Imagine stumbling upon a secret stash that flips your world upside down. That’s exactly what happened to a 19-year-old, who found her dad’s detailed lists tracking her every move. From favorite foods to intimate details, nothing was off-limits. This discovery led her to question everything she knew about privacy, trust, and parental boundaries. Is this a case of a protective parent or a privacy invasion? Dive into this jaw-dropping story that’s as unsettling as it is unbelievable. ️♀️
A Fishing Trip to Remember

The Box That Changed Everything

Innocent Finds to Alarming Discoveries

Questioning the Unthinkable ❓

Too Close for Comfort

Dad’s Justification ️

Taking a Stand ♀️

Family Feedback Loop

The Verdict: Protective or Possessive?
In a world where privacy is a hot topic, this story takes the cake for parental surveillance. Our protagonist faced a dilemma that’s both deeply personal and universally relatable. Is there a fine line between caring and controlling? ♀️ This tale of discovery, confrontation, and the quest for autonomy has us all questioning where that line is drawn. Let’s dive into some top takes from the court of public opinion. Spoiler alert: Opinions are as divided as they are passionate.
Creepy dad behavior uncovered by daughter, commenter agrees NTA

Parental intrusion on personal life is not normal. NTA.
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Parenting records are fine, but tracking sex life is creepy

Daughter uncovers disturbing secret about overprotective father. NTA.
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Keeping track of birthmarks is one thing, but this…
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Overprotective or Over the Line? Commenter applauds daughter’s decision to leave.

Discovering a secret dossier causes pain and trauma for family.

Daughter discovers dad’s creepy dossier, moves out. NTA.
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Parent relates to OP, finds situation bizarre but supports her.

Daughter calls out creepy behavior, deems father ‘NTA’
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Family defends overprotective dad, but commenters call out creepy behavior
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User suggests possible disorder, reassures OP, and remains neutral.

Keeping track of sexual practices is creepy and inappropriate.

Father’s overprotective behavior crosses a line, NTA for feeling uncomfortable

Overprotective or over the line? One commenter defends tracking daughter’s every move with an app NTA, but others suggest checking for bugs and Spyware.

Discovering dad’s secret dossier: harmless or creepy? NTA decides.

Daughter discovers creepy secret dossier, NTA for being upset.
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Daughter stands up to controlling and creepy behavior of overprotective dad.

Disturbing comment about family pervert and incest. NTA. Check spyware.

Daughter’s discovery of dad’s dossier is creepy and overprotective.

Supportive comment encourages seeking help for overprotective behavior

Leaving an overprotective parent with a secret dossier. NTA

Empathetic comment validates OP’s decision to leave. NTA

Sister’s overprotectiveness pales in comparison to dad’s secret dossier

Trust your gut instinct. If it feels violating, it IS!

Red flags raised as commenter questions father’s surveillance tactics.

Curious commenter asks for more context about the situation.

Daughter discovers dad’s alarming behavior, family dismisses it. #NotTheA**hole

NTA. Documenting ex-boyfriends is not normal. Check for spyware.

Psychological profiles for safety or stalker territory?

Supportive comment encourages update on safety after controlling behavior.

Parental overprotection or invasion of privacy? NTA comment agrees.

Keeping tabs on kids vs. stalking: where’s the line?
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Parent’s secret dossier on daughter’s life and sex life is creepy

Redditor shares similar experience, suggests possibility of Capgras Syndrome. NTA.

Red flag alert! Commenter warns about potential spyware and calls dossier ‘horrific’.

Family support advised for NTA in secret dossier discovery

Being overprotective is one thing, but invasive tracking crosses boundaries. NTA

Father’s overprotective behavior crosses a line, NTA for being disturbed

Get out now! Check for spyware and change passwords

Daughter uncovers dad’s creepy dossier, NTA for being uncomfortable.

Daughter discovers horrifying truth about overprotective father ️♀️

Concerned commenter suggests tech repair store to sweep for spyware.

Daughter discovers creepy secret dossier, goes no contact with dad.

Mom kept lists in case I went missing, NTA for dad

Dad’s secret dossier is creepy. NTA for being uncomfortable.
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NTA and WTF is up with your family defending him?

Parental overprotection or creepy stalking? NTA commenters weigh in.

Daughter rightfully calls out creepy and inappropriate behavior of father.

Father’s secret dossier on daughter’s virginity is creepy

Overprotective dad crosses the line by tracking daughter’s virginity. NTA

Father’s overprotective dossier turns creepy, could be criminal. NTA.

Daughter discovers dad’s creepy dossier, commenters agree NTA.

Escaped from a creepy situation. Stay safe! NTA
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Daughter feels violated by overprotective parent’s secret dossier

Curiosity and concern arise over dad’s secret dossier ️♀️

Daughter rightfully calls out creepy behavior of overprotective dad.

Daughter calls out overprotective dad’s psychotic dossier, declares NTA.

Daughter discovers dad’s secret dossier, commenters warn of stalking behavior. NTA

Toxic and controlling mom is nothing compared to this dad
