Losing a spouse is never easy, and raising a child on your own can be even more challenging. A widowed dad (M38) is doing his best to raise his 13-year-old daughter after losing his wife two years ago. But when his daughter experiences her first period, he finds himself in uncharted territory and turns to his sister for help. However, her reaction leaves him questioning if he made the right choice.
Background: Widowed Dad Raising Daughter

Daughter’s First Period Arrives

Dad Feels Helpless

Calling Sister for Help

Sister’s Shocking Reaction

Dad Called Ignorant

Defending His Actions ️

Accused of Failing Daughter

Sister Stays to Help

Unresolved Tension ️

Dad Left Confused

Dad’s Dilemma: Was He Wrong for Seeking Help?
This widowed dad was just trying to do his best when his daughter experienced her first period. Feeling helpless, he called his sister for assistance, but her reaction was far from supportive. She accused him of being ignorant and failing his daughter, leaving him feeling even more lost. Despite the tension, she did stay to help, but the unresolved conflict has left the dad questioning if he was in the wrong for reaching out to his sister. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Father’s lack of knowledge on periods leads to embarrassing situation. YTA.
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YTA dad should have prepared and consulted daughter before calling sister

Single dad gets YTA verdict for not researching daughter’s period

Father criticized for calling sister during daughter’s first period. YTA.

A personal story about a supportive partner highlights why YTA.

Father seeks sister’s help for daughter’s period, receives criticism instead

Father criticized for calling sister instead of preparing daughter for period. YTA

Overreacting dad gets called out for making a big deal

Dad gets called out for not stepping up for his daughters’ period needs

Single dad unprepared for daughter’s period, called out for negligence.
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YTA for calling sister out of work . YouTube or school nurse could have helped.

Father criticized for not preparing daughter for first period. YTA

Man gets YTA for overreacting to daughter’s first period.
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YTA for making it weird and not just asking for advice

Calling sister for help with daughter’s period: Soft YTA.
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Embarrassing your daughter? YTA. Get her pads and call sister.

Father’s inability to handle daughter’s period: sarcastic YTA comment.

Father criticized for outsourcing daughter’s first period to sister. YTA.

Dad gets period panic, sister to the rescue. Gentle YTA.

Single dad criticized for not learning about daughter’s period

User calls out OP for overreacting to daughter’s period.

Dad’s late response to daughter’s period: YTA according to comment

Google it next time! YTA called out for unnecessary emergency.

Father called sister for help with daughter’s period, but YTA.

Calling sister for help with daughter’s period: YTA, but understandable.
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Redditor calls out father for not researching daughter’s period. YTA.

Men’s discomfort with periods is still a mystery?

OP was called out for overreacting and causing unnecessary panic
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OP criticized for not educating daughter on periods and embarrassing her.

OP may be YTA for not fully considering sister’s work schedule

Dad gets called out for not being prepared for daughter’s period

Men should educate themselves about periods. Son sets a good example.

Father criticized for not educating himself about women’s health. YTA
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Father’s reaction to daughter’s first period: YTA according to commenter

Being upfront is key. YTA for not telling sister.

Seeking help is okay, but making it an emergency was wrong
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Father seeks sister’s help for daughter’s first period, but misguided.

Dad overthought it, daughter just needed pads, chocolate, and care

Lightly YTA for panicking and making it an emergency

Using emojis: YTA, but not on purpose. Embarrassed daughter, sister, and self.

Father criticized for not preparing daughter for first period. YTA.
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Father seeks sister’s help during daughter’s first period, receives criticism.

Unprepared dad gets called out for lack of period knowledge.

Asking for help is okay, but don’t make it an emergency. YTA

Single dad’s proactive approach to daughter’s period wins hearts

Dad gets full YTA for not checking with daughter first

Father unprepared for daughter’s first period, sister calls him ignorant

♂️ YTA! Could’ve googled it or talked to your child first!

Kudos for asking sister, but as a parent, educate yourself too. NAH

Father criticized for mishandling daughter’s first period.

User suggests alternatives to calling for help with period.

Father criticized for passing off daughter’s period as ‘inconvenient chore’.

A commenter calls out the father for making his sister leave work for his daughter’s period, and urges him to do better in the future. Yikes!
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Dad’s unpreparedness for daughter’s period earns him YTA judgement

Dad overreacted asking sister for help with daughter’s first period

Father criticized for not educating himself on daughter’s first period

Father criticized for not being prepared to help daughter with period

Daughter’s period: YTA dad should’ve prepared, educate and support her.

YTA for not handling your daughter’s first period better

Making a big deal out of periods? YTA according to commenters

YTA dad gets advice on daughter’s period, forgets pain relief

Father criticized for mishandling daughter’s first period.

Parent criticized for not handling daughter’s first period properly

Losing a parent before puberty is tough. Pediatrician can help.

User thinks OP is the a**hole for calling sister for help.

User calls out commenter for not preparing for period, suggests apology.

A helpful YTA comment with advice for dads and daughters

Miscommunication caused unnecessary stress for sister. YTA

Dad faces criticism for calling sister instead of handling it himself ♂️

Sister offered help but berated him for needing it.

A helpful suggestion for a dad’s period panic

Dad seeks help for daughter’s first period, sister upset but understanding

Daughter’s first period causes dad to freak out, gentle YTA.

Single dad seeks help for daughter’s first period, criticized for reaction

A kind and empathetic response to a grieving father’s panic

Dad called sister for help with daughter’s first period, but YTA.

Calling sister for daughter’s first period: YTA or NAH?

Father criticized for not knowing basics of female reproductive system

Miscommunication leads to sister’s unnecessary panic. YTA.

Single dad seeks sister’s help with daughter’s period, gets criticized.

Dad gets called out for not being prepared for daughter’s period

Calling sister for daughter’s period emergency: YTA according to comment.

Single dad seeks advice on daughter’s period, soft YTA judgement.

Surprise period talk fail: Commenter says YTA for no warning

Calling it an emergency was disrespectful. YTA

Mixed reactions to a dad’s call for help on his daughter’s period

Dad panics over daughter’s first period, sister overreacts. YTA.

Redditors call out father for not taking responsibility.
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Father’s lack of preparation for daughter’s period draws criticism

Father’s lack of support during daughter’s first period. YTA.

Dad criticized for lack of knowledge on daughter’s period
