Weddings are supposed to be joyous occasions, right? Not for this 24-year-old groom-to-be, whose family’s traditional views sparked a major conflict. His family, struggling to accept his choice of marrying a man, took things to a whole new level by trying to feminize his fiancé, J, a 23-year-old model. The drama unfolded over a wedding suit, leading to an unexpected guest list revision. Let’s dive into this rollercoaster of a story.
The Unsettling Offer
The Unexpected Surprise
The Uncomfortable Truth ️♂️
The Unwanted Pressure
The Unforgivable Betrayal
The Unbelievable Reaction
The Unthinkable Suggestion
The Unwavering Support
The Unresolved Conflict ♂️
A Family Feud, A Wedding Suit, and A Line Crossed
In a shocking twist, the groom-to-be discovered his family had ordered a woman’s suit for his fiancé, J, pressuring him into the ‘bride’ role. The family’s traditional views clashed with the couple’s wishes, leading to a heart-wrenching decision to uninvite the family from the wedding. Despite the mother’s pleas and the cousins’ insensitive suggestions, the groom stood his ground, backed by J’s family. As the dust settles, the question remains: Was he too harsh, or was it a necessary stand for love and respect? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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“NTA. Shutting down bigots like a boss! “
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“NTA
Holy shit your family is terrible lol. Have an amazing wedding without them; they will need to buy their way back into your good graces by being *decent human beings*. And maybe J could check into counseling to learn some strategies for setting boundaries — not that this is his fault, mind you. But he maybe needs some help with standing up for himself, or at least with being able to approach you with things like this and not hide them.”
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NTA obviously. Damn.
NTA: You’re a Saint compared to my reaction!
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Standing up against abusers. You go, NTA!
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NTA. You are my hero
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Setting boundaries and standing up for your fiancee!
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Standing up to family for fiance. NTA!
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NTA! Stand up for yourself and let them eat cake!
