Weddings are meant to be a time of love and celebration, but for one family, it’s turning into a battleground. A woman, who we’ll call Sarah, is considering boycotting her brother Ben’s wedding because he refuses to invite their sister Beth’s partner, John. You see, Beth and John have a unique relationship: they’re platonic life partners who even got legally married for practical reasons, but Ben just can’t accept their unconventional bond. Now, the whole family is being torn apart over this wedding drama. Let’s dive into the story and see if Sarah is right to stand by her sister.
The Unconventional Couple: Beth and John

A Legal Marriage for Practical Reasons

The Traumatic Past That Brought Them Together

Happiness Found in Unconventional Love

Brother Ben’s Disapproval

No Evidence of Manipulation

The Wedding Invitation Drama Begins

Ben’s Unfair Exclusion of John

John’s Importance in Family Events

Sarah Defends Beth and John’s Relationship

Ben Accuses Sarah of Manipulation

Beth’s Wedding Attendance Dilemma

The Family’s Decision to Boycott?

Family Wedding vs. Family Unity

To Boycott or Not to Boycott: The Family’s Dilemma
So, the stage is set: Sarah’s brother Ben refuses to invite their sister Beth’s partner John to his wedding, despite their unique and long-standing relationship. Sarah is now considering boycotting the wedding in support of Beth, who won’t attend without John. This decision could lead to Sarah’s husband and kids also skipping the event, creating a significant family rift. Is Sarah right to stand by her sister, or should she swallow her pride and attend the wedding despite the unfair exclusion of John? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Brother willing to cut off entire family over sister’s partner ♂️

NTA for boycotting wedding over sister’s uninvited partner. Brother’s reasoning is strange

NTA commenter calls out Ben’s creepy and petty behavior

Asexual love is beautiful and valid, Ben’s a weirdo.

Defending sister’s marriage, calling out downplaying and double standards.

NTA. Don’t let your brother manipulate you into his unloving stance.

NTA comment calls out manipulative behavior with clever insult

NTA. Stand your ground and get the fiancé on board.

NTA OP, skipping the wedding may be the only way ♀️

Excluding a partner is rude, but is boycotting justified?

Uninvited partner at wedding leads to PTSD and unresolved resentment

Asexual best friend is family, Ben can f**k right off

Supportive comment defends sister’s partner, calls out hateful behavior.

Non-traditional relationship defended with humor and support

NTA commenter calls out manipulative partner fixating on relationship, ironic.

Deceased mom would not be okay with excluding sister’s partner
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Choosing not to go is more about supporting sister ❤️

Choosing sides: NTA comment on sibling loyalty and peace

Wedding exclusion justified? NTA commenter defends married couples and questions sister’s asexuality

Supporting a valid relationship and condemning discrimination.

Family drama at weddings? NTA says it’s okay to skip.

Sister’s loyalty questioned in partner’s wedding snub

Brother’s jerk move: NTA stands up for uninvited partner

Wedding day is about the couple, not uninvited sister’s partner. NTA.

Supporting sister’s partner: NTA and family diversity

Supporting non-romantic partner over asshole sibling at wedding.

Supportive sister stands up for partner, calls out AH behavior

Defying traditional family norms, NTA supports sister’s partner

NAH, but brother is an a** for how he’s treating sister’s partner.

NTA calls out hypocrisy in emotional manipulation accusation.

Respect the wedding invitation, but you have a choice.

Marriage as just friendship/roommates? Interesting perspective.

Supportive comment defends sister’s relationship at wedding.

Excluding a long-term partner from a wedding? Not cool.

Debate over wedding etiquette and inclusivity ️
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NTA commenter supports sister’s relationship, questions brother’s stubbornness.

NTA thinks boycotting sister’s wedding over partner is weird

Brother has right to feelings, sister has right to happiness

Commenter suggests Ben’s issue with John is personal, not moral
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13 years together but still excluded? NTA, siblings can be cruel.
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Sneaky wedding for benefits?

Brother’s behavior towards sister’s partner is suspicious. NTA.

Supporting sister’s boycott of wedding for uninvited partner.

Respectful disagreement on boycotting wedding over uninvited partner.

NTA defends sister’s partner, questions relevance of their sex life.

Sibling defends brother’s partner, calls out his unsupportive behavior.

Curious commenter seeks answers about Beth’s situation

Supporting Beth and John is justified. You’re NTA
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Is Beth’s marriage just a legal arrangement? YTA comment sparks debate

NTA commenter calls out ‘prick’ Ben with a smirk

Beth’s marriage wins, brother loses. NTA comment wins!

Clear judgment: NTA. But what led to this decision?
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Supportive comment calls out brother’s lack of maturity.

Encouraging comment on prioritizing respect and caring in marriages.

Commenter praises OP for not resorting to violence.

Wedding drama: NTA wonders if bride-to-be supports partner’s ban

NTA stands up to exclusionary behavior with a clever comeback
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Excluding someone’s partner is a jerk move. NTA for boycotting

NTA defends sister’s partner in a heartwarming way

Groomzilla gets called out for uninviting sister’s partner.
