Imagine working hard for years to save up for your dream house, only to have it slip through your fingers due to a shocking betrayal by a family member. That’s exactly what happened to this couple, who have been together for 5 years and were finally ready to buy a house. They found the perfect property and put down an initial deposit, but their dreams were shattered when they discovered a dark secret lurking in the boyfriend’s credit history.
A Dream House in Sight
Mortgage Talks and a Shocking Discovery
Uncovering the Fraud
The Family Member’s Betrayal
The Debt and Default
What Was the Money Spent On? ️
Boyfriend Kept in the Dark
The Family Member’s Cover-Up ️
Dream House Plans Derailed
Two Options, One Tough Decision
The Alternative: A Long Wait
The Impact on Their Future
Boyfriend’s Business Dreams Crushed
A Devastating Blow
Boyfriend’s Conflict-Avoiding Choice ️
Family Member’s Rough Time?
The Girlfriend’s Push for Justice ⚖️
A Heartbreaking Dilemma: Justice or Family Loyalty?
This couple’s dream of owning a house and starting a family has been derailed by a shocking discovery: a family member has been secretly using the boyfriend’s credit card and racking up debt, causing his credit score to plummet. Now, they’re faced with a heartbreaking decision: pursue fraud charges against the family member and potentially secure their future, or pay off the debt themselves and wait years for their lives to get back on track. The boyfriend, who hates conflict, wants to let the issue slide, while the girlfriend is pushing for justice. What do you think they should do? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this heart-wrenching situation…
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NTA – Sue the thief and build your dream house!
Skeptical comment raises doubts about family fraud discovery.
Expert warns of long-term credit damage if BF pays debt. Check all records!
Family fraud exposes loyalty conflict in relationship.
Credit card companies are masters at tracking people down when they get behind on payments. Something is hinkey here and not just the relative. NTA
Encouraging comment to stand up against family fraud with warning ⚠️
Fraud discovery won’t be a quick fix for credit issues
Fraud affects couple, not just BF. NTA for feeling neglected.
NTA. Partner’s family fraud shouldn’t derail your dream house.
Partner’s attitude towards fraud may affect relationship, NTA.
NTA advises documenting financial transactions to avoid future credit issues.
NTA but BF’s refusal to push fraud investigation makes him one.
NTA charges family member with fraud to end financial abuse.
Charge them! NTA. Default affects credit score for 6 years.
Buying a house with someone who isn’t your spouse? Eek!
Watch out for red flags in relationships.
Family fraud discovery puts dream house on hold. NTA comment.
Navigating power dynamics in relationships.
Is the boyfriend putting his own convenience over their dreams?
Demand justice or leave! Don’t risk your finances and future.
Encouraging NTA comment advises filing police report for identity theft.
Is it fair to expect your partner to pay for family fraud?
Betraying family trust is worse than fraud against strangers. NTA
Consider the long-term impact of your partner’s family dynamics.
NTA. Boyfriend’s family fraud ruined his credit. Press charges ASAP.
Dump the doormat BF and find a man.
Don’t buy property or have kids with him until justice served.
Financial fraud in the family causing relationship strain.
Stand up for what’s right Don’t let fraud hold you back
Taking a loan for a business dream is a dicey proposition
Buying a house with someone you’re not married to?
Standing up for yourself is always worth it.
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Standing up against fraud is important in any relationship.
NTA. Suggests confronting family member with fraud and setting terms.
Beware of future family conflicts.
Beware of unresolved family conflicts before making big decisions.
Buying a house with someone who’s okay with stolen money?
Don’t let fear hold you back from financial security
Agree, it’s fraud. Boyfriend needs to press charges or reconsider.
Don’t let family fraud ruin your dream house . Stand up for yourself.
NTA. Partner’s conflict avoidance could lead to future family fraud issues.
Partner’s lack of action on fraud discovery raises red flags
Is it worth being with someone who avoids conflict entirely?
Protect yourself from fraud and identity theft.
Get involved! NTA for wanting to protect your finances
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Partner’s reluctance to confront family fraud jeopardizes shared future.
Don’t let family fraud delay your dream house. NTA.
Hold the person accountable or reconsider your future together.
Family can hurt you the most. Don’t hesitate to fight back.
NTA. Discovering fraud on credit report. Don’t marry a thief.
Don’t ignore fraud discovery for the sake of avoiding conflict.
Don’t rush to leave without understanding why he’s hesitant ♀️
