Family gatherings are often the stage for some of the most dramatic moments in our lives. This story is no exception, as it involves a mother, her two sons, their significant others, and a heated debate over the title of ‘first grandchild’. Let’s dive into this family drama that unfolded over a Thanksgiving dinner. ️
Meet the Family

The Drama Queen

The Innocent Bystander

The Long-Term Lovebirds ️

The Big News

The Thanksgiving Dinner

The Baby Shower Talk

The Unexpected Interruption

The Mother’s Response ️

The Accusation and the Fallout

The Aftermath ️

The Awkward Dinner ️

A Family Feud Over ‘First Grandchild’ Status Erupts
What was supposed to be a joyous Thanksgiving dinner turned into a battleground over the title of ‘first grandchild’. As the family discussed baby shower plans for Tory, who is expecting her first child with Grant, Kelly, Jason’s on-again-off-again girlfriend, interjected that her son should be considered the first grandchild. The mother stood her ground, stating that Tory’s baby would always be her first grandchild, leading to Kelly storming out, followed by Jason. The rest of the night was filled with awkward tension. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this sticky situation…
NTA for not considering him your grandson, but YTA for delivery

NTA. Woman’s child isn’t your grandchild.
Replies: Passive-aggressive tactics and mental gymnastics ensue.
NTA, mother’s custody situation likely due to past drama and behavior

NTA, show love to the boy without promising to be grandmother ❤️

CONGRATULATIONS for setting her straight!! Best part was…

NTA steals spotlight, catches glare. Excellent way of putting it!

NTA asserts entitlement to first grandchild, sparking family drama. ♂️

NTA, OP! Totally agree. “Kelly” sounds exhausting.

NTA. On-again-off-again girlfriend expects you to be grandparent?
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NTA for messaging, but biased against Kelly. Drama-filled family dynamics.

Comment sparks controversy over truthfulness and tactfulness

NTA: You set boundaries and stood up for yourself

NTA: Clear explanation of why the commenter disagrees with the situation.

NTA, but could have been more graceful. Drama ensues. ♀️

NTA unless said in front of the kid. Drama-filled family

NTA. You barely know the kid ♀️

You’re NTA for not considering her child your grandchild

Acceptance with a condition: NTA, but is there more to it?

NTA: Son not father, baby not grandchild. She’s a treat

Conflicting dynamics: Kelly vs. Tory. NTAs choosing favorites? ♀️

NTA: Don’t let her steal the spotlight!

Setting boundaries to protect a child’s emotional well-being.

A unique situation where being NTA is justified.

Sibling rivalry over ‘first grandchild’ leads to wedding drama

NTA. Attention-seeking ruins special moment for daughter-in-law.

OP’s preference creates family drama. NTA verdict.
