Weddings are meant to be a joyous occasion, but sometimes the planning process can lead to some serious drama. One groom-to-be found himself in a sticky situation when his fiancée chose her close friend, a well-known adult actress, as a bridesmaid. With a staunchly religious family, the groom worries that having such a recognizable face in the wedding party could lead to unwanted drama on their big day.
Wedding Bells & Bridesmaids ️

The Adult Actress Friend

Recognizable Face, Unwanted Attention

Religious Family Complications

Fearing the Drama

The Request

Fiancée’s Response

Mitigating Risk ⚠️

The Groomsman Veto

Impasse & Accusations

The Wealthy Parents

Wedding Dilemma: Bridesmaid Drama or Family Chaos?
Caught in a tough spot, the groom-to-be is torn between keeping his fiancée happy and avoiding potential drama with his religious family. While he doesn’t disapprove of the adult actress, he fears the unwanted attention her presence may bring to their wedding. With his mother footing the bill for the wedding, the stakes are even higher. Will the couple find a resolution, or will their big day be overshadowed by this brewing storm? ️
Commenter calls out OP’s hypocrisy and religious family’s misogyny. YTA.

NTA if you prioritize your bride on your wedding day

Hypocritical religious family judges bridesmaid’s adult film career

Commenter questions groom’s family’s ‘staunch religiousness’.

Commenter calls out hypocrisy of judging adult actress bridesmaid

Commenter calls out double standard in excluding adult actress bridesmaid

Controversy over adult actress bridesmaid. YTA for asking her removal.

Engaging comment and replies defend the adult actress bridesmaid.

Groomzilla tries to control wife’s bridesmaid, called out by commenters

Commenter calls out groom for hypocrisy.

Commenters call out YTA for hypocrisy and religious BS

Commenter calls out groom-to-be’s insecurity over adult actress bridesmaid

Shaming a woman for her profession is wrong. YTA.
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Religious family? Tough luck. Don’t be prejudiced. YTA

Commenter calls out groom for prioritizing family over bride’s choice

Commenter calls out groom-to-be for catering to family’s demands.

Commenter calls out hypocrisy in groom’s request.

Don’t let hypocritical family ruin your wedding day

Commenter calls out YTA’s religious hypocrisy, sarcastic reply follows

NTA commenter suggests a polite out for family drama

Using porn is not a gotcha, YTA. Sex work is work

User calls out groom-to-be for being unsupportive and controlling. Yikes!

Commenter calls out religious hypocrisy and advises fiancée to reconsider. YTA.

Don’t judge someone for their job if you consume it. YTA
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Commenter calls out groom-to-be as hypocrite.

Red flag alert! OP needs to prioritize his future wife’s feelings
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Commenter calls out OP for wanting a cheater in party

Religious hypocrisy called out YTA comment receives support
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Commenter humorously points out the hypocrisy of the situation

Redditors support bride’s decision to choose her bridesmaid.

User calls out groom-to-be for close-mindedness and hypocrisy.

“YTA” comment calls out groom’s shady past

Commenter calls out groom-to-be for wanting to remove adult actress bridesmaid

Commenter calls out judgmental behavior towards adult actress bridesmaid.

Groom-to-be faces backlash for asking fiancée to drop adult actress bridesmaid

Commenter calls out groom-to-be’s hypocrisy with a spicy insult

Commenter defends adult actress bridesmaid, calls groom TA

Commenter calls out groom-to-be for hypocrisy and judgmental behavior

Commenter calls out judgmental groom-to-be for adult actress bridesmaid.

Commenter calls out the groom-to-be as the a**hole with humor

Don’t be controlling. Trust your fiancée’s choice of bridesmaid.

Veto power should go both ways in a wedding

YTA for removing a bridesmaid based on her profession

Fiancé prioritizes parents’ concerns over his partner’s feelings

Groom-to-be faces backlash for asking fiancée to drop bridesmaid

Comment defends adult actress bridesmaid, calls out groom’s discomfort.

Commenter calls out the groom-to-be for being TA and questions the validity of the family’s ‘gotcha’ moment

Commenter calls out religious hypocrisy, deems groom-to-be YTA 100%

Bride’s friend as bridesmaid? YTA according to comments ♀️

Defending adult film stars, YTA gets called out.

Calling out hypocrisy in religious families.

Commenter calls out groom-to-be for being hypocritical and defensive

Commenter calls out groom-to-be’s hypocrisy and shame towards adult actress bridesmaid

Groom gets called out for trying to control fiancée’s bridesmaid choices

Commenter calls out groom’s hypocrisy and prejudices towards adult actress.

Don’t be an a**hole, let your fiancée have her friend

Live your own life, YTA. Family can shove it

Commenter calls out groom-to-be for prioritizing parents over fiancee’s choices

Fiancé asks to exclude bridesmaid over family’s religious issues

Commenter calls out groom-to-be’s flawed reasoning and hypocrisy. YTA.

Let your bride choose her bridesmaid, YTA.

Commenter calls out groom-to-be for prioritizing family over fiancée’s friend

Religious solution to adult actress bridesmaid controversy

Don’t judge a person by their profession. YTA.

Fiancée willing to accept risk, groom-to-be should remove family instead

Red flag alert! Commenter calls out OP’s family interference. YTA.
