Imagine growing up believing your father was dead, only to find out he was alive and well, living in the same city. That’s the story of a 23-year-old woman who recently reconnected with her estranged father. But their reunion took a dramatic turn when she found out he needs a kidney transplant to survive. With no compatible donors in the family, all eyes are on her. But is she willing to give up a part of herself for a man who was never there for her?
The Long-Lost Father

A Shocking Revelation

An Unexpected Connection

The Unwanted Reunion

Angry Accusations

A Tense Forgiveness

A Desperate Plea

The Life-Saving Request

An Emotional Response

To Give or Not to Give: The Ultimate Dilemma
This young woman is faced with an agonizing decision: should she donate a kidney to her estranged father, who needs it to survive? Despite his absence from her life, her boyfriend Max is urging her to at least consider the possibility. But she’s adamant about not giving away a kidney, leaving Max angry and their relationship strained. Is she heartless for refusing to save her father’s life, or is she justified in standing her ground? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this gut-wrenching situation…
Medical professionals can protect you if you’re being pressured to donate ⚕️

NTA. Commenter advises therapy for OP and BF’s baggage.

Boyfriend’s unreasonable request: NTA, girl run!

Live donation is serious and not obligated. NTA.

Daughter refuses to donate kidney to estranged father. NTA.

Donating a kidney is a personal choice, NTA!

Respect your body and don’t sacrifice for an estranged father

Daughter refuses to donate kidney to estranged father, justified? NTA.

Don’t sacrifice your health for a broken relationship. NTA ❤

Commenter’s past behavior comes back to haunt them

Commenter supports OP’s decision and advises to reconsider relationship.

Donating a kidney is a personal choice, not a duty

No obligation to donate kidney to estranged father. NTA

Your body, your choice. NTA for refusing kidney donation.

Organ donation is a personal decision. NTA for setting boundaries. ❤

No love lost in this NTA comment section

Paired donations and coercion tactics discussed for kidney donation. ❤️

Don’t sacrifice your health for an old jerk

NTA. Donating a kidney is risky and not worth it.

Donating a kidney to estranged father? NTA, entitled family is.

Body autonomy is important, NTA. Max needs to respect that.

No kidney for estranged dad: justified or heartless? ♀️

Donating kidney to estranged father: selfless or selfish?

NTA daughter refuses to donate kidney to estranged father.

Donating a kidney is life-altering, estranged father has no right.

Commenter suggests a clever comeback to father’s money-focused request.

Donating kidney to estranged father: justified or heartless? NTA explains.

Donating a kidney is risky and life-changing. NTA for refusing.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/2f99c2cc-1400-4ee5-aec0-40c254e83618.png)
Donating kidney to estranged father: NTA suggests doctor/patient confidentiality loophole

Your organs, your choice. Max’s reaction is a red flag

How to protect yourself from being forced into donating a kidney

Daughter refuses to donate kidney to estranged father. Boyfriend criticized.

Donating a kidney is a personal choice, NTA for refusing.

Daughter refuses kidney to estranged father: NTA, bio dad’s karma.

Commenter defends NTA and acknowledges possibility of forgiveness

A heartwarming moment of support in a difficult situation

Don’t want to donate kidney? Tell the doctor and lie. NTA
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/4ba39dfc-3dcc-44cc-8e1c-c1ae84dd29be.png)
User questions the boyfriend’s stance on kidney donation, sparks discussion.

Donating kidney to estranged father: justified or heartless? ♀️

NTA for not donating kidney to estranged father. Painful history.

Comment section takes a wild turn with step-cousin dating revelation

NTA. Donating a kidney is a major decision, stand your ground.

Donating kidney to estranged father in his 70s? NTA, keep it.

Not her father, just her boyfriend’s uncle/father figure. NTA.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/5c728577-a3cc-4364-83ce-177eb1ed51b8.png)
Max’s request was insensitive and the father is not entitled. NTA
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/bda7b2ac-567a-441d-8b7b-5b4d9b486396.png)
Donating an organ is a commitment, not a favor.

NTA refuses to donate kidney to estranged father – justified decision

Daughter refuses to donate kidney to estranged father, justified or heartless?
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/10bed76e-adb0-45b8-ada1-50a26ea0ee9a.png)
Daughter refuses kidney to alcoholic, elderly, estranged father. NTA.

Black market kidneys? The wild world of organ trafficking.

NTA. Father deserted you, has alcoholism, and age gap is risky.

NTA comment sparks discussion about Latin American soap operas

NTA: Donating a kidney is a personal choice with risks

NTA. Don’t donate kidney to estranged father. Boyfriend’s pressuring wrong.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/b29b3463-e47b-474c-876a-d73bc1c0e769.png)
Daughter refuses to donate kidney, calls dad a ‘kidney digger’

Commenter refuses to donate kidney to alcoholic father, stands firm.

Daughter refuses to donate kidney to estranged father, justified or heartless? NTA commenter says it’s justified, and Max has audacity to ask. Replies reveal more context, including Max’s defense of daughter during verbal attack, but he doesn’t have the same blood type. Daughter still angry.

Donating a kidney is a big deal. NTA for refusing

Donating a kidney is a big deal, NTA for refusing
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/29fe7b8b-a332-41d7-8d23-45fa1d00f125.png)
Don’t donate kidney if you plan on having kids ♀️. NTA!

Commenter believes daughter is justified, no replies yet

Commenter justifies daughter’s decision not to donate kidney.

No obligation to donate kidney to estranged father figure. #NTA
