Hidden Secrets and Unveiled Truths: A College Student’s Struggle with Mom’s Past Comments

A college student’s first semester should be filled with excitement, new friends, and the thrill of independence. But for our protagonist, let’s call her ‘Determined Daisy’, it was a whirlwind of a different kind. Battling a depressive episode, she discovered she might have ADHD-PI, a revelation that brought both relief and new challenges. But the real conflict? Her mother’s inability to understand her struggles and the painful memories of past comments. Let’s dive into Daisy’s story.

A Semester of Surprises ️

A Potentially Life-Changing Diagnosis

The Unseen Struggles of ADHD ️

A Friend’s Unwavering Support

A Mother’s Jealousy and Misunderstanding

The Painful Memories of Childhood ️

Confrontation and Confession ️

A Mother’s Response: Denial and Accusations

Determined Daisy’s Dilemma: Right or Wrong? ‍♀️

A Mother-Daughter Rift: Can Past Hurts be Healed?

Determined Daisy’s journey through her first semester of college was far from the typical experience. Battling a depressive episode, she discovered she might have ADHD-PI, a revelation that opened up a new understanding of her struggles. But the real storm was brewing at home. Her mother’s jealousy and lack of understanding, fueled by painful memories of harsh comments, led to a heart-wrenching confrontation. As Daisy plans to seek therapy, she’s left questioning if she’s in the wrong for holding onto past hurts. Let’s see how the internet weighs in on this emotional rollercoaster.

NTA: Overcoming parental ignorance and building a better relationship.

NTA – Psychologist explains the impact of parental behavior on kids

NTA: Mom’s past comments shaped your education, she needs maturity.

NTA. Childhood struggles with mom’s comments, but found understanding friend ❤️

Mom’s insecurity leads to a hilarious victim-blaming showdown

NTA, mom’s manipulative response violated your privacy. Self-diagnosis valid. Find support.

Strained mother-daughter relationship: past hurt vs. future trust issues.

Mom’s past control issues resurface as college student gains independence.

“NTA: People conveniently forget past hurts. It’s not water under.”

The lasting impact of parents’ mistakes and the burden of guilt

OP stands up to mom’s invasion of privacy.

NTA. Mom’s disbelief in autism, condescending comments, and discouraging stimming.

“Just admit you hate me”? Gross invasion of privacy? NTA!

NTA. Mom isn’t supportive. Try sensory tools and therapy.

Testing your child’s health: a parent’s responsibility or threat?

Defending against an offensive comment and asserting NTA status

“NTA. When a parent dismisses your feelings, they lose the right.”

Justified NTA: Mom’s not receptive, you’re not obligated

Forgiving but not forgetting: protecting myself from my mom’s games. ✨

Unforgiven: A heartfelt plea for understanding and trust

Mom’s guilt trips won’t change the past. NTA ‍♂️

NTA! Your mom sounds like a nightmare to deal with!

Strained mother-daughter relationship: past comments haunt, communication breakdown persists.

Impressive communication skills, but mom manipulates to play victim

NTA for handling your mom’s comments maturely. Good luck!

“NTA. Setting boundaries after years of trauma is absolutely valid.”

Haunted by Dad’s words: A 13-year-old’s weight trauma

“NTA! Your mom’s unapologetic attitude is an awful doozy.”

Setting boundaries with mom and prioritizing self-care.

Healing wounds and finding trust: NTA, scars remind resilience.

You’re not the a**hole for her past mistakes. NTA!

ADHD struggle: Mom’s not a safe person. NTA for hiding.

Mom’s self-centered behavior causes trust issues. NTA.

Supportive comment calls out mom’s behavior and demands accountability. ✊

Supportive comment, join r/justnomil for more help!

Empathetic support! You’re NTA. Trust violated, feelings berated. Stay strong!

NTA. Mom’s manipulative guilt trip: demanding open relationship without earning it

NTA. Valid reason, guilt trip instead of apology.

“NTA How can she expect you to forgive her? Bad parenting pisses me off!”

Mom baited college student, but they’re not the a**hole.

Finding solace in sharing stories of toxic parents.

Mom’s narcissism turns your problems into her own drama.

NTA, the damage lingers unless she owns up and apologizes!

Setting boundaries with mom: a**hole-free relationship with phone privacy

Mom’s betrayal: Trust shattered, neurodiversity insulted, trust must be earned

Seeking support from a mom who can’t handle it? NTA

Manipulative mom blames OP for hiding sensory issues, plays victim

NTA: Mom’s untrustworthy behavior and manipulation cause strained relationship.

Avoiding mom’s emotional manipulation by keeping important information to myself

Mom’s insulting comments and self-centered behavior suggest narcissism. NTA.

Struggling with mental health, family denial, and parental mistakes.

NTA- Confront your mom about her hurtful comments and demand an explanation.

Mom’s guilt, but no apology. NTA for calling her out.

Empowering comment: Take control of your own healing journey! ✨

When your actions contradict your desire for affection from others

Hidden Secrets: Mom’s past comments spark heated debate. TA or NTA?

NTA: Stand up for yourself and prioritize your own well-being!

Standing up for yourself against a toxic parent.

Mom’s lack of support and understanding can be heartbreaking.

Heartbreaking childhood struggles, but finding strength in friendship.

Emotional immaturity? NTA for not wanting her support.

Mom’s manipulative tendencies are causing a toxic relationship.

NTA. Explore r/ADHD for more support and insights!

Mom invades privacy, NTA.

Not the a**hole. Tell us more about your struggle!

Focus on yourself and be free!

Not the a**hole – a refreshing take on family dynamics

Empowering story of overcoming toxic parenting.

When your inner petty side takes over during family arguments

Mom’s past comments resurface, leading to gaslighting and snooping. NTA.

The weight of past words: A mother-daughter bond strained

NTA: Share your truth with those you trust and feel comfortable.

Empathy and anger: A heartbreaking struggle with ableism.

Not the a**hole, but what’s the backstory?

Doubtful of mom’s support then and now. Not the a**hole.

NTA: Bad treatment, no obligation to share. ️

Resentment from childhood can linger, even as an adult.

Mom’s dismissive attitude towards nightmares hurts, NTA for venting elsewhere.

Impressed by OP’s forgiveness despite being treated badly. NTA!

Savage response to mom’s comments sparks laughter and relief