Picture this: a dad is trying to plan the perfect family vacation for his blended family, but his ex-wife’s refusal to sign travel documents for their two kids throws a wrench in the plans. The dad, determined not to let this ruin the trip, decides to go ahead and book the vacation without the two kids. But was he in the wrong? Let’s dive into this family drama and find out!
Meet the Family

A New Beginning

Blended Family Bliss

Ex-Wife’s Racism

Vacation Plans ️

Ex-Wife’s Sabotage

Dad’s Decision

Blame Game

Stepdaughter Accused

Friends Weigh In ️

Doubts Creep In

Wife’s Take

Talking to the Kids ️

Alternative Plans ️

Hope for the Future

Vacation Dilemma: Who’s the Real A**hole?
So, we have a dad trying to keep his blended family happy, a racist ex-wife sabotaging vacation plans, and two kids caught in the middle. The dad booked the vacation without the two kids, sparking outrage and blame from all sides. But who’s really at fault here? The ex-wife’s racism and refusal to sign travel documents, or the dad’s decision to go ahead with the vacation? The internet is divided, and emotions are running high. Let’s see what people have to say about this tangled web of family drama…
NTA, but gather evidence. Don’t let Kate alienate you from kids.

ESH: Dividing family over vacation due to ex’s racism is unfair.
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Protecting kids from toxic mom, plan domestic trip too!

NTA. Racist ex-wife using kids as weapons. Protect your family!

NTA, kids deserve truth. Blame racist mom. Promise future vacation.

Parental alienation and fighting against an unhinged racist parent.

NTA: Dad books vacation, but ex-wife prevents kids from going

Ex’s toxic behavior affects family vacation. Kids caught in middle.

INFO: Can you get a waiver through family court system?

Dad books vacation without two kids: Family divided, everyone loses

The lasting impact of a family vacation without two kids

Blame game: ETA vs ESH in a family vacation debacle ♂️

INFO: NTA, but consider domestic travel to include everyone

Parents feud over kids, both using them as weapons.

ESH: Ex-wife’s racism and OP’s exclusion both contribute to conflict. ♂️

NTA – Dad’s tough decision to exclude two kids sparks controversy.

Ex-wife’s racism and lies make you NTA for excluding kids

NTA, document everything. Show your kids they are loved ❤️

Ex’s racism ruins family vacation, but dad shares some blame

NTA: Ex-wife’s racism caused older kids to miss vacation

Domestic vs. International: A Blame Game with No Winners

NTA: Kids learn lesson about mom, blame her for trip

ESH: Kate’s the worst, but plan local vacations for now

ESH. Dad books vacation without two kids, causing resentment and division.

Plan a family vacation that includes everyone! NTA
