Brother’s New Girlfriend: A Perfect Stranger or a Hidden Agenda? ️‍♀️

Ever been suspicious of a new addition to your family? Well, you’re not alone! Our protagonist, a 24-year-old protective sibling, found herself in a whirlwind of drama when her younger brother introduced his new girlfriend. The girlfriend, a Norwegian international student, seemed too perfect to be true. So, what did our protagonist do? She did what any curious sibling would do – she turned detective! But things took a turn when she confronted the girlfriend about her ‘surrogate family’… ️‍♀️

The Close-Knit Siblings

Brother’s Love Life Rollercoaster

Enter the New Girlfriend ‍♀️

The Social Media Investigation ️‍♀️

The ‘Surrogate Family’ Mystery

The Dinner Confrontation ️

The Uncomfortable Revelation

The Power Play Question ️

The Brother Intervenes ⚠️

The Aftermath ️

The Sibling Fallout

A Protective Sibling, a Mysterious Girlfriend, and a Family in Turmoil ️

What started as a protective sibling’s curiosity about her brother’s new girlfriend soon spiraled into a family conflict. The girlfriend, an international student from Norway, seemed too perfect, raising suspicions. A social media investigation revealed her ‘surrogate family’ – a gay couple who had supported her during her studies. However, when confronted about this at a family dinner, the girlfriend became defensive, leading to a heated argument. Despite an apology, the brother is still upset, causing a rift in the sibling bond. Has the sibling crossed a line or is she just looking out for her brother? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

OP’s unwarranted stalking and interrogation of brother’s girlfriend is YTA

Commenter accuses OP of being nosy and judgmental. YTA.

Jumping to conclusions and getting upset? YTA for sure!

Homophobia accusation sparks heated debate about brother’s girlfriend’s friends. ️‍♀️

YTA: Cyber stalking, interrogating, and betraying trust? Mind your own business!

YTA: Mind your own business! First impressions matter

“YTA. Mind your own f*cking business.”

Questioning past relationships: YTA or just looking out?

OP accused of stalking and interrogating brother’s girlfriend. YTA.

Jumping to conclusions and interrogating someone? Not cool, YTA!

“YTA for being jealous and homophobic. Stop sabotaging your brother! “

YTA for stalking, but forming deep relationships can be meaningful.

OP accused of interrogating brother’s girlfriend based on Facebook post

Commenter criticized for being judgmental and invasive.

YTA: Interrogating your brother’s girlfriend? Mind your own business!

Inappropriate grilling? YTA! Mind your own business

Curious about why she’s being taken advantage of? Let’s dig deeper!

“YTA. Don’t dig into her past. Be happy for your brother! “

YTA and a creepy weirdo: interrogation turns off potential girlfriend.

Overstepping boundaries with brother’s girlfriend? YTA, but understandable motivations.

YTA: Mind your own business and stop being judgmental.

Jumping to conclusions? YTA assumes a hidden agenda.

YTA: Expecting a different response? Get a reality check.

YTA questions brother’s girlfriend’s past. Mind your own business!

YTA and kind of a creep. Apologize to the girl for real!

Invasive and tactless OP gets called out for making assumptions.

YTA for judging and interrogating the new girlfriend based on a single social media post. Support, don’t control.

YTA interrogates new girlfriend over Facebook, gets called out

YTA, stop stalking and questioning her. Butt out of it.

You’re the a**hole, but why? Share your story.

YTA for being too personal and creepy on Facebook

“YTA, let your brother find his own path. Support him. ✨”

YTA and jealous of brother’s relationship. Creepy behavior!

YTA: You stalked her, judged her, and made her life difficult.

Jumping to conclusions? YTA. Don’t interrogate strangers on Facebook!

Mind your own business!

YTA. Stop obsessing over your brother’s love life.

YTA: Boundaries needed. Focus on your own happiness.

“YTA. Obsessed with her? Apologize and raise concerns privately. “

Confronted her about a post from 3 years ago? YTA

Accusation of being the a**hole and toxic girlfriend history

YTA: You sound like a weirdo

“YTA, you’re determined to find something wrong with his girlfriend.”

Let your brother live his life

“YTA. Mind your f**king business. Don’t be a stalker.”

“YTA. Cyber stalking, personal questions, and insulting. Stay in your lane.”

YTA and creepy? Op, what the hell?

Overprotective sibling meets brother’s new girlfriend, sparks tension and judgment. ‍♀️

YTA. Seek therapy. Jealous? Stalking? Grasping at straws? Drama!

“YTA. Curiosity vs. her pain: A delicate family dynamic ‍♀️”

Stalking your brother’s girlfriend? ️‍♀️ YTA, dude!

YTA, your behavior is unacceptable.

Are you the a**hole with a Game of Thrones obsession?

YTA: Don’t judge your brother’s girlfriend without getting to know her

Chosen family matters! Don’t judge based on sexual orientation. YTA

YTA: Sabotaging your brother or just lying to yourself?

YTA comment: Accusations of incest and rudeness. Ignorance about situation.

“YTA for invading her privacy and interrogating her. Major apologies needed.”

OP’s approach to questioning the girlfriend is inappropriate and harmful.

OP accuses someone of being YTA, but why?

Calling out the a**hole: Gosh, way to put someone on the defensive. YTA. On so many counts.

Suspicion without reason? Don’t be an a**hole, give her a chance!

WOOOOOW. You’re the a**hole.

Jealous much?

Choosing family and privacy: No hidden agenda here.

“YTA. You behaved like a rude creep. What’s your motive? “

“YTA. Older adults mentoring and providing emotional support? Not inappropriate! “

“YTA for being a creepy stalker? Girlfriend’s revenge coming!”

YTA and creepy as hell

OP’s actions were uncomfortable and made them the a**hole.

“Older people can mentor and guide without being related.” ‍

Questioning motives: A cautionary tale about sibling relationships.

Mind your own business, YTA.

“YTA big time. Why would you be so against your brother’s positive relationship? Jealousy? Just no.”

Commenter accuses OP of being scared of losing brother’s closeness.

Sibling rivalry and Facebook stalking? YTA for sure!

Jumping to conclusions like a teen TV drama. YTA

Stalking her FB is normal, but don’t bring it up!

YTA: Don’t be the weird overbearing SIL. Back TF off.