We all love a good birthday dinner, especially when someone else is treating us! But what happens when the treat comes with a side of financial stress? One guy took his girlfriend out to her favorite Mexican restaurant for her birthday, but when she wanted a second helping of chips and salsa, he put his foot down. Did he go too far, or was he justified in his decision? Let’s dive into this spicy story! ️
Birthday Celebration Plans
Financial Struggles
HOA Troubles
Penalties Looming ⚠️
Birthday Dinner Time ️
Drink Orders
Hungry & Waiting
The Chips & Salsa Debate
Money Matters
Birthday Girl’s Response
Drink Limitations?
The Boyfriend’s Stance
Chips & Salsa Showdown: Who’s Right?
So, there you have it: a birthday dinner with a side of drama. Our financially stressed boyfriend wanted to treat his girlfriend to a special meal, but when she asked for more chips and salsa, he refused, saying it wasn’t worth the extra $5. The birthday girl was not pleased, questioning his generosity and asking if he’d also limit her drink choices. Was he being too stingy, or was he justified in his decision? Let’s see what people have to say about this spicy situation… ️
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