Money matters can be a touchy subject, especially when they’re brought up in a group setting. Our story revolves around a young woman and her boyfriend ‘Dave’, who have found a way to navigate their financial differences within their affluent friend group. However, when ‘Jan’, a newcomer to the group, makes some insensitive remarks about their arrangement, the drama unfolds. ️
The Financially Diverse Friend Group

The Bill-Splitting Arrangement ️

The Newcomer ‘Jan’ Enters the Scene

Jan’s Girls’ Day Proposal

Jan’s Controversial Comments Emerge ️

The Birthday Dinner Dilemma ️

Jan Gets Uninvited

Birthday Drama: The Fallout of Jan’s Controversial Comments
In the wake of Jan’s insensitive comments, the birthday girl takes a bold step. She decides to uninvite Jan from her upcoming birthday dinner, despite not knowing the full context of her remarks. She doesn’t want to feel judged or insecure on her special day. Jan attempts to reach out, but our birthday girl hasn’t responded yet. All the girls were aware of Jan’s comments, but it was ‘May’ who brought them to light. Let’s see how the internet reacts to this spicy birthday drama…
“NTA. Jan’s judgmental behavior is ruining your birthday celebration. “

NTA uninvites ‘judgy’ newcomer from birthday, supported by boyfriend and friends

NTA. Uninviting ‘judgy’ newcomer for financial remarks

NTA: Jan’s mean girl behavior backfires as the group supports OP

NTA. Friends covering each other’s expenses, it’s all about reciprocity

NTA – Stick to your financial arrangements, tell her to b**t out

Uninvited guest gets called out for being judgmental

NTA. Shutting down nosy judgmental people like a boss!

NTA. Setting boundaries and not tolerating disrespectful behavior.

Uninvited guest tries to ruin birthday, OP stands up for self. NTA

Resentful friend’s classist remarks backfire, leading to uninvitation

Uninvited ‘judgy’ friend bashes OP’s finances, NTA for excluding her

NTA. Jan’s snap judgement caused unnecessary drama. Good riddance!

Math confusion and classism drama unfold over dinner bill split

NTA. Jan’s judgmental behavior and meddling is uncalled for.

NTA uninvites ‘judgy’ newcomer, but should she have?

NTA: Jan’s judgemental, entitled attitude ruins birthday celebration. Good riddance!
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Seems fair. Keep doing what you’re doing.

Uninvited ‘judgy’ newcomer gets called out for talking behind back

NTA. Jan didn’t have a problem letting Matt pay for her

Supportive boyfriend and friends defend against ‘judgy’ newcomer.

NTA: Generous and understanding friend with food allergies

NTA. Let people live their lives and learn from mistakes!

Splitting checks: convenience vs. tackiness

Last Updated on October 22, 2023 by Diply Social Team