule. YTA for being unreasonable.

User calls out OP for prioritizing guests over family. YTA

Changing swim time for guests may make toddler irritable

User calls out OP for not defending GF from sexist comment.

YTA for asking GF to change swim time. Brother and GF?

GF’s swimsuit is not the problem, YTA for accommodating guests.

YTA for asking GF to change swim time for guests ‍♀️

User calls out rude behavior of swim time request. YTA.

GF’s swim routine is awesome, YTA for asking change.

GF is free to wear what she wants in her home ‍♀️

Grow up, YTA and brother’s GF too.

Don’t be a party pooper. Respect your GF’s routine. #YTA

Guests try to dictate host’s schedule, commenter calls out entitlement.

Compromise and bonding time suggestions for swim schedule conflict.