Picture this: your best friend is getting married, and you’re one of her bridesmaids. Exciting, right? But when it comes to the bachelorette party, things take a turn for the dramatic. One bridesmaid suggests matching t-shirts for the trip, and everyone agrees. But when the shirts arrive, they’re all in XL – and not everyone is happy about it.
The Bachelorette Party Plan

Agreeing to the Shirts

Size Matters?

Confusion in the Ranks

Taking Matters into Her Own Hands ✂️

The Organizer’s Reaction

Matching or Not?

Others’ Adjustments

The Organizer’s Size

The Bride’s Reaction

Too Big to Handle

To Resize or Not to Resize: The Bridesmaid Dilemma ♀️
So, here’s the situation: the bridesmaid in question received an XL shirt when she asked for an XS. Instead of wearing the oversized shirt, she resized it to fit her and her friend, another bridesmaid. When they arrived at the bachelorette party, the organizer was furious, claiming they ruined the surprise by not matching. But did they really? The bride didn’t seem to care, and other bridesmaids made adjustments to their shirts as well. Was our resizing heroine in the wrong, or was the organizer just being overly dramatic? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Body positivity wins! Bridesmaid not at fault for resizing shirt

Insecure organizer sabotages bridesmaid’s shirt resizing. Not cool.

Bridesmaid accused of being size-ist for resizing t-shirts. NTA defends.

Fair point, why single out one bridesmaid?

Bridesmaid questions organizer’s motives for shirt sizes.

Bridesmaid’s insecurity led to shirt alteration drama. NTA.

DIY bridesmaid shirts cause controversy, but why the fuss?

Counselor shares funny story of oversized shirts at camp

Bridesmaid shares hilarious experience with controlling maid of honor.
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Baggy shirts aren’t for everyone, NTA for resizing.
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Empathetic comment defends bridesmaid’s actions and body positivity.

Bachelorette parties are a minefield. This bridesmaid went too far

Bridezilla alert! NTA bridesmaid shares better way to dress bridesmaids.

Bridesmaid’s shirt resizing deemed not the a-hole behavior.

Jealousy and humor clash in this NTA comment.

Matching shirts gone wrong. NTA for resizing to fit.

Body shaming at bachelorette party? NTA shuts it down.

Saving money or not, resizing shirt without consent is not okay.

Bulk ordering shirts can be tricky and costly, NTA’s dilemma.

Body positivity wins: Bridesmaid not at fault for resizing shirt

Bridesmaid accused of trying to make others look worse. NTA.

Insecure bridesmaid resizes shirt for party, makes others look bad

Bridesmaid defends resizing shirt, calls out organizer’s insecurity.

NTA. Own your shirt – she shouldn’t have decided sizes.

Bridesmaid stands up to organizer for shirt resizing. NTA

NTA for prioritizing color and design over size and cost

Bridesmaid unintentionally ruins organizer’s plan to wear baggy clothes. NTA.
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Bridesmaid resizes shirt for party, accused of being sneaky. NTA.

Body positivity wins in the resizing debate.

Jealous bridesmaid attacks smaller friends, gets called out. NTA

Bridesmaid gets backlash for resizing t-shirt. Eye roll-worthy drama.

Group T-shirts: NTA for resizing to fit comfortably.

Ordering larger shirts online can be tricky. NTA.

Organizer’s selfishness exposed in bridesmaid’s shirt resizing. NTA

Resourceful or Cheapskate? NTA gets free T-shirts for bachelorette party

Bridesmaid stands up for herself against selfish organizer

Body-shaming comment sparks backlash in comment section.

Body positivity wins: commenter supports bridesmaid, calls NTA.

Bridesmaid resizes shirt without consent, commenter shares relatable experience.

Shirt resizing drama at bachelorette party – NTA wins!

Bridesmaid’s body issue plot foiled by NTA’s shirt resizing

Bridesmaid resizes shirt for party, but bride’s body issues not yours. NTA
