Highly Educated Woman Breaks Off Engagement to ‘Fun’ Fiancé, Chaos Ensues

Hey there, fellow Facebookers! Have you ever been in a relationship where you’re attracted to someone because they’re the complete opposite of you? Well, I’ve got a juicy story for you! Our protagonist, a 25-year-old academic powerhouse, found herself in a whirlwind romance with an extroverted, fun-loving guy. But when he popped the question in front of 50 friends, she said yes in the heat of the moment. Later, she realized that they couldn’t hold meaningful conversations, and she just couldn’t see a future with him. So, she broke it off… but was she in the wrong? Let’s dive into the story and find out!

Academic Background

Piano and Fencing

Opposites Attract

Exploring Together ️

Surprise Engagement Party

Reconsidering the Proposal

️ Disinterested Conversations

No Interest in Current Events

Breaking Up

Unexpected Revenge

Was She Wrong for Breaking Up with Her Fiancé?

Our academic queen found herself in a relationship with a fun-loving extrovert, and things were going great! But when he proposed in front of a crowd, she said yes before realizing that they couldn’t hold meaningful conversations. ️ She decided to break up with him, thinking it was for the best. However, the next day, her ex and his friends trashed her place and accused her of being an a**hole for leaving him because he’s ‘dumb.’ So, was she wrong for ending the relationship, or was it the right decision? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

NTA. Importance of shared interests in relationships highlighted

Cheerful comment applauds OP’s decision to end engagement.

Dodged a bullet! NTA and go to the police

Dumping a ‘fun’ fiancé? NTA. But watch out for chaos

Dodged a bullet with the ‘fun’ fiancé . File a police report

Educated but indecisive? Commenter calls out both parties.

Education matters in a relationship

Proposed without discussion? NTA. Better to break up.

Breaking off engagement due to incompatibility and high-pressure proposal.

Breaking off engagement to violent fiancé who lacks intelligence. NTA

NTA for breaking off engagement due to intellectual incompatibility. Some snobbishness noted.

Don’t look back, run, block and ignore!

Don’t settle for someone who doesn’t challenge you to grow

Staying with someone for intellectual stimulation is not enough. NTA.

Dodged a bullet , change those locks ASAP

Empowering reminder to prioritize personal happiness in relationships ❤

Engagement should be discussed, proposal should be a surprise

NTA: Breaking up because of lack of interest, not intelligence

Breaking off engagement with immature partner – NTA

Breaking up with a clueless fiancé who lives in a bubble

When being called an opportunist is a compliment

Educated woman seeks intellectual match or good person

Intelligence over looks? A refreshing take

Breaking off engagement to violent fiancé who trashed her place. NTA

Intelligence gap leads to broken engagement, NTA receives support

“NTA. He clearly doesn’t value *you*.”

Breaking up with ‘fun’ fiancé for incompatible values. NTA.

Dumped fiancé’s immature reaction proves she made the right choice

Breaking off engagement to violent man – NTA

Prioritizing values in a relationship and upbringing for future children ‍

Breaking up over differences, but trashing property is unacceptable

NTA. Report him to the police for trashing your place

Supportive comment suggests legal action after ex-fiancé’s destructive behavior.

Breaking up for any reason is fair, but don’t judge intelligence

Choosing meaningful conversations over ‘fun’ fiancé. NTA

Dumped ‘fun’ fiancé who trashed her place, NTA and good riddance

Congrats on breaking off engagement with unworthy fiancé!

Breaking free from strict parents leads to outgrowing ‘fun’ fiancé

Ex-fiancé trashes her home after break-up, she’s NTA

Engaged woman breaks up for good reason, ex-fiancé trashes home

Learning to appreciate differences and grow is key!

Explaining why education isn’t the only factor in a relationship ‍

Smart move! Avoided a future with a partner.

Educated woman breaks up with ‘dumb’ fiancé, faces property damage

Dodged a bullet with a tantrum-throwing fiancé

Breaking off engagement with grace, but ex-boyfriend harasses. NTA.

Dumping a ‘fun’ fiancé leads to trashing and a**hole behavior

Dodged a bullet Move on, sis

Debating the intellectual value of fencing on college applications

Importance of commonality in long-term relationship; saved from expensive divorce.

Realizing differences before marriage, NTA

Moving on from an incompatible partner, wishing her good luck

Embrace differences, it’ll make your relationship better! #NTA

Breaking up for different interests is valid. Opposites can attract

NTA comment calls out ‘narcissistic’ ex-fiancé with humor

NTA for breaking off engagement with ‘hot but ignorant’ fiancé.

Supportive comment reminds OP that she’s NTA, ex needs to mature

Breaking up with ‘fun’ fiancé is NTA, but trashing apartment is f**king problem

Choosing to be with someone ‘fun’ doesn’t mean putting up with toxicity. NTA

Not the a-hole for breaking off engagement with uncurious partner

Dating similar men makes you the a**hole.

Valid reason for breaking up. His friends’ behavior was unacceptable

Public proposals can be trashy and his reaction was awful

Breaking off engagement, NTA. Block anyone trashing you

NTA defends herself against crazy ex-fiancé, sparks mental health concerns

Importance of communication highlighted in comment on engagement party.

You deserve better than a ‘fun’ partner ❤

Corrupt oil industry in America fuels Russia’s war machine

Dump the dangerous man-child and take his beech azz to court

Dodged a bullet! Your ex-fiancé’s behavior was unacceptable. NTA

NTA: Being academically inclined vs. being engaged with the world

High-paid 25-year-old girl dumps fiancé who doesn’t know Ukraine

Engaging comment on the value of education and a supportive partner.

Ex-fiancé trashes her place after breakup. NTA, bullet dodged.

Fiancé’s friends trashed her house? NTA and deserve better.