Family Feud Ignites Over Secret Engagement: Who’s in the Wrong?

Imagine finding out your single parent is engaged—not months before the wedding, not weeks, but hours before their fiancée moves in with their kids. Shocking, right? That’s the bombshell one 21-year-old woman had to deal with. Her dad, who she barely speaks to, dropped the engagement news on her like a hot potato , and now he’s demanding updates on her life. But she’s not having any of it. Dive into this family drama that has everyone picking sides. Will you be Team Dad or Team Daughter? ‍

Cold Calls and Colder Hearts

The Engagement Bombshell

Surprise! You’re Getting a Stepmom

A Daughter’s Heartache

Left in the Dark

Unmet Expectations

The Wedding Plan Sting

Emotional Whirlwind

The Big Sister No One Told

Six Hours to Family

Dad’s Hurt, Daughter’s Resolve

Independence Amidst Chaos

The Argument That Echoed Past Pain

Mom’s Legacy in Question

Daughter’s Defiant Retort

A Secret Relationship Revealed

Lockdown Love and Father’s Fury

Hypocrisy Called Out

The Trust That Was Broken

Dad’s Complaints and Daughter’s Dilemma

Questioning Petty or Principled

Family Ties or Family Lies?

The saga of the secret engagement has left us all wondering: is keeping family in the dark ever justifiable? This daughter’s story is a rollercoaster of emotions, from shock and betrayal to a fierce fight for independence. She’s standing her ground, but at what cost? As she grapples with her feelings of pettiness, we can’t help but empathize with her struggle for trust. And now, let’s delve into the collective wisdom of the crowd. Their insights might just surprise you or validate your gut reaction. Get ready for some real talk! ️

Emotional blackmail from dad, but standing firm against entitlement. NTA

Calling out hypocrisy! Living with strangers is not the same /ith a boyfriend \ud83dude0e

Traumatized by dad’s actions, NTA commenters support OP’s decision.

Unapologetic partner sparks justified defense, no a**hole here.

Stepmom’s frustration with new family sparks tension and resentment
a**hole

Stepmother and step siblings expected instant family, causing emotional turmoil
for all involved

Supportive comment, sympathizing with OP’s difficult family situation.

Dad should’ve handled it better, but consider his future role.

Son’s surprise engagement announcement sparks family feud. Emotions run high

Standing up for oneself with respect

NTA stands strong against hypocritical dad and his fiancee’s actions.

Dad’s selfishness sparks family feud! Who’s the real a**hole here?

Emotional neglect by dad, find peace without him.

Teaching by example . It’s time for an apology and change.

Surprise engagement bombshell! NTA – Keep doing what makes you happy

NTA asserts boundaries, others should respect without forcing their way.

Family feud unfolds as commenters condemn selfish behavior and lack of empathy.

OP’s father failed to apologize or offer support, leading to tension.

Standing up to hypocrisy! You owe him nothing

Kid’s not the a-hole for being blindsided by dad’s secret.

Emotionally unsupported by dad after mom’s death. Heartbreaking and unfair.

Standing up for yourself!

Choose your peace over his reassurance. Live stress-free
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Surprised wife agreed to marry without meeting kid? Interesting dynamics! //

Dad’s behavior was super not okay. Step-mom should’ve insisted on meeting.

Empowerment at 21: You’re an adult, remind him of that

too!

Betrayed by father’s secret life, NTA for feeling excluded and hurt

Emotional turmoil and shattered expectations – navigating family complexities.

Dad’s secret marriage sparks family feud. NTA for being upset

Clear NTA, but what’s the drama behind the secret engagement?

NTA – Standing up for your happiness is always important

NTA. Dad’s secret engagement impacts family dynamics. Kids left disappointed

Dad’s surprise engagement reveal? Not cool.

Dad’s actions are heartbreaking , leaving daughter feeling abandoned and hurt.

Betrayed by father’s secret marriage at 14. Unbelievable and hurtful

Reliving the drama from AITA – let’s spill the tea