Lena is a talented crocheter who loves gifting her creations to friends and family. She has a tradition of making shawls for family weddings, and when her oldest brother George was getting married, she agreed to crochet a shawl for his fiancée. However, when Lena was suddenly uninvited from the wedding, her husband decided to take matters into his own hands.
Lena’s Crochet Tradition

George’s Wedding and a Shawl Request

Lena Agrees to Make Shawl for Fiancée

Shawl Completed and Delivered ✅

Lena Suddenly Uninvited

Husband’s Anger and Shawl Retrieval

Leaving a Note

Family Uproar and Lena’s Reaction

Husband’s Dilemma

Edit: Taking Responsibility

To Give Back or Not to Give Back? ♂️
After Lena was uninvited from her brother’s wedding, her husband couldn’t help but feel that she was used for her crochet skills. In a moment of anger, he took back the shawl she made for the bride-to-be. Now, with Lena upset and the family in an uproar, he’s left wondering if he should return the shawl or stand his ground. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this tangled situation…
“NTA i would have taken it back. It was extremely rude to uninvite your wife but still “allow” you to come. No point giving the shawl back now. What’s done is done.”

Uninvited wife used for skills and mistreated. Expensive yarn wasted

NTA – You’re the rock star for standing up to this childish behavior

Defending wife against shawl thief! NTA, family can suck

Taking a stand against toxic family dynamics, but don’t discard the shawl without consent. Wife deserves agency and support. NTA.

Bride-to-Be’s self-esteem shattered by toxic ex.

Defending love wins! NTA for standing up for your wife

“NTA for standing up for your wife’s stolen handmade shawl “

Work tensions and family issues causing wedding stress

NTA… Standing up for your wife and her craftsmanship!

NTA. Your spouse’s family deserved it. Stand by each other

“Not all superheroes wear capes.. some steal shawls..”

NTA, but expose the abusive family, not just George.

Supportive comment encourages OP to stand up for themselves.

MIL prioritizes George’s happiness, even if it means excluding Lena.

Bride uninvites wife to get shawl; commenters suggest burning it

Wear the shawl on your date! NTA

OP’s wife uninvited from wedding, should have been the BIL. NTA

Supportive spouse stands up for wife. NTA for defending her

Defending your wife against family drama, you’re better off.

Heartbreaking family dynamics

“the shawl and I won’t be attending” NTA

Crocheters unite! NTA stands up for marginalized crafters.

Rude bride uninvites wife, loses handmade shawl. No regrets.

Family’s double standard: Lena uninvited, George’s behavior goes unchecked. NTA!
