Picture this: you’ve been planning your dream wedding for over a year, and everything is finally falling into place. The venue is booked, the caterers are ready, and your guests have saved the date. But then, your sister-in-law drops a bombshell – she’s pregnant, and her due date is dangerously close to your wedding day. She asks you to change the date, but doing so would mean losing deposits, inconveniencing guests, and giving up a date that holds special meaning for you and your fiancé. What would you do?
Wedding Planning Woes ♀️
The Perfect Date
Baby Bombshell
Baby vs. Wedding
A Sudden Request
Sister-in-Law’s Worries
Travel Troubles ✈️
Changing the Date?
The Struggle is Real
Emotional Attachment
Family Feud
Parents vs. Friends ♀️
Unfair Expectations? ♀️
Torn Between Two Sides
The Big Decision
Wedding Date Drama: Baby on Board
Our protagonist is in quite the pickle! After planning her dream wedding for over a year, her sister-in-law announces she’s expecting a baby with a due date very close to the wedding. She asks our bride-to-be to consider changing the date, but doing so would mean financial loss, inconvenience to guests, and letting go of a date that holds emotional significance. The family is divided, with parents urging accommodation and friends calling it unfair. Torn between wanting her brother and his wife at her special day and the potential upheaval of her plans, our protagonist is left wondering if she’s the a**hole for sticking to her original wedding date. Let’s dive into some of the internet’s top responses to this dramatic dilemma…
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Sister-in-law’s pregnancy causing wedding date drama ♀️
NTA! Stand your ground and make them pay for any losses
Pregnant commenter thinks bride-to-be is not obligated to change date
Bride-to-be not at fault for refusing to change wedding date
Understanding the sister-in-law’s perspective, but NTA overall
Bride-to-be refuses to change wedding date for sister-in-law
Don’t plan your wedding around other people’s life events ♀️
NTA, keep your date and let them decide attendance
Bride-to-be reassures SIL about wedding date, NTA.
Bride-to-be stands her ground on wedding date, not the a-hole
Wedding date feud between siblings, whose side are you on?
Bride-to-be refuses to change wedding date for pregnant sister-in-law
Your wedding, your day. Don’t let anyone change that!
Sister-in-law’s request to change wedding date deemed unreasonable
Bride-to-be stands her ground, demands reimbursement from sister-in-law ♀️
Don’t rearrange your life for them! NTA Offer live streaming.
Accepting brother’s absence due to wife’s pregnancy. NTA
Life is unpredictable, NTA for keeping your wedding date.
Bride-to-be stands her ground on wedding date amidst family drama
No need to change plans for pregnant SIL. NTA
Debating whether it’s easier to travel pregnant or with a newborn
NTA prioritizes many guests over SIL’s pregnancy, but considers consequences.
Moving wedding date makes you an a**hole? Money matters too
Don’t let anyone guilt-trip you. Your wedding, your date!
Wedding date is special, NTA. Sister-in-law may not attend.
Sister-in-law is TA for asking to change wedding date
Consider possible consequences, but you’re NTA for keeping date
Sister-in-law’s pregnancy shouldn’t ruin bride’s wedding plans
NTA suggests sister-in-law should have planned better.
Expensive wedding changes for sister-in-law’s pregnancy? NTA.
Virtual wedding suggested for pregnant sister-in-law. NTA wins.
Prioritizing wedding date over SIL’s pregnancy? NTA.
Pregnant sister-in-law’s wedding conflict resolved on its own
Wedding date conflict – NTA refuses bride’s sister-in-law’s request
Bride-to-be receives NTA support for refusing selfish sister-in-law’s request
The absurdity of the sub reaches new heights with this post
Honesty and understanding can go a long way
Too late to change date, understandable that sister-in-law can’t come
Planned for a year, NTA for not changing date
Stay unapologetically joyful on your wedding day.
Wedding date is non-negotiable. NTA
Have your special day! They can always zoom in
Don’t let a baby derail your wedding plans
Savage NTA clapback over pregnant sister-in-law’s wedding date request
Don’t feel guilty for refusing, NTA, massive AH if suggested otherwise
One day wedding vs 18 years of pregnancy? NTA wins
Wedding cost already committed, sister-in-law not a priority
Polite response acknowledges sister-in-law’s pregnancy, avoids conflict.
Wedding date is set, can’t expect it to change. NTA
Suggested compromise for bride-to-be and pregnant sister-in-law
NTA, why upset plans for pregnant sister-in-law’s absence? ♀️
Wedding date clash vs. baby birth – NTA wins
Pregnant sister-in-law wants bride to change wedding date? NTA.
A practical suggestion for accommodating family while avoiding conflict
Don’t change wedding date for pregnant sister-in-law. Have your wedding!
Parenthood is inconvenient, NTA. Pregnant women miss out on events
Pregnant sister-in-law should skip wedding if uncomfortable. NTA.
NTA: Bride offers compromise to pregnant sister-in-law’s request
Expecting the unexpected: Can’t plan around uncontrollable events
Livestream wedding and cake piece for sister-in-law. Heartwarming compromise.
Wedding dates shouldn’t be changed for others. It’s your day!
Debate over accommodating pregnant sister-in-law at wedding
Moving wedding date is a non-starter, and entitled guest rude.
Pregnant sister-in-law dropped out of wedding party, bride was flexible. NTA
Bride-to-be stands her ground: NTA
A supportive husband attends wedding while his wife stays home
Don’t let others dictate your milestones. You go, NTA!
Sister-in-law can’t make it, don’t change the date
Wedding date clash with SIL’s pregnancy – NTA wins!
Virtual attendance suggestion for pregnant sister-in-law dilemma. NTA.
Don’t sacrifice your wedding plans for SIL’s pregnancy. NTA
Don’t let a last-minute request ruin your big day!
Supportive commenters agree bride is NTA, suggest Zoom celebration instead
Bride-to-be not at fault, suggests live streaming for SIL.
Virtual attendance for pregnant sister-in-law suggested, NTAH
Changing the wedding date is expensive and disruptive – NTA
Wedding date clash with SIL’s due date, NTA for bride-to-be
Keep the wedding date, babies can arrive late
No obligation to change wedding date for pregnant sister-in-law
Being understanding doesn’t mean sacrificing your wedding day #NTA
Stick to your date, don’t let her selfishness ruin it
Stand your ground! NTA, save your money for the wedding
Wedding day is for you, not her. NTA
